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Difficult to get a meet as an Asian Indian
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By *ak4321 OP Man 1 week ago
Ashford |
Stand out from 1000s of single guys out there is a challenge. Instead of bragging about this that and all I choose to be real and transparent. But responses are dry. The ones who respond once in a while just ghost after few chats. Is it hard to be real and genuine? |
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"With a profile like that it should be no problem getting a meet ,beautiful pictures you have on display "
Which profile are you looking at?
My advice would be more images and get rid of the legal guff at the bottom of the profile. As to why people are chatting then ghosting - it’s par for the course I think. |
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"Stand out from 1000s of single guys out there is a challenge. Instead of bragging about this that and all I choose to be real and transparent. But responses are dry. The ones who respond once in a while just ghost after few chats. Is it hard to be real and genuine? "
So you think it is harder because you are Asian? Have you spoken to many other Asian guys about that, or is it your assumption because of the difficulty that you experience?
Standing out is not a challenge to be honest. I think that everyone can research how to present their shop window well.
There are PLENTY of examples on this site.. |
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By *man91Man 1 week ago
Manchester |
As an asian male myself, I can say unfortunately we are not of interest to many people and you will face rejections. However, I also found many more amazing people who are interested. I think people are more open to conversations when meeting face to face rather than through messages here, as couples and single ladies often get so many messages from single men on their inbox that many genuine profiles often get missed out. I found going to socials and swingers club events, great ways to meet people. Search on Meet event and forum section for interesting meets nearby. Get communicating with people going if you can and hopefully you will meet some similar minded people. |
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"Stand out from 1000s of single guys out there is a challenge. Instead of bragging about this that and all I choose to be real and transparent. But responses are dry. The ones who respond once in a while just ghost after few chats. Is it hard to be real and genuine? "
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How do they know that you're "𝘈𝘴𝘪𝘢𝘯 / 𝘐𝘯𝘥𝘪𝘢𝘯" ? |
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"As suggested above, clubs and socials are probably your best bet. Don't go with expectations though and just be yourself.
Good luck OP"
Absolutely! Sometimes you are lucky and get to know very lovely interesting guys like this pair!  |
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"Stand out from 1000s of single guys out there is a challenge. Instead of bragging about this that and all I choose to be real and transparent. But responses are dry. The ones who respond once in a while just ghost after few chats. Is it hard to be real and genuine? "
Even if you keep a face pic as friends only to attach to a message you have zero public photos...
Yes you have put some effort into the blurb but your shop window is blacked out 
And tbh
One person's kink is another persons vanilla so that's a meh statement as it sits in your blurb |
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Have you seen the thousands of posts from all the single men here?
You can try to apportion cause to anything but will probably only be able to single out being a man as the definite cause of your challenge.
Get to clubs and meet people. Sell yourself |
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As people have said socials are a great way to meet people with no expectations or pressure.
It is possible to meet folks on here if you are respectful and polite and you have taken the time to read their profile.
Don't get disheartened though if not everyone replies as couples and single ladies get loads of messages, you can't be everyones cup of tea
Good luck and happy fabbing |
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"As suggested above, clubs and socials are probably your best bet. Don't go with expectations though and just be yourself.
Good luck OP
Absolutely! Sometimes you are lucky and get to know very lovely interesting guys like this pair! "
Awwww thanks Chico. Been ages, hope you're well x |
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"Stand out from 1000s of single guys out there is a challenge. Instead of bragging about this that and all I choose to be real and transparent. But responses are dry. The ones who respond once in a while just ghost after few chats. Is it hard to be real and genuine? "
Lack of pictures makes me not bother reading the bio and therefore not consider meeting. |
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Indian here but I struggle mostly because I'm currently based out of India logistics and my age group, my advise would be to try more socials and keep a tab on meets sections assuming you are in a hot location where there are active fabbers |
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"Stand out from 1000s of single guys out there is a challenge. Instead of bragging about this that and all I choose to be real and transparent. But responses are dry. The ones who respond once in a while just ghost after few chats. Is it hard to be real and genuine? "
A few photos might help but all solo guys are up against it when attempting to meet couples.
Just think, couples and the few solo women receive dozens of messages every time they log on.
Most are either badly written or crude so all tend to be ignored.
Tidy up your profile and let the couples come to you.
They will. |
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I have been to a lot of Clubs and have never saw an Asian Babe.
Mainly Asian Guys. Also if you have a look at the women on this site the majority are White. If you look at the ratio of females to males. Females probably make up about 2% of the population. A lot of those will stipulate a preference for BBC, BWC. That cuts a majority of men out. So not sure what your post is in reference too. A huge majority of white Men have not had a meet.
You seem to see preferences as something else! Spell it out, so that we have a clue? |
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One to one meet - very difficult, due to racial biases and/or less appeal for body type and dick size ( although some Indians are VWE )
Clubs meet - good chance so long you can show a bit of confidence, talk properly , and show respect to others choices. Wear nice cloths, Maintain good body shape, look sharp, clean and hygienic.
BDSM or Kink event - best place, as not many have racial/skin fetish, but you need to bring your own game in for e.g having good knowledge about various equipments, toys, practices and procedures help a lot as people show interest in learning about new stuff. You may end up making friends there.
Social event - another best place to make connections. |
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Couple of reasons really :
- You won't even everyones cup of tea, that's not racism, that's personal choice in the same way some prefer skinny girls to big girls etc.
- You are one of many many single guys, so messaging on here unless you're extremely lucky isn't going to get you very far.
Try the meets, socials or joining in the chat room.
All about standing out from the crowd so you turn a person's head. |
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