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Hi all
I was in a club on Friday and got into a group scenario in a room which was a lot of fun. Was spoiled a bit when a hung, black guy turned up who had a huge cock and thought he was Gods gift. Me and a couple of blokes left the room feeling a bit humiliated with our rather smaller dicks.
Anyone else had a similar experience??
Gary |
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Not all women want an enormous cock. Granted some do but for many of us it's not comfortable or fun. Bear in mind our bodies don't usually accommodate 10 inches of penetration! Mr is nearly 8 inches and that's a bit too long at some angles. 6 inches is a decent and very pleasurable size! You shouldn't let things affect you in that way. |
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I've come across guys who dwarf my 5"but that's a turn on for me always had a thing for bigger cock than mine for as long as I can remember luckily I have an understanding wife who also has same views |
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By *an8iMan 5 weeks ago
Bilston |
That's why you get a menu in a restaurant, people like different things I'm 8 inches I've been turned down because I'm to big and turned down because I'm to small so it's all about preference |
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As a female, I've had bigger and smaller, and whilst I'm certainly not a size queen I find that attitude is the most important thing!
I've found there's a lot of guys who may not classify as "hung" on here that are actually better lovers, as they know their "downsides" per se and make up for it in other ways. I've also had the owners of the rather larger phalanges have an attitude, possibly not too dissimilar to the OP, where "because it's massive i don't need to try, she'll love it anyways" and they've actually been crap shags.
C xoxo |
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By *eyeYCouple 5 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
"As a female, I've had bigger and smaller, and whilst I'm certainly not a size queen I find that attitude is the most important thing!
I've found there's a lot of guys who may not classify as "hung" on here that are actually better lovers, as they know their "downsides" per se and make up for it in other ways. I've also had the owners of the rather larger phalanges have an attitude, possibly not too dissimilar to the OP, where "because it's massive i don't need to try, she'll love it anyways" and they've actually been crap shags.
C xoxo"
That! 👍😘 |
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By *oxesMan 5 weeks ago
Southend, Essex |
"As a female, I've had bigger and smaller, and whilst I'm certainly not a size queen I find that attitude is the most important thing!
I've found there's a lot of guys who may not classify as "hung" on here that are actually better lovers, as they know their "downsides" per se and make up for it in other ways. I've also had the owners of the rather larger phalanges have an attitude, possibly not too dissimilar to the OP, where "because it's massive i don't need to try, she'll love it anyways" and they've actually been crap shags.
C xoxo"
I think you just answered my question who R/chickflixx like Manuel Ferreira, Owen Gray, Small hands and girthmasterr. Ruth the exception of the last guy they are not hung or traditionaly handsome. Do it buddy be the performance in bed. |
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By *lfa RomeoMan 5 weeks ago
southeast , Herts, Beds |
As a man with an average size cock, i too am intimidated when I see men with large ones,
But as someone said in a comment above, it's not always about the size but the man behind it.
Still when you read some bio, it's clear to see, a lot of women do prefer the larger ones.
But I agree there's not one size that fits all. |
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"As a female, I've had bigger and smaller, and whilst I'm certainly not a size queen I find that attitude is the most important thing!
I've found there's a lot of guys who may not classify as "hung" on here that are actually better lovers, as they know their "downsides" per se and make up for it in other ways. I've also had the owners of the rather larger phalanges have an attitude, possibly not too dissimilar to the OP, where "because it's massive i don't need to try, she'll love it anyways" and they've actually been crap shags.
C xoxo"
This, very much so! Give me a guy with a smaller cock who can have me on fire and dripping without even having to whip it out any time over the "hung" guy who thinks cock is the only way to satisfy a woman.
OP, I get that it can be intimidating in the group setting when someone just strolls in with a cock bigger than yours. Don't let it intimidate you, though, and continue to have your fun. |
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By *j2015Couple 5 weeks ago
Glasgow |
Mr here
I thought size would bother me when we first started and with every experience it just proves more how much it doesn’t matter.
The issues I read in the OP was more about attitudes not dicks sizes. If someone is dick swinging while literally dick swinging i would expect that they are politely asked to leave.
I have seen big guys fuck bad and smaller guys fuck good 😊 worring about it says more about you than it does about your cock.
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hate to sound like the quintessential old fart but lessons like this used to be learnt in the shower after P.E. some guys are swinging, some guys just wink from behind a bush. and just like in P.E in school, we all have no choice but to play and do the best with the equipment we've been handed
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Being in the other side of the fence I do know that guys can be intimated by size. That’s on them not me. If we are in a group situation I am not going to hide away simply because it makes them uncomfortable. By the same token I wouldn’t expect them to hide away either - why let it get to you like that?
A good group situation goes with the flow - I have seen people behave poorly irrespective of their size.
If you are good at what you do then she will be happy. If you are not good then that’s on you. You can be good or bad irrespective of your size. |
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Lovely to read the comments on here from women….from an average fella, thank you x
Reading a good portion of ads and bios you would think that only melanated hung guys are sought after on here sometimes! |
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"Hi all
I was in a club on Friday and got into a group scenario in a room which was a lot of fun. Was spoiled a bit when a hung, black guy turned up who had a huge cock and thought he was Gods gift. Me and a couple of blokes left the room feeling a bit humiliated with our rather smaller dicks.
Anyone else had a similar experience??
Gary"
it’s how you use your cock that matters the most |
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With most regular and well adjusted normal people , size doesn't really matter.
I'd say that most would prefer more effort and satisfaction.
In my experience the can be very nice to look at but not always the best for function or fun really.
I would not worry about it.
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As a wife of a man with a big cock, don't get me wrong, I enjoy it, however, I often enjoy tongue and finger game more. Don't feel intimidated. You don't need a huge dick to pleasure. Sometimes those with huge ones don't put the effort in! |
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By *bi HaiveMan 5 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Being in the other side of the fence I do know that guys can be intimated by size. That’s on them not me. If we are in a group situation I am not going to hide away simply because it makes them uncomfortable. By the same token I wouldn’t expect them to hide away either - why let it get to you like that?
A good group situation goes with the flow - I have seen people behave poorly irrespective of their size.
If you are good at what you do then she will be happy. If you are not good then that’s on you. You can be good or bad irrespective of your size."
This. 💯
There's a lot of penis envy both on Fab and in clubs.
You have what you have, big, small or average. Nothing will change that. If someone has a size preference then guess what....you can't change that either.
Going into online life or club life with a mindset that you're too small, too big, or just average - in fact any focus on dick size at all - is completely pointless and will ruin your experiences. Likewise any preconceived notion that 'all women' want BBC or big dicks. Women aren't a hive mind and they most certainly don't.
Men are way more hung up (no pun intended) on dick size than women, trust me. 🤷♂️ |
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"Being in the other side of the fence I do know that guys can be intimated by size. That’s on them not me. If we are in a group situation I am not going to hide away simply because it makes them uncomfortable. By the same token I wouldn’t expect them to hide away either - why let it get to you like that?
Some men are hung up; other blokes prefer the banter and personality route. Could also be age/experience related....
A good group situation goes with the flow - I have seen people behave poorly irrespective of their size.
If you are good at what you do then she will be happy. If you are not good then that’s on you. You can be good or bad irrespective of your size.
This. 💯
There's a lot of penis envy both on Fab and in clubs.
You have what you have, big, small or average. Nothing will change that. If someone has a size preference then guess what....you can't change that either.
Going into online life or club life with a mindset that you're too small, too big, or just average - in fact any focus on dick size at all - is completely pointless and will ruin your experiences. Likewise any preconceived notion that 'all women' want BBC or big dicks. Women aren't a hive mind and they most certainly don't.
Men are way more hung up (no pun intended) on dick size than women, trust me. 🤷♂️"
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"Being in the other side of the fence I do know that guys can be intimated by size. That’s on them not me. If we are in a group situation I am not going to hide away simply because it makes them uncomfortable. By the same token I wouldn’t expect them to hide away either - why let it get to you like that?
Some men are hung up; others blokes prefer the banter and personality route. Could also be age/experience related....
A good group situation goes with the flow - I have seen people behave poorly irrespective of their size.
If you are good at what you do then she will be happy. If you are not good then that’s on you. You can be good or bad irrespective of your size.
This. 💯
There's a lot of penis envy both on Fab and in clubs.
You have what you have, big, small or average. Nothing will change that. If someone has a size preference then guess what....you can't change that either.
Going into online life or club life with a mindset that you're too small, too big, or just average - in fact any focus on dick size at all - is completely pointless and will ruin your experiences. Likewise any preconceived notion that 'all women' want BBC or big dicks. Women aren't a hive mind and they most certainly don't.
Men are way more hung up (no pun intended) on dick size than women, trust me. 🤷♂️"
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"I have been told that most guys with big cocks think that is what it is about. She told me skill and care is more important. "
Mibbe some but not most - in clubland I've seen a number of WE blokes who remain humble and give off pleasant vibes... |
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"Not all women want an enormous cock. Granted some do but for many of us it's not comfortable or fun. Bear in mind our bodies don't usually accommodate 10 inches of penetration! Mr is nearly 8 inches and that's a bit too long at some angles. 6 inches is a decent and very pleasurable size! You shouldn't let things affect you in that way. "
I totally agree |
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When in a club us chaps with average sized cocks can we maybe a bit uninspiring compared to the huge cock guys. However there’s more to passionate love making than having a massive dick. I’m really scared of massive cocks. |
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By *oxy jWoman 5 weeks ago
somerset |
"Hi all
I was in a club on Friday and got into a group scenario in a room which was a lot of fun. Was spoiled a bit when a hung, black guy turned up who had a huge cock and thought he was Gods gift. Me and a couple of blokes left the room feeling a bit humiliated with our rather smaller dicks.
Anyone else had a similar experience??
Gary"
sound a bit like the green eye monster ie jealousy ... so becaise he was bigger and black he was gods gift think this is more your problem than it is anyone elses.. |
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"As a female, I've had bigger and smaller, and whilst I'm certainly not a size queen I find that attitude is the most important thing!
I've found there's a lot of guys who may not classify as "hung" on here that are actually better lovers, as they know their "downsides" per se and make up for it in other ways. I've also had the owners of the rather larger phalanges have an attitude, possibly not too dissimilar to the OP, where "because it's massive i don't need to try, she'll love it anyways" and they've actually been crap shags.
C xoxo"
I'm far from well endowed, so I just have to remind myself that it's not the wand but the wizard that's important in those situations 😉👍 |
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I remember on a night out years ago an older lady friend told me when her hubby was out of the room that it was girth that matter not the length. Not sure how we got onto the subject and was a bit naive at the time but know realise she was probably coming onto me - another missed opportunity.
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By *ampire69Man 4 weeks ago
Birmingham West Midlands |
This topic makes me smile i have had this conversation with a number of ladies and they all tell me the same story, Size means nothing why have a Porsche when you cant drive ?? is the guts of what they tell me.
A large cock could be useful but if you dont know how to use it then whats the point, ladies tell me a modest size cock is far more pleasureable than a monster cock which can be painful and of no pleasure at all. think of it this way a 3 liter Porsche with a poor inexperienced driver or a 2 liter Ford with a well experienced driver which do you think is the better experience.
Other car makes are available, just for the record i own a Skoda well engineered good values reliable with a more than satisfactory performance and low running costs he he  |
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It seems, in these threads, that the assumption or inference is often ‘they have a big cock but don’t know how to use it’ I’m sure there are larger men who are great at sex and similarly smaller men who aren’t.
Where does the argument come from that he may have a bigger cock but I perform better ? |
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"It seems, in these threads, that the assumption or inference is often ‘they have a big cock but don’t know how to use it’ I’m sure there are larger men who are great at sex and similarly smaller men who aren’t.
Where does the argument come from that he may have a bigger cock but I perform better ? "
Agreed....a big cock means nothing.... |
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"Hi all
I was in a club on Friday and got into a group scenario in a room which was a lot of fun. Was spoiled a bit when a hung, black guy turned up who had a huge cock and thought he was Gods gift. Me and a couple of blokes left the room feeling a bit humiliated with our rather smaller dicks.
Has anyone else had a similar experience??
Gary"
if you have a complex deal with it, it's nobody else's fault
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I’ve never felt humiliated with anyone, I’m not big and I’ve never had any complaints as of yet, you have what you have big , small, medium, just have fun with it, some great comments on here by the way |
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The last lady I met said she no longer goes with guys over 8" and even that can be too painful. One guy was around 9" he hammered her so hard she ended up in hospital with a severely bruised cervix, and couldn't have sex for a couple of weeks afterwards. It's all about how you treat the person you are with, listen to what they are saying to you and you'll have a great time. |
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Comparison is the thief of joy.
I'm above average but smaller than others. Absoultely no point giving it a second thought. As long as the woman im with is having a great time , that's all I care about.
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hi have posted this on here before when I was in my teens used to stay with a mate who had the largest coc k I have ever seen was like 2 cans of beens on top of each other we would have a couple of girls over for a play and I would play with both most the time has they wouldn't let him penetrate because he was so big? |
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I have see guys with big cocks in group scenarios barging there way in just because they thought they had the right to but were asked to leave because of their bully boy tactics so anyone with smaller cocks stand your ground and enjoy what you started hope this helps |
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"Hi all
I was in a club on Friday and got into a group scenario in a room which was a lot of fun. Was spoiled a bit when a hung, black guy turned up who had a huge cock and thought he was Gods gift. Me and a couple of blokes left the room feeling a bit humiliated with our rather smaller dicks.
Anyone else had a similar experience??
Gary"
Mate
If take it as a challenge to get the women cumming harder.
I'd stand my ground
An be confident
Much more attractive |
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By *oxy jWoman 4 weeks ago
somerset |
it really is rubbish this small vrs large vrs medium totally rubbish its down to the guy and the guy himself there are alot of bad lovers alot of very bad lovers and alot of very good to amazing lovers it has nothing to do with there cocks or its size..
men need to stop worrying about their size you are born with what youve got so you make good with what you got this incudes the rest of your body ...your a crap or good lover because of you and your brain not your cock..
variety is the spice of life every cock and vagina will be different embrace that
a bad lover is a bad lover no matter what size cock he has |
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"it really is rubbish this small vrs large vrs medium totally rubbish its down to the guy and the guy himself there are alot of bad lovers alot of very bad lovers and alot of very good to amazing lovers it has nothing to do with there cocks or its size..
men need to stop worrying about their size you are born with what youve got so you make good with what you got this incudes the rest of your body ...your a crap or good lover because of you and your brain not your cock..
variety is the spice of life every cock and vagina will be different embrace that
a bad lover is a bad lover no matter what size cock he has"
This! Very much so! |
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"Cocks are like boobs: too big equals too much pain.
With my fingers I can please two women at once and totally drain them.
Growers' privates matter!
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Jumping on a trampoline naked, could cause a slapping injury.
Big boobs can also cause back and neck ache too. |
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By *rLicksMan 4 weeks ago
Worcester |
10”  Yikes!
Anyway, me and wife have a couples profile here and also our solo profiles. Our “dynamic” is the ‘Stag/Vixen’ type of it needs a label.
I’m of a fairly decent size in the trouser department - also under no illusion of being the biggest out there.
Does penis size make any difference to how good sex is from a woman’s perspective?…. Well yes to a degree, however it plays a much smaller role in the overall experience than most of us care to realise.
I like to think I’m pretty skilled in the bedroom (or wherever the horny action takes place) but, just like everyone else, I have my method and way of doing things which may differ to the next person.
One thing me and wife have discussed is if we experience something with another person that is different, even better, than what we usually do ourselves then talk to each other. Sex is something we learn and it evolves, we can learn different things, try new ideas and ultimately improve our own skill set!
On the subject matter though, I have said to wife if the sex with someone else was better purely because they are significantly larger (cock) then that’s something I can’t add into my skillset LOL just gotta work with what we were born with.
OP - don’t over think such things or worry about it.
Yes there are lots of profiles on here demanding 9”+ only…. But the reality is there aren’t many eligible anyway. Most women prefer average/above average over huge monster giant scaffold pole cocks and the end result being a more pleasurable experience overall. Yes some seek those monsters for “experience” and a feather in their cap but that’s probably all it is in most cases.  |
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