So I have been here a while as well as previously pre Covid so have a few ideas.
However question is :-
"What exactly is it y'all are looking for in a Bio information wise and pictures? "
Just to get a good width of the different styles and preferences we all have.
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"So I have been here a while as well as previously pre Covid so have a few ideas.
However question is :-
"What exactly is it y'all are looking for in a Bio information wise and pictures? "
Just to get a good width of the different styles and preferences we all have.
Ta
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I can only say what happens if a message comes in:
First it needs an avatar and an attached face pic if one isn't available on the profile.
Then before I even read it I go and to see..
if they've left the default settings/ticked everything available/have photos of more than a cock
If I think there may be some common ground I'll look at the message itself.
Have they bothered, shown anything to indicate they actually read what I'm after.
There isn't a one size fits all.
All you can do is try to be honest on your profile, say what you want/offer etc
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We want to understand what someone is looking for and what they offer, what they’re interested in and how they approach swinging.
The photos and text should give us a good steer on compatibility and initial attraction.
You won’t appeal to everyone - your profile should help you to catch the eye of the people you’re potentially a good match with.
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"What do you look for in a profile to see if you're compatible with someone OP?"
I look to see what style of swinger they are.
See if they don't take themselves too seriously, we're all just people at the end of the day "faults and all".
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"What do you look for in a profile to see if you're compatible with someone OP?
I look to see what style of swinger they are.
See if they don't take themselves too seriously, we're all just people at the end of the day "faults and all".
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And do you think your bio expressed what kind of swinger you are, how seriously you take yourself, or anything else that would indicate compatibility or otherwise? |
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And do you think your bio expressed what kind of swinger you are, how seriously you take yourself, or anything else that would indicate compatibility or otherwise?"
Not currently but hopefully I can get it there over time and with the help of the advice gain here ..... Yes. |
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"Your profile is still "under construction " ?"
Jeez it's only been 3 weeks.. give me chance....... Haha. 
Joking aside I was hanging on for any more advice, then got the flu bug going about and work exploded ... So yeah.
If it came easy to me, it would of been done ages ago.
I shall endeavour to done this weekend. |
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"Your profile is still "under construction " ?
Jeez it's only been 3 weeks.. give me chance....... Haha.
Joking aside I was hanging on for any more advice, then got the flu bug going about and work exploded ... So yeah.
If it came easy to me, it would of been done ages ago.
I shall endeavour to done this weekend. "
You do understand you can write and and return to edit it re do it anytime you want!?!
Having nothing simply means you're wasting time.
I mean how much guidance do you need -are you waiting for someone to do it for you?
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"Your profile is still "under construction " ?
Jeez it's only been 3 weeks.. give me chance....... Haha.
Joking aside I was hanging on for any more advice, then got the flu bug going about and work exploded ... So yeah.
If it came easy to me, it would of been done ages ago.
I shall endeavour to done this weekend.
You do understand you can write and and return to edit it re do it anytime you want!?!
Having nothing simply means you're wasting time.
I mean how much guidance do you need -are you waiting for someone to do it for you?
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I do understand I can edit and rewrite it anytime, would like to get it as more right as I can without having to fettle with it constantly, some may well be required.
Not waiting for someone to do it for me no.
I guess I was looking for the checklist like.
Safe sex or bareback.
Who you are.
Interests / fantasies.
Wink and message use.
Etc
And get an understanding of any no no's so to speak.
Any hoo, I have wrote one let me know what you think.
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"Your profile is still "under construction " ?
Jeez it's only been 3 weeks.. give me chance....... Haha.
Joking aside I was hanging on for any more advice, then got the flu bug going about and work exploded ... So yeah.
If it came easy to me, it would of been done ages ago.
I shall endeavour to done this weekend.
You do understand you can write and and return to edit it re do it anytime you want!?!
Having nothing simply means you're wasting time.
I mean how much guidance do you need -are you waiting for someone to do it for you?
I do understand I can edit and rewrite it anytime, would like to get it as more right as I can without having to fettle with it constantly, some may well be required.
Not waiting for someone to do it for me no.
I guess I was looking for the checklist like.
Safe sex or bareback.
Who you are.
Interests / fantasies.
Wink and message use.
Etc
And get an understanding of any no no's so to speak.
Any hoo, I have wrote one let me know what you think.
Ta"
Well there you go. Not that difficult was it 
I'd say add some more pics I can see one torso and one dodgy out of focus looking .
Have a couple more, it's your shop window.
Do you really want 18-99 or did you just skip that default
If you don't want men set your message filters so they can't contact you
Because they sure ain't reading all that to get one line.
Overall definite improvement
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Well there you go. Not that difficult was it
I'd say add some more pics I can see one torso and one dodgy out of focus looking .
Have a couple more, it's your shop window.
Do you really want 18-99 or did you just skip that default
If you don't want men set your message filters so they can't contact you
Because they sure ain't reading all that to get one line.
Overall definite improvement
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One of the more difficult things I have done recently 
2 hours work that haha.
Pics are something I am aware of.
Can't say I skipped the age thing but I guess I do need to set the upper age tho, not that it would make a lot of difference as there isn't many towards said age 
I never said I didnt want guys to message as such.....
I'm not into guys but sometimes genuine guys message with party invites, events and requests for assistance on behalf of a woman.
Plus also a sad part is it can be the only reply/ message reviewed at all. |
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that was it. 