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By *hazkiand OP Couple
over a year ago
crawley |
after 3 weekends of having our time wasted by couples who chat all week about meeting then on the day of the meet stop talking! im begining to think our profile is somehow scareing them, iv said to ian i think we should either remove our pics and hide our varis, and see how we get on, but ian said that we would be hiding our real selves, but im at the point now where im thinking whats the point we only get the chance to play at weekends really so its really frustrating getting messed about, any ideas?? xx |
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By *issMidsWoman
over a year ago
North Notts |
Pics and profile look great, i can only think you have been unlucky enough to get crap meets lol. We mainly meet at clubs, so maybe thats the way to go if there are some good ones near you. Bonus is if they back out the night isnt wasted and who knows what naughtyness you can get up to with the others there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pics and profile look great, i can only think you have been unlucky enough to get crap meets lol. We mainly meet at clubs, so maybe thats the way to go if there are some good ones near you. Bonus is if they back out the night isnt wasted and who knows what naughtyness you can get up to with the others there "
Totally agree. You both look really nice.. Can't see anything that would scare someone off xxxx |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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If they've been chatting happily then disappear it's not you that's at fault, it's them! Probably just been unlucky and you'll have the next few weekends full of fab meets with fab people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"after 3 weekends of having our time wasted by couples who chat all week about meeting then on the day of the meet stop talking! im begining to think our profile is somehow scareing them, iv said to ian i think we should either remove our pics and hide our varis, and see how we get on, but ian said that we would be hiding our real selves, but im at the point now where im thinking whats the point we only get the chance to play at weekends really so its really frustrating getting messed about, any ideas?? xx"
You will always get people with cold feet, people who aren't what they say they are and others who are not looking to meet in reality its a matter of sifting through. I know a lot of couples who go down the route of an early phone call and get far higher success with people once they have talked a few times on the phone.  |
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By *hazkiand OP Couple
over a year ago
crawley |
"you know we think you look like a very sexy couple...
totally their loss!
I agree, maybe go to a club as a next meet so there's a backup?
Don't change who you are xxx thanks hunni see you soon xxx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've always used an early female to female phone call as part of our screening process. Not foolproof obviously and we had something similar happen to us so know how annoying it can be but hey ho such is life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i just had an odd one too.
had arranged to meet a fella tonight for a social.next thing i know he is posting in events for a meet the same day.wtf that all about.
when i asked him,he said could i do an hour this afternoon.
think you can all guess my answer.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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simple...dont chat all week
and who knows whats being discussed during the week..its not the best idea in my opinion for people to be chatting to get to really know eachother via internet/phones
secure the meet and go..have as little chat as possible...and of course..have backup people to be chatting with
and honestly..I'm just really unaware of any meets I've had over the years where I've thought once the meet was planned theyd be backing out..again, sorry if it sounds harsh...but I think there may be a poor choice in who has been selected..or the couples are failing to communicate properly(normally the case one side pushing an unwilling partner)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i just had an odd one too.
had arranged to meet a fella tonight for a social.next thing i know he is posting in events for a meet the same day.wtf that all about.
when i asked him,he said could i do an hour this afternoon.
think you can all guess my answer. "
was it YES!!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thanks for your reply, was begining to think we were invisible on here to lol,
we have been thinking about the club idea as you say at least the whole evening wouldnt be wasted xx again thanks xx"
no the feeling had mines cancel to
an got block after it, just going to socials now n take it fae there,
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i just had an odd one too.
had arranged to meet a fella tonight for a social.next thing i know he is posting in events for a meet the same day.wtf that all about.
when i asked him,he said could i do an hour this afternoon.
think you can all guess my answer.
was it YES!!!!! "
nope.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"after 3 weekends of having our time wasted by couples who chat all week about meeting then on the day of the meet stop talking! im begining to think our profile is somehow scareing them, iv said to ian i think we should either remove our pics and hide our varis, and see how we get on, but ian said that we would be hiding our real selves, but im at the point now where im thinking whats the point we only get the chance to play at weekends really so its really frustrating getting messed about, any ideas?? xx"
But you have veris on your profile from two different people from only two weeks ago ? |
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