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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can you please look on our profile and give honest comments about where we may be going wrong. I know there is no public pics, but that because of the recent Facebook scare. Thank you in advance xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really a lot wrong with it to be honest. Maybe include at least one public pic as some people like to know what you look like before they msg you! Oh, and maybe lose the 'university' bit at the end. Its useless info really! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can you please look on our profile and give honest comments about where we may be going wrong. I know there is no public pics, but that because of the recent Facebook scare. Thank you in advance xx"
"going wrong"?? You have had 5 meets in 3 months?!! I don't think you are doing too badly! I agree with last comment though, at least one pic is needed as none may put a lot of people off.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is alot repeated and the text is jumping from one topic to another and then back again! Its a bit confusing! I think u need to cut some of the repeated stuff out and re -organize the text to make more sense then it should be fine. Mrs B |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can you please look on our profile and give honest comments about where we may be going wrong. I know there is no public pics, but that because of the recent Facebook scare. Thank you in advance xx
"going wrong"?? You have had 5 meets in 3 months?!! I don't think you are doing too badly! I agree with last comment though, at least one pic is needed as none may put a lot
of people off.
5 meets in 3 months your doing well
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can you please look on our profile and give honest comments about where we may be going wrong. I know there is no public pics, but that because of the recent Facebook scare. Thank you in advance xx"
If you don't want to meet single guys or have messages from them then just block them through the filters - if you change your mind you can message them and they can reply. Threatening to block if they dare send a message will only stop the decent guys from messaging, not the ones that just message every profile they find regardless of pics and text |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a little too much like a collection of sentences, rather than a 'proper' piece of prose written in paragraphs - but then, I am an old git so what do I know of 'modern trends'!!!??? lol!
I would lose the 'warning' at the bottom though - it's completely unenforceable and you could use that space for more about you.
And I am sure you could find at least one pic which could not identify you in any way, even if a troll got hold of it a plastered it all over a 20' poster site right in your town centre...??
Apart from ALL that.... fine  |
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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago
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Yes, cut out the repetition and loose some of the shouting (caps). I'd message you if I wasn't a single male and out of your age range. 
Profile pic does show a nice ass and nice cock, just strains the eyesight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a little too much like a collection of sentences, rather than a 'proper' piece of prose written in paragraphs - but then, I am an old git so what do I know of 'modern trends'!!!??? lol!
I would lose the 'warning' at the bottom though - it's completely unenforceable and you could use that space for more about you.
And I am sure you could find at least one pic which could not identify you in any way, even if a troll got hold of it a plastered it all over a 20' poster site right in your town centre...??
Apart from ALL that.... fine "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We'd message you pretty much for the sole reason of your opening few words but you are way too far away. And I suspect that that is part of your problem, because from our eperience as soon as you state being alternative it appears to limit options. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you all for your advice. We shall make the relevant changes when at a pc (on mobile at the moment). I know a few said we weren't going wrong, it's more that we're not meeting the people we really want to meet....a bi girl or even better a bi couple...always bi men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can you please look on our profile and give honest comments about where we may be going wrong. I know there is no public pics, but that because of the recent Facebook scare. Thank you in advance xx"
.No pics????
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can you please look on our profile and give honest comments about where we may be going wrong. I know there is no public pics, but that because of the recent Facebook scare. Thank you in advance xx"
BLOCK this BLOCK that BLOCK something else. Hardly what you would call an inviting welcome is it?
What do you need to keep blocking everyone OUT for when you can just ignore their mail or if u can be bothered send a polite 'no thanx ' . Yr profile reads as if u r overblown wiv attitude n ya own 'specialness ' it isn't a pleasant profile to read |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can you please look on our profile and give honest comments about where we may be going wrong. I know there is no public pics, but that because of the recent Facebook scare. Thank you in advance xx"
Sounds fine me , maybe a bit long , and don't ask for face pics , saying it's polite when u don't have any public , !!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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All our face pics were on public, and the dirty ones friend only....they've only been all friend only since the Facebook scare :-/ and if we message someone first, we always include a face pic. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Also, our profile used to be short and sweet...but the longer we've been on the sight we've got sick of single straight pushy males....and the amount of people on drugs contacting us. We don't want to block single guys from messaging coz we meet bi guys. Also, our own specialness? Could you expand on that please? |
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By *plshropsCouple
over a year ago
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Its a bit aggressive and dictorial all about what you want not what you are willing to share.
No pictures
and only Bi will limit your options.
Lots of cpls on here wanting the same thing so everyone has lots of choice.
I am sure you are nice genuine people but your profile does not come across as this.
PS we have never seen your profile so this was our first impression.
Our profile is not perfect so who are we to judge other than you have asked for opinion's.
Regards
R & C
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also, our profile used to be short and sweet...but the longer we've been on the sight we've got sick of single straight pushy males....and the amount of people on drugs contacting us. We don't want to block single guys from messaging coz we meet bi guys. Also, our own specialness? Could you expand on that please?"
Think you've fallen into the classic trap of 'adding-to' your profile in a somewhat knee-jerk way, reacting to things which occur which catch you out.
Think you're in need of completely re-writing your profile text from the ground up so that it doesn't come over quite so 'ranty' - and I am sure that is not really 'you' is it?
A long time ago (in a galaxy far, far away) I used to have a profile text like yours and I got the same problems you have had - then someone told me a truth which has turned out to be right. You reap as you sow... If you put in BLOCK CAPITALS that you DONT WANT SINGLE GUYS (and then don't block them) guess what you'll get..??? Loads of single guys messaging you to wind you up!
Maybe time to rewrite.... |
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