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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Advice please
So you've met a really nice couple and you wish to remain swing friends but ......
I don't wish to play with the male .
In any other situation i would just say not my type to play with .
We as a couple never take one for the team .
How to word without offending ???
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Can you not just say, not interested in anything sexual, would love to become friends and remain in contact for meals etc? As we enjoyed your company!
I'd just be honest and if it doesn't happen then at least you did try x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We would just put it in their hands, explain your happy to be friends and socalise, if they say no its theor loss of two potential good friends! good luck! x  |
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Take things one step at a time. Tell them your boundaries about not having sex now, as you're not leading them on. One for the team does not need to be mentioned, just that you two won't be playing with them.
Invite them to meet socially etc. It's likely too early for anyone to commit to a long term friendship at this point. Then just take social meet ups a day at a time, even if at clubs etc.
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