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Young male trying to get into scene
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Join in the forum chats and attend events that interest you.
Verifications help as there are a lot of time wasters.
Less dick pictures and more pictures of yourself. Replace the dick pictures with smart casual shots |
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By *harAndBryCouple 1 week ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"Hi everyone, young male here looking to join couples and females but proving a little difficult, any advice "
Lose the sex pic, as you have safe sex listed in your interests and that pic clearly isn't.
What's the user name about? Hopefully it's not a misspelling of "big daddy".
Consider that at 21, the VAST majority of people you'll be contacting you will be considerably older than you and may question your experience of being a "bull".
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Expand your bio with more information
Let your personality shine
What are you able to offer sexually
What you maybe looking for and maybe want to explore
Maybe even a little scenario
Set your age bracket
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It's very hard graft for all of you single men, as you'll see from the thousands of similar forum posts.
Have realistic expectations.
You're still very new here and it typically takes months to get established.
Single men invariably need to use their profile to sell themselves. Photos that show a potential partner enough, to let these know if they could find them attractive and stomach them touching them. Most guys don't do it.
And getting to swinging clubs and socials, gets you to meet and know others.
Use the Advanced Search tool, to find people who are interested in someone like you. Ignore the rest.
Good luck!
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By *akie32Man 1 week ago
winchester |
"Hi everyone, young male here looking to join couples and females but proving a little difficult, any advice "
What effort have you put in?
you say you are a bull, do you have experience?
do you even know what a bull is, none of this is clear on your profile.
not having a dig, but these are questions people would ask.
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"Hi everyone, young male here looking to join couples and females but proving a little difficult, any advice
What effort have you put in?
you say you are a bull, do you have experience?
do you even know what a bull is, none of this is clear on your profile.
not having a dig, but these are questions people would ask.
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Agree totally with this.
The profile is quite poor., and it would be good to put on your profile what experience of being a bull you have.
And why the action photo? |
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Please keep the action photo. I'd rather see you having unprotected sex with someone who possibly hasn't consented to having their photo shared by you than have you hide that. It tells me far more than anything you put in your bio or a message. |
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"Hi everyone, young male here looking to join couples and females but proving a little difficult, any advice "
Well it's been 16 hours since you made this post and you've not taken any of the advice.
I add private notes onto profiles I see showing unprotected sex so I know to avoid  so as previously said thanks for making that known.
But your profile is almost empty, you're going against experienced men so you really need to put some effort in.
I recently started meeting younger guys but they had detailed informative bios, sounded mature and spoke well and gave me confidence without being rocky.
Looking at the lack of effort in your profile I'd just assume you put the same effort in sex...ie not much |
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