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By *kbill81 OP Man
over a year ago
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Any suggestions to why pretty much all my messages get deleted without even a reply? the messages aren't vulgar or inappropriate just a straight forward nice to meet u kind of thing. I wouldn't say I was a bad looking guy. I'm extremely clean and hygienic and look after myself and I also know how to treat a lady! so any suggestions or ideas again are gratefully appreciated. Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First things first : not one message style will suit all
You do, however, make to need yours stand out from the rest
Guys outnumber women by gazillions to one on here and ladies are often bombarded with samey messages many of which get ignored and bulk deleted or read and not responded to.
Without wishing to sound patronising, yours sound like they may be on the boring side.
Also, take note to make sure that you fit their criteria and that they fit yours.
Carpet bombing of a standard message is rarely effective.
Instead refer to things mentioned in the profile that has caught your eye, be them in the wording, the pics or the veris.
Also, don't fall into the trap of thinking this site will provide women who can shag at the drop of a hat.
They do exist, but most will want to get to know you a bit first, more for security and sexual compatibility reasons than anything.
Social meets are standard before the sex kicks in.
Good Luck, it's a jungle out there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What he said above plus text speak is off putting to a lot and you're only looking for females who are very much in the minority here. A lot of people will look at the profile of the sender before replying to messages. Your profile text would benefit from improving and expanding and not being able to accomodate is a disadvantage. Good pics in public tho and you're a good looking guy. Good luck |
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Your profile is crap. Tells me nothing about you. You are a cute looking guy, but looks alone won't get you laid here.
Expand the profile , what are you looking for, what do you enjoy? Why can't you accommodate? Most will assume you are married.
Help us see you are more than just a pretty face, assuming you are anyway. |
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