Hey guys we have spoken extensively about some soft play/oral/voyeurism and Mrs has given me the green light to organise something.
Any ideas or reccomendations? She is quite conservative so might be a little shy at first, but once she gets going she's very warm and sporting!
Not sure whether to book a hotel room or go to a club. She did express she'd prefer a hotel room due to privacy...
If anybody has had experience, has any tips or can help/assist in anyway that would be great! |
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"For another couple or male to join us for some soft play "
Ok well I'd say start a couples profile, look at potential partners and take it from there. No decent man or couple will agree to meet a couple from a single profile. |
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"Specifically I mean because we don't know her. I'd also strongly advise a couples profile.
Can go into mote specifica or detail of required. Pm is open "
You gave enough detail for me in your other post |
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"For another couple or male to join us for some soft play
Ok well I'd say start a couples profile, look at potential partners and take it from there. No decent man or couple will agree to meet a couple from a single profile. "
We did create a couples profile together based on her suggestion, when it came to verifying she kept putting it off. She's not great with all this online side of thing. Not ideal and makes it tricky |
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"For another couple or male to join us for some soft play
Ok well I'd say start a couples profile, look at potential partners and take it from there. No decent man or couple will agree to meet a couple from a single profile.
We did create a couples profile together based on her suggestion, when it came to verifying she kept putting it off. She's not great with all this online side of thing. Not ideal and makes it tricky"
Then I'm guessing she's not ready yet.
Why not book a hotel for just the two of you and enjoy the fantasy together away from home, it is her birthday after all  |
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"For another couple or male to join us for some soft play
Ok well I'd say start a couples profile, look at potential partners and take it from there. No decent man or couple will agree to meet a couple from a single profile.
We did create a couples profile together based on her suggestion, when it came to verifying she kept putting it off. She's not great with all this online side of thing. Not ideal and makes it tricky
Then I'm guessing she's not ready yet.
Why not book a hotel for just the two of you and enjoy the fantasy together away from home, it is her birthday after all "
She has expressed the idea of being watched. Last time she was turned on by the construction worker outside thr hotel room listening to us fuck.
We will be booking a hotel somewhere. She brings up being shared and spit roasted alot when we have sex so I assumed she'd be ready for it... |
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"For another couple or male to join us for some soft play
Ok well I'd say start a couples profile, look at potential partners and take it from there. No decent man or couple will agree to meet a couple from a single profile.
We did create a couples profile together based on her suggestion, when it came to verifying she kept putting it off. She's not great with all this online side of thing. Not ideal and makes it tricky
Then I'm guessing she's not ready yet.
Why not book a hotel for just the two of you and enjoy the fantasy together away from home, it is her birthday after all
She has expressed the idea of being watched. Last time she was turned on by the construction worker outside thr hotel room listening to us fuck.
We will be booking a hotel somewhere. She brings up being shared and spit roasted alot when we have sex so I assumed she'd be ready for it..."
I think assuming with something like this is dangerous. People often fantasise during sex, it doesn't always mean they want to actually go through with it.
Ask her outright if she's genuinely up for it when you're not having sex. It would be awful if it all went horribly wrong. |
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"For another couple or male to join us for some soft play
Ok well I'd say start a couples profile, look at potential partners and take it from there. No decent man or couple will agree to meet a couple from a single profile. "
perfect suggestion .. |
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"For another couple or male to join us for some soft play
Ok well I'd say start a couples profile, look at potential partners and take it from there. No decent man or couple will agree to meet a couple from a single profile.
We did create a couples profile together based on her suggestion, when it came to verifying she kept putting it off. She's not great with all this online side of thing. Not ideal and makes it tricky"
Without her implicit consent you will agree that it's even less ideal for someone potentially joining you. |
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While we all have to start somewhere, unless you are verified on a couple's profile, most genuine swingers (couples and singles) will put you in the time waster pile. If she keeps putting getting verified off then it is a massive red flag, she will likely get cold feet or change her mind last minute.
Our advice will be to go to a club which doesn't insist on dressing down on entry, it will be a safe and no pressure environment for her and you. |
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I’d recommend a club, I’ve read that she’d like a hotel room for the privacy though.
May be too close to home, but Quest is an amazing club near you. Plenty of rooms, one with a viewing window too. Staff are great there as well |
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"For another couple or male to join us for some soft play
Ok well I'd say start a couples profile, look at potential partners and take it from there. No decent man or couple will agree to meet a couple from a single profile.
We did create a couples profile together based on her suggestion, when it came to verifying she kept putting it off. She's not great with all this online side of thing. Not ideal and makes it tricky
Then I'm guessing she's not ready yet.
Why not book a hotel for just the two of you and enjoy the fantasy together away from home, it is her birthday after all
She has expressed the idea of being watched. Last time she was turned on by the construction worker outside thr hotel room listening to us fuck.
We will be booking a hotel somewhere. She brings up being shared and spit roasted alot when we have sex so I assumed she'd be ready for it..."
Never assume op make sure she's ready and happy for anyone else to join you.
Don't spring a suprise on her ie anyone else joining you.
Why not try a club together and seh can see what she thinks. |
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^^ she's quite clearly said she'd prefer an hotel according to the op. People who don't even know her are suggesting a club. This woman should be allowed to make her own mind up, in her own time in my opinion. |
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A club is by far your best option if it’s her first time to play. She can choose whatever option she decides on the day, from just being watched to suddenly deciding she’s the club bike. Or maybe even fancy the attention of another woman rather than a man. |
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