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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are a proper swinging couple, when would you say the other half was cheating on you?
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Not at all if its all open and everybody is happy, cheating is hidden and deceptive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When 1 or the other tries to meet alone without the knowledge of the other partner in a 'closed' swing coupling (ie only play as a couple)
It really saddens me when guys on here as part of a couple message me and ask for a meet on their own cos their OH doesn't know about their liking for cock.
I just think all that supposed openness and trust that a swinging partnership requires and depends on is worthless, cos at the end of the day it is not that open that they can be honest with either themselves and/or their OH. |
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By *tomCom OP Man
over a year ago
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"When the man contacts me/single women from his couples profile, suggesting we meet alone without the wife's knowledge."
But if they are swingers in an open relationship why would he not tell his other half? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When the man contacts me/single women from his couples profile, suggesting we meet alone without the wife's knowledge.
But if they are swingers in an open relationship why would he not tell his other half?"
cos for some people, there is no such thing as enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When the man contacts me/single women from his couples profile, suggesting we meet alone without the wife's knowledge.
But if they are swingers in an open relationship why would he not tell his other half?"
The replies to that question when I ask them are.......I just can't resist other women.....I enjoy the thrill of the chase.....It is more sexy sneaking about.......just can't get enough.......we don't have sex much as a couple anymore.......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree it's cheating when it's dishonest.
So if it's hidden, it's usually cheating. Yes, in my experience married men often use 'she isn't playing so it's just me, and I'll tell her I'm out with mates; as she doesn't like me going to clubs alone'  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When the man contacts me/single women from his couples profile, suggesting we meet alone without the wife's knowledge.
But if they are swingers in an open relationship why would he not tell his other half?"
Because there is a huge difference between having group sex and one party playing alone without the others knowledge.
Swinging and open relationships are not the same thing. |
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"Well my partner has a single profile and has been having parties behind my back with single females he has contacted on the site. What's wrong with me? Shall I dump him?
Susan"
Why think there's anything wrong with you? You could ask him if you could go to his parties as well. The dumping bit is a question only you can answer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I said this before cheating is when you do something that would hurt someone who loves you. If you know someone well enough you will know what that is and if you love them you wont do it!"
I totally agree with this....my other half, even though we dont live together,knows how i would feel about him meeting someone without my knowledge
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"If you are a proper swinging couple, when would you say the other half was cheating on you?
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We're a proper swinging couple and we don't cheat on each other - we're honest and wouldn't dream of compromising our relationship by cheating - what's the point?! Z |
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"If you are a proper swinging couple, when would you say the other half was cheating on you?
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When they break the rules. Be that meeting behind someone's back or doing one of their special things they keep between them with someone else. |
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Me and my girlfriend are a swinging couple. We have very few rules. The rules as follow are always safe sex, no over nighters and no meeting behind each others backs. If we kept meets to ourselves we class that as cheating. After all we are in an open relationship and have nothing to hide |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well my partner has a single profile and has been having parties behind my back with single females he has contacted on the site. What's wrong with me? Shall I dump him?
Susan"
This I would consider cheating and not something I would stand for, sorry.
As someone mentioned earlier on this thread, for some people swinging with their partner is still not enough and they will go behind their partners backs on this site. Only you can decide whether that is something you are ok with but for me I would be showing him the door. |
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Completely agree with those that have said secrecy.
Honesty and openness are needed in a relationship - if they go then that's cheating to me.
For me even more so if you're going to be living this lifestyle, f I can't trust him 100% then I don't think I'd feel as confident playing with others, it would allow insecurities to kick in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally dont understand what people dont understand as cheating..
^ This.
It's self-explanatory really!  "
yes I thought it was pretty evident...someone else misunderstood my post it appears lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When 1 or the other tries to meet alone without the knowledge of the other partner in a 'closed' swing coupling (ie only play as a couple)
It really saddens me when guys on here as part of a couple message me and ask for a meet on their own cos their OH doesn't know about their liking for cock.
I just think all that supposed openness and trust that a swinging partnership requires and depends on is worthless, cos at the end of the day it is not that open that they can be honest with either themselves and/or their OH."
Agreed, think of the fun if they knew! Lol |
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"Well my partner has a single profile and has been having parties behind my back with single females he has contacted on the site. What's wrong with me? Shall I dump him?
Susan"
is that a serious question? if it is then it depends on how you feel about it i guess.
i spent 3 years playing tit for tat with my ex and it wasnt fun! |
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"Well my partner has a single profile and has been having parties behind my back with single females he has contacted on the site. What's wrong with me? Shall I dump him?
Susan"
Can't answer your questions I'm afraid but if it was me is lick him in to touch tertiary education and all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well my partner has a single profile and has been having parties behind my back with single females he has contacted on the site. What's wrong with me? Shall I dump him?
Susan
Can't answer your questions I'm afraid but if it was me is lick him in to touch tertiary education and all."
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"Well my partner has a single profile and has been having parties behind my back with single females he has contacted on the site. What's wrong with me? Shall I dump him?
Susan
Can't answer your questions I'm afraid but if it was me is lick him in to touch tertiary education and all.
@lick "
I know lol I meant kick of course but was on my phone with autocorrect which is a great help in making me look even more daft than I already am |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well my partner has a single profile and has been having parties behind my back with single females he has contacted on the site. What's wrong with me? Shall I dump him?
Susan
Can't answer your questions I'm afraid but if it was me is lick him in to touch tertiary education and all.
@lick
I know lol I meant kick of course but was on my phone with autocorrect which is a great help in making me look even more daft than I already am "
Lord! There'd be guys cheating left, right and centre if they all thought they might get licked into touch as a result
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging is swinging and seriously good fun when the right people meet, even become occasional/regular friends.
Sadly for some swinging is used a a cover for their their lying, sneaking, snake like stuff.
The latter is not the fault of swinging though. It's the way some treat everyone around them as the opportunity arises in all aspects of life.
In contrast there's plenty of good people about with massive respect for themselves equally towards others.
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