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Is it time to say goodbye to fab?
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Onto you post, really its your choice on what you want to do, maybe given the above, do a re-write of your profile but patience is the key | |||
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"Go" Why be so terse and rude to this guy? he has a genuine concern, and is disappointed at the lack of meets. He obviously knows the reason as he has stated it, single guys outnumber women in hugely. There is no need to be so dismissive of people, the forums are here for all to discuss anything they feel and just because it doesnt meet with your interest or approval doesnt make it correct to be the way you are. We could say to you if you dont like what hes written dont reply as we would be as dismissive as you. | |||
"Go Why be so terse and rude to this guy? he has a genuine concern, and is disappointed at the lack of meets. He obviously knows the reason as he has stated it, single guys outnumber women in hugely. There is no need to be so dismissive of people, the forums are here for all to discuss anything they feel and just because it doesnt meet with your interest or approval doesnt make it correct to be the way you are. We could say to you if you dont like what hes written dont reply as we would be as dismissive as you." Thank you! | |||
"Go Why be so terse and rude to this guy? he has a genuine concern, and is disappointed at the lack of meets. He obviously knows the reason as he has stated it, single guys outnumber women in hugely. There is no need to be so dismissive of people, the forums are here for all to discuss anything they feel and just because it doesnt meet with your interest or approval doesnt make it correct to be the way you are. We could say to you if you dont like what hes written dont reply as we would be as dismissive as you." The thing is he asked if he should stay or go therefore inviting replies so whats what wrong with the poster saying just go. | |||
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"Go Why be so terse and rude to this guy? he has a genuine concern, and is disappointed at the lack of meets. He obviously knows the reason as he has stated it, single guys outnumber women in hugely. There is no need to be so dismissive of people, the forums are here for all to discuss anything they feel and just because it doesnt meet with your interest or approval doesnt make it correct to be the way you are. We could say to you if you dont like what hes written dont reply as we would be as dismissive as you." See, the thing is, there are threads like this ad infinitum week in and week out. While I appreciate that this may not apply to the OP, they're usually desperately attention seeking with the intention of provoking a raft of..."awww don't go" posts or messages...usually followed with another such thread several weeks later declaring the same thing OP, if you're not getting the results you require from here, there are basically 3 things you can do...lower your expectations, change your approach or leave...it's as simple as that | |||
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Mrs BB x x
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"Swinging is a scene not just a website so try socials, clubs and parties to get yourself known. Good luck whatever you decide to do." gotta agree with the above i think alot of people join the website and its their first taste of the scene so sours them in some respects. the best starting point is probably clubs and socials | |||
Most of my friends on fab are from clubs | |||
"Swinging is a scene not just a website so try socials, clubs and parties to get yourself known. Good luck whatever you decide to do."  | |||
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"I've been on and off this site for a good few years now. I have been on it this time for 18 months. Only ever had 4 meets over the years and only one in the last 18 months. I know the men massively outnumber the women in here, but it's getting very tedious. I bet I must get one reply if I'm lucky, out of every 100 messages I send. Out if them 100 messages about 75% never get read! Ha.. I was starting to get a complex! Ha.. Time to go? Or hang around and fire off another 6,987 messages and see what comes back? "If u go then u r 100 per cent guaranteed not to get a meet from here BUT if u stay there us always a chance. I haven't looked at yr profile so this is just a suggestion but how about u wipe out all yr profile n totally rewrite it n refresh with all new pix???? Often folks find profiles 'stale' cos they've already read em a few times - particularly folks local to yr area. Just a thort | |||
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"I've been on and off this site for a good few years now. I have been on it this time for 18 months. Only ever had 4 meets over the years and only one in the last 18 months. I know the men massively outnumber the women in here, but it's getting very tedious. I bet I must get one reply if I'm lucky, out of every 100 messages I send. Out if them 100 messages about 75% never get read! Ha.. I was starting to get a complex! Ha.. Time to go? Or hang around and fire off another 6,987 messages and see what comes back? "Do you have a 'swingers' outlook on sex ? Do you live a swinging lifestyle on a daily basis or do you just try to get sex over the net ? One means you will get sex more often than the other does. | |||
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"Open profile ,and GO to clubs
Most of my friends on fab are from clubs " | |||
"Open profile ,and GO to clubs
Most of my friends on fab are from clubs " | |||
"Don't go "Why, do you want to meet him | |||
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"Go Why be so terse and rude to this guy? he has a genuine concern, and is disappointed at the lack of meets. He obviously knows the reason as he has stated it, single guys outnumber women in hugely. There is no need to be so dismissive of people, the forums are here for all to discuss anything they feel and just because it doesnt meet with your interest or approval doesnt make it correct to be the way you are. We could say to you if you dont like what hes written dont reply as we would be as dismissive as you." Sadly there's too many people on here that can't help but be rude and up themselves. | |||
"Go" Lol I like the answer straight to the point. Nothing in life is guaranteed so if you go or stay its your choice. We are staying though as this place rocks | |||
"Go Why be so terse and rude to this guy? he has a genuine concern, and is disappointed at the lack of meets. He obviously knows the reason as he has stated it, single guys outnumber women in hugely. There is no need to be so dismissive of people, the forums are here for all to discuss anything they feel and just because it doesnt meet with your interest or approval doesnt make it correct to be the way you are. We could say to you if you dont like what hes written dont reply as we would be as dismissive as you." The same could be said to you if you don't like what's written then dont reply. By the way it doesn't bother me what anyone has written | |||
I'd choose the go option | |||
"Go Why be so terse and rude to this guy? he has a genuine concern, and is disappointed at the lack of meets. He obviously knows the reason as he has stated it, single guys outnumber women in hugely. There is no need to be so dismissive of people, the forums are here for all to discuss anything they feel and just because it doesnt meet with your interest or approval doesnt make it correct to be the way you are. We could say to you if you dont like what hes written dont reply as we would be as dismissive as you." I really don't see that anyone has been rude. The guy asked a question and people have given their answers, some negative, some positive so what's the problem here ? Are we only allowed to respond to questions if we crawl up peoples arses and beg them not to leave ? At the end of the day I assume the guy is an adult and can take on board all the replies which he,of his own free will, asked for | |||
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"Your name would be put me right off..." Snap, become a site supporter and change your name for starters it may help x | |||
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"Try this sites sister site.....not saying you'd have more luck but some of the people are friendlier and less judgemental
Mrs BB x x
(Think I'd best get in my bunker now lol)" | |||
"Go Why be so terse and rude to this guy? " twaddle.. the OP asked a question, stay or go.. may be straight to the point but its not rude or terse at all.. | |||
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"Go Why be so terse and rude to this guy? he has a genuine concern, and is disappointed at the lack of meets. He obviously knows the reason as he has stated it, single guys outnumber women in hugely. There is no need to be so dismissive of people, the forums are here for all to discuss anything they feel and just because it doesnt meet with your interest or approval doesnt make it correct to be the way you are. We could say to you if you dont like what hes written dont reply as we would be as dismissive as you. Sadly there's too many people on here that can't help but be rude and up themselves. " How is that "up themselves?" The op asked a question: should I stay or go. Someone answered the op, which is rare on these forums with go...and?!!  If they'd replied "go you attention seeking munter and leave us beauties to it" then yeah...I'd see your point! | |||
"Go" Or stay | |||
"OP I have just had a super email from a single guy clearly showing he has read my profile and respects my current position. He got an immediate response.. Perhaps a change of tack may result in more responses... Do what you have always done you will always get the same results..." | |||
"I've been on and off this site for a good few years now. I have been on it this time for 18 months. Only ever had 4 meets over the years and only one in the last 18 months. I know the men massively outnumber the women in here, but it's getting very tedious. I bet I must get one reply if I'm lucky, out of every 100 messages I send. Out if them 100 messages about 75% never get read! Ha.. I was starting to get a complex! Ha.. Time to go? Or hang around and fire off another 6,987 messages and see what comes back?
If u go then u r 100 per cent guaranteed not to get a meet from here BUT if u stay there us always a chance. I haven't looked at yr profile so this is just a suggestion but how about u wipe out all yr profile n totally rewrite it n refresh with all new pix???? Often folks find profiles 'stale' cos they've already read em a few times - particularly folks local to yr area. Just a thort " | |||
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Your choice , no one can tell you,,
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"I've been on and off this site for a good few years now. I have been on it this time for 18 months. Only ever had 4 meets over the years and only one in the last 18 months. I know the men massively outnumber the women in here, but it's getting very tedious. I bet I must get one reply if I'm lucky, out of every 100 messages I send. Out if them 100 messages about 75% never get read! Ha.. I was starting to get a complex! Ha.. Time to go? Or hang around and fire off another 6,987 messages and see what comes back? "With your 'success rate' mate I would severely consider what you are doing wrong. Then give up.... | |||
"How do you know ur messages aren't read?" It shows up in your 'sent' messages folder!! | |||
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"Try this sites sister site.....not saying you'd have more luck but some of the people are friendlier and less judgemental
Mrs BB x x
(Think I'd best get in my bunker now lol)"lol | |||
"Go Why be so terse and rude to this guy? he has a genuine concern, and is disappointed at the lack of meets. He obviously knows the reason as he has stated it, single guys outnumber women in hugely. There is no need to be so dismissive of people, the forums are here for all to discuss anything they feel and just because it doesnt meet with your interest or approval doesnt make it correct to be the way you are. We could say to you if you dont like what hes written dont reply as we would be as dismissive as you. Sadly there's too many people on here that can't help but be rude and up themselves. " | |||
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"i can only speak for us, well suzy, but the ops nick, "i want to be adored" turned her off straight away." I get the reference.. I think.. stone roses song.... for me way to many people think of the end result, and not enough about the journey to get them there... that is what seperates those who "get it" and those who complain about not getting meets..or replies | |||
"How do you know ur messages aren't read?" It also says whether you message was read or deleted with being read | |||
"How do you know ur messages aren't read? It shows up in your 'sent' messages folder!!" They didn't like ur profile and never delete messages then | |||
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"I've been on and off this site for a good few years now. I have been on it this time for 18 months. Only ever had 4 meets over the years and only one in the last 18 months. I know the men massively outnumber the women in here, but it's getting very tedious. I bet I must get one reply if I'm lucky, out of every 100 messages I send. Out if them 100 messages about 75% never get read! Ha.. I was starting to get a complex! Ha.. Time to go? Or hang around and fire off another 6,987 messages and see what comes back? "I cannot imagine how WE can decide THAT FOR YOU!! It's an individual decision innit. I am thinking of leaving soon too but my reasons r that summer is almost here n I prefer random anonymous meets n also I never stay on any site long lol - so I guess everyone has to make their own choices | |||
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"Grrrrrr I get pissed off with men who keep saying there leaving the site because of no meets etc. .JUST GO.!!!! Us women will get over it lol" Hush now child - all variants of people join site, stay awhile, leave, come back for myriad reasons. Original poster 'I wanna be adored' has had only one meet in 18 months so probably feels there's not much point hanging round any longer! I've had 29 in 4 months so I certainly can't complain - it's just I get bigger kick from anonymous outdoor meets n the weather is getting good enough for that now especially in England. The ladies undoubtedly hold the power game in here but that is no reason to trash 'I wanna be adored ' for voicing his thorts. Kindness costs nothing n other posters have tried to help with advice | |||
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"Grrrrrr I get pissed off with men who keep saying there leaving the site because of no meets etc. .JUST GO.!!!! Us women will get over it lol Hush now child - all variants of people join site, stay awhile, leave, come back for myriad reasons. Original poster 'I wanna be adored' has had only one meet in 18 months so probably feels there's not much point hanging round any longer! I've had 29 in 4 months so I certainly can't complain - it's just I get bigger kick from anonymous outdoor meets n the weather is getting good enough for that now especially in England. The ladies undoubtedly hold the power game in here but that is no reason to trash 'I wanna be adored ' for voicing his thorts. Kindness costs nothing n other posters have tried to help with advice "Here here | |||
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"Grrrrrr I get pissed off with men who keep saying there leaving the site because of no meets etc. .JUST GO.!!!! Us women will get over it lol Hush now child - all variants of people join site, stay awhile, leave, come back for myriad reasons. Original poster 'I wanna be adored' has had only one meet in 18 months so probably feels there's not much point hanging round any longer! I've had 29 in 4 months so I certainly can't complain - it's just I get bigger kick from anonymous outdoor meets n the weather is getting good enough for that now especially in England. The ladies undoubtedly hold the power game in here but that is no reason to trash 'I wanna be adored ' for voicing his thorts. Kindness costs nothing n other posters have tried to help with advice "I'm aware of that but when I see it written time and time again from the same men. .I have to bite my tongue. .. and damn that's a hard task | |||
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"i can only speak for us, well suzy, but the ops nick, "i want to be adored" turned her off straight away." Biggest example of 'missing the point' I've read on here for a long time :D | |||
"Looks like o p not left yet perhaps he just attention seeker as tom jone jones would say its not usual "Tom Jones with a stutter? :D | |||
"Swinging is a scene not just a website so try socials, clubs and parties to get yourself known. Good luck whatever you decide to do. " | |||
"Looks like o p not left yet perhaps he just attention seeker as tom jone jones would say its not usual
Tom Jones with a stutter? :D "Yes | |||
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"Try getting a partner and then start looking for bi ladies to join you for a threesome......then you'll have something to really moan about " | |||
"Looks like o p not left yet perhaps he just attention seeker as tom jone jones would say its not usual
Tom Jones with a stutter? :D
Yes ""It's not u-un-unusual to be l-lo-loved by a-an-anyone" (before I get reported by outraged of tunbridge wells, I'm a former stutterer myself) Its either that or it's the dance remix | |||
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" Too many rude people replying on here. " What with all the tits, cocks n faj pics yeah you're right, way too many rude people on here
On a more serious note though, isn't it time a female member was selected every week to "take one for the team\site" and sympathy shag all the moaning peeps who cant get a meet ?
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"Any clubs or socials happening around your neck of the woods, it is a good way to get known. You have had meets, so keep positive and maybe ask the people who have met you what drew them to you... That might help. Good luck" sorry you sound like yet another single man moaning because women won't meet, get to clubs, socials, network and create a list of friends that will meet and reply to your messages | |||
"Any clubs or socials happening around your neck of the woods, it is a good way to get known. You have had meets, so keep positive and maybe ask the people who have met you what drew them to you... That might help. Good luck sorry you sound like yet another single man moaning because women won't meet, get to clubs, socials, network and create a list of friends that will meet and reply to your messages" | |||
