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By *iscreetstokecouple OP   Couple 3 days ago

newcastle

Ladies.... you meet a guy for some fun but how long do you expect him to last?? I've had some very short meets and left frustrated but at the same time I dont want hours of it.

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By *ucy loo43Woman 3 days ago

kettering

I’ve just had a hotel meeting and we were there for an hour and half. An hour of it was oral, playing and fucking which was great. Both satisfied at the end. That sort of time frame works for me. 😈

But then again I’m a cock hungry bitch and could of went for round two 😂😂

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By *iss DevilWoman 3 days ago

Bedford

I like somewhere around 2h, but it's not 2h of pure fucking, my hips wouldn't be able to take that, even with a variety of positions were used. I much prefer a mix of kissing, touching, oral, fingering and fucking. If some erotic massage gets thrown in, that's even better.

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By *iss DevilWoman 3 days ago

Bedford

And anything below 30min leaves me thinking what the whole point of meeting was. It would have probably taken me longer to get ready/organised.

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By *abygirl7xWoman 3 days ago

London

As long as i want all night sometimes rounds if it was disappointing id prob meet someone else

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By *irtydesires2024Man 3 days ago

West Midlands


"I’ve just had a hotel meeting and we were there for an hour and half. An hour of it was oral, playing and fucking which was great. Both satisfied at the end. That sort of time frame works for me. 😈

But then again I’m a cock hungry bitch and could of went for round two 😂😂"

He's a lucky guy.

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By *herrybakewellCouple 3 days ago

Staffordshire

My meets have always been a few hours of fun together.

Sadly, Mrs can't say the same lol.

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By *otPoshorBecksCouple 3 days ago

London


"Ladies.... you meet a guy for some fun but how long do you expect him to last?? I've had some very short meets and left frustrated but at the same time I dont want hours of it."

Clubs are much better. You can meet all night and if they ditch you, which is poor swinging etiquette, then you can meet new friends xx

If you go as a single lady, you can choose what exactly you want xx

It’s a buffet lol

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By *iss KinkWoman 3 days ago

North West

I like long foreplay and a quick fuck

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 3 days ago

Carlisle usually

Some days I want about 8 hours of it.

Some days if they're over 3 minutes I'm out 💜

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By *eroLondonMan 3 days ago

Mayfair

I've experienced situations where after weeks or months of fruitful conversations, wondrous chemistry and fantastic socials...I've declined to take things further because they could only engage in a few hours of playtime. I suppose it's a deal breaker for me.

I'm not a teenager looking for a quick bunk up in some pay-by-hour 'Day Room'. If she's not willing to spend an afternoon (at worst) or an entire day (at best) then it's a sure-fire way of friendzoning that person.

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By *ewbfbcplCouple 3 days ago

Newbury

We look for couple of hour meets at most, usually choosing hotels that have car parks that are free for that long. Not into long drawn out fucking tbh, prefer shorter and more of it with rests and foreplay in between

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By *ixie888Woman 3 days ago

Newcastle under Lyme

It's very dependent on a host of factors for me. I tend not to have the luxury of time so a couple of hours for a hotel meet. If I'm at a club it's different and like others note, you can do whatever and with whomever you like if it rolls out in your favour.

On the other hand, I have a friend who like me doesn't accommodate, so if we're fucking in a field/car/shed, it tends to be a quick interaction. Which can be hot af.

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By *haved and SmoothCouple 3 days ago

North East

One of the best questions i have ever seen posted and very useful for people still new to this.

I think if its a couple its longer than a single guy, as you have many more options to play, with a single guy i think for us its a quicker thing

Will keep watching this post!

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By *iscreetstokecouple OP   Couple 3 days ago

newcastle

Thinking about it. I suppose it depends on why you are meeting? If it's a cuxkold thing the im guessing you want longer thanif it's a gotwife thing.

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman 3 days ago

Manchester

I love a whole night meet personally. I like spending time playing, chatting, playing, chatting etc. If the chemistry is right the time flies and hours pass in a blink.

Quick meetings have their place but I'm usually left wanting more.

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