The problem is, you leave negative verification, that verification is the only one the person has. They choose not to show it, person is now verified, and potentially has a lot more scope for meeting people. Therefore passing the bad experience onto more people.
Not worth the time or effort. |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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I see a verification as a means to say yes they are real and you met with them. Anything else is extra but not necessary.
Why leave a negative one? It won't be shown anyhow, as my wise mum would say " if you have nothing nice to say, then say nothing!" ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"The problem is, you leave negative verification, that verification is the only one the person has. They choose not to show it, person is now verified, and potentially has a lot more scope for meeting people. Therefore passing the bad experience onto more people.
Not worth the time or effort. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By leaving any verification you're doing them a favour. If it's negative comments they'll just not publish it and it'll never be seen. Yet they will still have the all important veri. Waste of energy me thinks. |
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By *zanyCouple
over a year ago
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Not putting a verification can say a lot. Probably a lot of meets turn out disappointing not necessarily anyone's fault, just the way it goes. There is always another meet to look forward to
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not putting a verification can say a lot. Probably a lot of meets turn out disappointing not necessarily anyone's fault, just the way it goes. There is always another meet to look forward to
D and C xx"
There is always next time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Out of 29 meets in 4 months I've had only one disappointing meet!
Absolutely NOTHING wrong with the person we got on like house on fire until we hit the bedroom n then we just couldn't 'click ' n tho we tried for a while we mutually agreed it wasn't working n hada nice cup tea n a good chat instead. Soooo in theory that could have been a bad verification from both if us but u have to b a realist n put things in perspective. What doesn't work for one person may b a riotous time for another |
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