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What am i doing wrong?
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I have been a member of fab for well over a year ive had meets but just lately i cannot get anyones attention, im not sure if its my profile or the messages i send people i think i may be too polite!!
Any guidance would really be appreciated
Ian |
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"I have been a member of fab for well over a year ive had meets but just lately i cannot get anyones attention, im not sure if its my profile or the messages i send people i think i may be too polite!!
Any guidance would really be appreciated
Ian"
stop trying dont take things to serious an have a laff then you just might never no  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I appreciate u don't meet males - but - for me if ya spelt discreet correctly it would be a plus. But then 'i'm fussy bout nonsensical trivials like that!  |
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"Thanks everyone for the advice its really appreciated you are all great people
we know
Yes EVEN ME lol  "
Especially you!! You could be eradicated from the face of this earth....like...now!! scary scary!!!  |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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Any guidance would really be appreciated
Ian"
Much has been written elsewhere about the use of 'professional' in profiles and about single males who cannot accommodate. I won't repeat it.
However, your preferred age range (18-99) and your extensive list of interests might be thought by some, less charitable Fabsters, as smacking a bit of desperation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks everyone for the advice its really appreciated you are all great people
we know
Yes EVEN ME lol
Especially you!! You could be eradicated from the face of this earth....like...now!! scary scary!!! "
I come in peace........... I'll be leaving in pieces lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe remove the cock shot from public view! I seems most ladies seem to get more turned off by them than on by them. I'd go for the less is more on that approach. good luck though |
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Unfortunately your profile is generic. On a site where there are articulate, witty, engaging men, you'll be overlooked.
We are all unique: let us know about YOU: what do YOU want, what are YOU bringing to the party? Don't put what you think people want to hear: it's dull!
Good luck! |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
A Home Among The Woodland Creatures |
"I have been a member of fab for well over a year ive had meets but just lately i cannot get anyones attention, im not sure if its my profile or the messages i send people i think i may be too polite!!
Any guidance would really be appreciated
Ian"
You've had at least 7 more meets than the average person or couple who joins fab - what's the problem? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1 - Avoid telling people you are struggling to get a meet.
2 - Punch below your weight."
Why punch below his weight?...he may have standards and not just view any hole as a goal like some on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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cant accom...
the smiling pic on right hand side just looks false
have some proper body pics
ur in and around london etc...check local swing clubs
ur verifications do seem a bit way too dated...it really does make people wonder why they are so far n few between, given the time uve been on fab
the cock shot...well it will attract whoever it attracts...never understood the need to hide a body part really...especially one that saves the fucking arsing around messaging what the cock might be like...just dont send it in first mails ffs(unless specifically asked for) |
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By *essesCouple
over a year ago
nottingham |
Like your photos and personally I like to see a cock shot because they are all different and don't believe anyone who says they're not! The rest of your profile is a bit boring though and doesn't really stand out.
Good luck.
Lisa |
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Still generic and like most profiles on here. Personally, my spidey senses start twitching when I see can't accommodate and discrete on the same profile, let alone as a user name, but hey, I'm a cynic! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hi guys... been here for few months now still didn't manage to meet anybody. please help!!!!"
Your profile is 4 lines long and apart from being poorly spelt (whats a bang bang?) tells me nothing about you. Can't accomodate and poor pics. Address those issues and you might improve your chances. |
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Ah ha! Someone who listens to advice and takes action! I do hope none of it is copied though. Also I prefer the non smiley pic.
Good luck and happy swinging, I think you will have success with your profile.  |
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