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When do you meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi there. Been a member of the site for a while but one of the 1st times I've posted on the forum. Here's what's on my mind.

Partner & I have always met up with someone for some 3sum fun at weekends before. This is because we like a drink and can relax the next day. The 3rd person also has the option of staying over as well.

However, this seems to be cutting down on the number of people we can play with.

Just wondering if you've met up with someone on a "school night" then went to work the next day. How was it for you??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We don't go to school

We work from home

We don't have kids

We have a 5 bedroom house and can accommodate

Available 24/7

Sadly others are not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Meets in the week are next to impossible for us i work 2-10 tuesday to friday and lolly works 7 am till 4 pm monday to sat with weds being her day off. We too feel this cuts out alot of meets for us ( though we have found the ones that only meet in the week tend to be more fuck buds and are often married but not to each other lol). We have gone as far as to book time off to do a meet in the week and its hell going to work the next day, the night was not as good as it could be as we were clock watching most of the evening

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi there. Been a member of the site for a while but one of the 1st times I've posted on the forum. Here's what's on my mind.

However, this seems to be cutting down on the number of people we can play with.

Just wondering if you've met up with someone on a "school night" then went to work the next day. How was it for you??"

We are the opposite never stay over, and prefer to play then leave and not too much drink involved

Don,t think anyones right or wrong just depends which you like best..as long as its enjoyed by all its ok

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have met on a "school night", they can be fine.

BUT

You can find yourself doing a bit of clockwatching.

At the end of the day every meet is what you make it, regardless of when it happens.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don't go to school

We work from home

We don't have kids

We have a 5 bedroom house and can accommodate

Available 24/7

Sadly others are not

You lucky luck buggers

we hope to be in your situation before we get too old lol.

we have seen you in Chams and your a stunning couple

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some folk prefer week night meets as they save the weekends for family and friends, I have my Daughter stay most weekends so I prefer to meet in the week but do get the chance for an occasional week ender

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You lucky lucky buggers

we hope to be in your situation before we get too old lol.

we have seen you in Chams and your a stunning couple"

Thanks but next time you see us say hello we don't bite (but we do lick a lot)

Always looking to make new friends

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We will do we can be a bit shy still when approaching people but we promise to say hi

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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Have met up for a quick drink with people that have been in the area on a school night

Playing on a school night just does'nt work for us,so we keep it to the weekends

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Each to there own i think, depends on peoples work/commitments.

for us weekday daytimes are best as we run a pub. week nights are out of the question as we have a daughter and weekend nights would have to be after closing which can be very late.

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By *im53Man over a year ago

Boldon

working shifts does not help

one week 7-3 (get up 5am)

next week 3-11pm (to late for most)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's just weekends for us, friday and saturday, unless we're on a holiday. Weekdays are usually impossible

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

We hate to clock watch, and as the other half gets up early for work, weekdays would be rushed for us.

We stick to the weekends.

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By *aravancoupleMan over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

"Hi there. Been a member of the site for a while but one of the 1st times I've posted on the forum. Here's what's on my mind.

However, this seems to be cutting down on the number of people we can play with.

Just wondering if you've met up with someone on a "school night" then went to work the next day. How was it for you??"

We only meet at weekends as we feel that we would be rushing and would not enjoy it the same as we like to have a drink chat and relaxes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

have sometimes been clubbing mid week but feel like cinderella rushing off home before midnight because of work next day best time for us is midweek day time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We always meet at weekends.

We're usualy playing while silly o'clock in the morning,so theres no way we'd want to be up early for work.

Besides,the people we meet usualy stop over,so we may be up to more naughtiness before breckie!

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By *ifferentClassMan over a year ago

Glasgow

What about Sundays? A lovely day to play - especially with a slight hangover horn!

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By *plpxp2Couple over a year ago

Middlesbrough

We've always tended to play weekends, think it's a sign of age and needing to be up for work

Weekday meets have tended to be social ones where we are planning to meet up again if everyone wants to play. As others have said there's nothing worse than having to watch the clock when your having fun.

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By *habsMan over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Currently flexible so adapts to others patterns. Accomodation is very available but for some reaon few prefer to travel (and fewer accomodate).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer meeting at home during the day as I can 'work' from home and my girls are at work and college. That said it does mean clock watching and listening out for the phone as my youngest sometimes leaves college early and will call to say she's on her way home: have had some close calls!! For weekend/overnight meets I prefer to travel to my playmates home.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i usually meet weekend evenings due to kids etc, i always have loads of time spare in the day as i work nights and kids are at school but i dont accommodate and nor does 99.9% of single guys on here so that time goes wasted lol

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By *im53Man over a year ago

Boldon

"i usually meet weekend evenings due to kids etc, i always have loads of time spare in the day as i work nights and kids are at school but i dont accommodate and nor does 99.9% of single guys on here so that time goes wasted lol"

mmm im one of 0.1% I would book a day off work as i can accom

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I meet when the b/fs at work lol

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By *entadreadMan over a year ago

Essex

I work hard Mon - Fri, and play harder on weekends. Week-days are tricky but not impossible.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When ever it's convenient for both parties........... no preference!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We've met on weeknights and weekends. Just depends on how we feel, how busy we are and when we can arrange with the people we're meeting.

Local meets tend to be weeknights..... further a field are weekends.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I tend to work 12 till 8.... so that kind of scuppers evening meets because by the time I get home and had a shower it would be 9.30 at least... so "school night" meets don't tent to work for me

so I tend to do most of my playing at the weekend (unless i have to odd day off during the week lol)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we meet when work and a sitter allow wether it in the week(when daughter off school and can stay elsewhere)mainly on saturdays tho, but unfortunatley some people cant understand why we cant just drop everything then and there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we both work from home

but travel a lot

we tend not to meet during the week as our working days are long

we can accom but are selective now as a cpl who stayed quite recently left with some of the contents of my spare wardrobe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I seldom meet during weekdays, as it is stressful trying to leave work at a particular time!

Weekends only for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

it's hard for us to get out nights and weekends due to kids n stuff.

just at the stage/ages where we can leave them a few hours in the evening for close stuff.

Sitters can be a pain to sort.

self-employed now tho, so we prefer daytimes

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By *oyston VaseyMan over a year ago

Sheffield- Pothole City

i must be in the 1% that do accomodate -but its done me no good , in fact it seems to be harming my chances of my first meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We normally meet week nights as it`s easier to find baby sitters week days than weekends. We also try to meet fairly local people to cut down on the traveling time.

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