FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swinging Support and Advice > Feedback sought
Feedback sought
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By *om mee OP Man 1 week ago
near B.A. |
Well hello there!
Thought I'd join the miriad of single men looking for profile feedback.
Please take a look and let me know. I would welcome all feedback, constructive especially welcome. Thank you for your kind attention 🙏 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
More pics of you and less of who you've fucked
The text is a bit wordy and lacks any humour - also seems a little tick boxy in its content
The reference to PreP is a personal bugbear of mine. I appreciate its benefits but feel that many (not necessarily you) use it as an excuse for bareback, so that on its own would be enough for me click off any profile
Negativities aside, you have been here 2 weeks and have 3 verifications, so you obviously do one aspect of swinging quite well
If you can get whatever that mix is to shine through on your profile, I'm sure that could 'take off' for you too |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *om mee OP Man 1 week ago
near B.A. |
Yeah I take your point, thank you. Lots of pics of me and my partner , she was the main event I guess. Need to stop hiding my light under a bushel, whatever the fk that means.
Genuinely. Thank you. Feedback appreciated.
Would welcome any other comments, suggestions, advice ( and praise lol) xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *harAndBryCouple 1 week ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
Echoing previous comments - didn't get to the text and the pics alone would put us off - too many pics of women that we'd wonder if they knew they were being posted, and far too much BB sex for our liking.
(Bry) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *om mee OP Man 1 week ago
near B.A. |
"Echoing previous comments - didn't get to the text and the pics alone would put us off - too many pics of women that we'd wonder if they knew they were being posted, and far too much BB sex for our liking.
(Bry)"
Thank you for your comments and feedback. I do enjoy bare sex. Don't like to hide it. Happy with safe too. Actually I think most of my pics I'm wearing a condom lol except the wanking vid and that's ok surely  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *harAndBryCouple 1 week ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"Thank you for your comments and feedback. I do enjoy bare sex. Don't like to hide it. Happy with safe too. Actually I think most of my pics I'm wearing a condom lol except the wanking vid and that's ok surely "
No need to DM though....keep it in the forums.
(Bry) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *om mee OP Man 1 week ago
near B.A. |
"Thank you for your comments and feedback. I do enjoy bare sex. Don't like to hide it. Happy with safe too. Actually I think most of my pics I'm wearing a condom lol except the wanking vid and that's ok surely
No need to DM though....keep it in the forums.
(Bry)"
Well thank you Bry for your feedback and direction(!!). Yes all the ladies in my pics are happy with being in my single profile.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"If your profile accurately represents you and is achieving the required results I'd say it's fine"
Yeah keep it as it is. It let's you and others filter if incompatible.
Wish folknwould stop giving guys advice how to sanitise their profiles. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *om mee OP Man 1 week ago
near B.A. |
Thank you very much! I was beginning to regret asking. Nice to get some positivity. I'm all for feedback but " it's shit change all your pics and you're probably using pics without consent dies seem rather harsh" paraphrasing here.
Anyway thank you for your very welcome ray of sunshine xxx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *harAndBryCouple 1 week ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
" Actually I think most of my pics I'm wearing a condom lol except the wanking vid and that's ok surely "
Three don't have, but who's counting, eh?
Regarding permission....oddly enough, EVERY single guy using pics of other women will say that they have permission. And who knows, maybe you do. But you asked for advice and unless you want to try and convince everyone every time, you're better off avoiding it in the first place. First impressions, and all that.
(Bry) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *om mee OP Man 1 week ago
near B.A. |
" Actually I think most of my pics I'm wearing a condom lol except the wanking vid and that's ok surely
Three don't have, but who's counting, eh?
Regarding permission....oddly enough, EVERY single guy using pics of other women will say that they have permission. And who knows, maybe you do. But you asked for advice and unless you want to try and convince everyone every time, you're better off avoiding it in the first place. First impressions, and all that.
(Bry)"
It's lucky we have the swinging police to keep a check and count photos and generally keep us all safe and in line.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *harAndBryCouple 1 week ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"It's lucky we have the swinging police to keep a check and count photos and generally keep us all safe and in line. "
Your profile is perfect, and excellent representation of you and what you offer and needs no change whatsoever.
That's what you wanted to hear, not actual constructive criticism.
(Bry) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *om mee OP Man 1 week ago
near B.A. |
Well yeah all feedback is good. Not always what you want to hear but accepted I did ask. Also I am allowed to listen to feedback and totally disregard it if I choose. I genuinely am interested in what people have to say. I may even make some profile adjustments based on suggestions.
Also I'm free to have my opinion about what people say, although people who reply to my request don't give express consent to me to give a express on their replies.
I do feel though that this site is losing its way a little amongst a sea of do gooders and PC sheep.
It is a swinging site after all, to show pics of sex with others surely is what swinging is about?. For the record, everyone in my pics is ok with being on my profile, I find generalisations about single guy profiles quite tiresome to be frank.
Anyway live and let live at least whilst we can huh?
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Well yeah all feedback is good. Not always what you want to hear but accepted I did ask. Also I am allowed to listen to feedback and totally disregard it if I choose. I genuinely am interested in what people have to say. I may even make some profile adjustments based on suggestions.
Also I'm free to have my opinion about what people say, although people who reply to my request don't give express consent to me to give a express on their replies.
I do feel though that this site is losing its way a little amongst a sea of do gooders and PC sheep.
It is a swinging site after all, to show pics of sex with others surely is what swinging is about?. For the record, everyone in my pics is ok with being on my profile, I find generalisations about single guy profiles quite tiresome to be frank.
Anyway live and let live at least whilst we can huh?
"
Yep.
You're free to disregard any or all of the feedback you've been given. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *om mee OP Man 1 week ago
near B.A. |
"Well yeah all feedback is good. Not always what you want to hear but accepted I did ask. Also I am allowed to listen to feedback and totally disregard it if I choose. I genuinely am interested in what people have to say. I may even make some profile adjustments based on suggestions.
Also I'm free to have my opinion about what people say, although people who reply to my request don't give express consent to me to give a express on their replies.
I do feel though that this site is losing its way a little amongst a sea of do gooders and PC sheep.
It is a swinging site after all, to show pics of sex with others surely is what swinging is about?. For the record, everyone in my pics is ok with being on my profile, I find generalisations about single guy profiles quite tiresome to be frank.
Anyway live and let live at least whilst we can huh?
Yep.
You're free to disregard any or all of the feedback you've been given."
Thank you, your comment is really appreciated! You guys are mods and that must be a tricky job. To some extent the "official" voice of fab. I'm glad your voice is one encouraging free expression.
PS fab profile too! Hope that's ok to say. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
My challenge to you is to set yourself a goal, for a date when all of the pics just have you in them alone. And to completely remove all pics that include multiple people.
You're marketing yourself. Keep the focus simple for you and others |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *harAndBryCouple 1 week ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"Please advise me on my profile dm me all advice greatfull TIA"
Poor form to jump.on someone else's post. Either start your own or look through the endless posts asking for profile advice.
(Bry) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Personally, I would not get to the point of reading your bio because your pictures would put me off. In my opinion, if you are a single man, you only post pictures of yourselves. The same goes for single women.
I appreciate that in your bio it explains you are in a couple, but if it wasn't a rate my profile posting, I wouldn't have got that far. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
