Honesty is really important to me.
Yes it might rule you out for some, but it’s not right to mislead people.
I met a bloke a couple of times before I found out he’d lied, and was married and playing without consent. 😡 |
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Honesty is good as is measured, paced intimacy. We don't need unlimited access to everyone's personal secret lives, for example. We'd expect to know things that may be important and essential and there can be a right time and place for some things. Being able to determine the right context for revelation, is an admirable sensitivity to have.
But, profiles are personal and it's for you to decide how to use it, so it works best for you. It's worth experimenting with  |
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"Honesty is good as is measured, paced intimacy. We don't need unlimited access to everyone's personal secret lives, for example. We'd expect to know things that may be important and essential and there can be a right time and place for some things. Being able to determine the right context for revelation, is an admirable sensitivity to have.
But, profiles are personal and it's for you to decide how to use it, so it works best for you. It's worth experimenting with "
I'd say this sums it up for me. If it's relevant, then be honest about it. |
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By *oxy jWoman 3 weeks ago
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"Is there such a thing a being too honest and open about yourself on your profile? "
honest and open well im honest but i refuse full stop to tell people everything some want to know everything nope i tell people what is needed for a meet ie no age lies or size lies and that im married and hes 100% knows but when they start asking what your job is or how many kids you have where do you live nope they can sod off its swinging not this is your life
honesty is best for swinging but to swing you dont need a life story ...
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"Is there such a thing a being too honest and open about yourself on your profile?
honest and open well im honest but i refuse full stop to tell people everything some want to know everything nope i tell people what is needed for a meet ie no age lies or size lies and that im married and hes 100% knows but when they start asking what your job is or how many kids you have where do you live nope they can sod off its swinging not this is your life
honesty is best for swinging but to swing you dont need a life story ...
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Honesty, honesty, honesty! Why mess about? The more honest and open the profile, the better the chance of finding someone who shares your interests/experience....in my experience anyway.
If someone declares an interest in something that doesn't float my boat, I just move on. I think a good profile saves everyone a lot of time in the long run.
Many fetishists are very open and honest on their profile. It let's people they contact make an informed choice before deciding to engage.
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"Is there such a thing a being too honest and open about yourself on your profile? "
How can being honest ever be bad thing to do? Lying is a bad thing to do.
I have never met anyone who dislikes honest people. |
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We were always taught that honesty was the best policy. We don't think that any prospective meet needs to know every personal detail of your life but they do need to know the things that matter to them when meeting for sex and vice versa. |
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