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By *oxy jWoman 2 weeks ago
taunton somerset |
bluntly put people will only message you if they want to ... nobody owes you anything ... and with the amount of men on fab and how few couples and women compared its always going to be very hard for most men |
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As above. You have 12 pictures and all are your cock or your boxers! Profile picture is decent though so that’s a positive. Lose the ridiculous disclaimer in your bio, it’s literally longer than your actual bio and means nothing at all.
Your profile is a shop window so make it yours and stand out. And again, as above has said, men outnumber women and couples by thousands (we get 20+ messages a day and our profile clearly states we only meet in clubs). Take time to create a profile that really reflects you and your personality…and even then there are no guarantees.
Organised socials and clubs offer a better chance but also appreciate they are not for everyone. Good luck OP. V&K x |
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Are you certain of your direction and desires?
You’re 23 and horny.
Explore the swinging community?
In what way?
What are you looking for exactly in your exploration?
Generic and meaningless really.
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I'd personally delete the cock pics, most women on here get sick of seeing cocks day in and day out. Add your bio more, to include what you're specifically looking for, add a few examples of your hobbies. Add more pictures of you without the cock pics.
Nip down to a social event in your area or a club and make connections. And make yourself noticed on the forums. |
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Have you thought about joining a group of established guys who organise gangbangs? Ready made network of connections through the guys and any couples those guys meet. All the advice above is very good too. Good luck |
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By *harAndBryCouple 2 weeks ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
First two pics are (pretty awful) dick pics, other pics are all the same and not very flattering (and showing no effort at all). Constantly horny always makes us think there's a medical condition going on, there's no need to copy and paste your "looking fors" into your profile text, and the text itself sounds more like a 13yr old who's just found boobs online.
Sorry, but when you consider that most single women and couples only *need* fewer than 5% of the offers they receive, you've made it really easy to quickly delete.
Look at people you'd like to meet. Look at their verifications. Look at the profile of those verifications.
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Your lack of punctuation suggests a lower than average educational standard, which puts a lot of people off.
We get so many posts saying “what’s wrong with my profile?” They don’t need to work on their profiles, they need to work on themselves. |
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"I'd personally delete the cock pics, most women on here get sick of seeing cocks day in and day out. Add your bio more, to include what you're specifically looking for, add a few examples of your hobbies. Add more pictures of you without the cock pics.
Nip down to a social event in your area or a club and make connections. And make yourself noticed on the forums. "
This!
OP
Your profile is your shop window
Why do I stop at yours (let alone go in)
There's one photo thankfully it's not a cock
You seem to want everything/know nothing and need a teacher...
That in itself could put people off
Get more involved on the social side
Go to the chat rooms/forums
Learn about yourself as well which could help narrow down what you actually seek and have to offer |
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Your profile is confusing
You want to see what kinks you’re into with people into the same kinks - slightly paraphrasing
If you don’t know what kinks you’re into how will you know if they match someone else |
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My friend your one in a sea of thousands of guys here. I haven't seen your profile so I won't give you advice on that but the one thing I will say is making these types of threads doesn't help your cause have a look around search the forums for profile advice post's and take any kind of criticism in the chin |
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A couple of the interests you’ve added to your profile text are very niche. That’s not to say you should remove them but as people are looking for compatibility, this may put some off.
A thought from me - the comments about your sex life up to this point suggest those who meet you for the interests you’ve listed, may find themselves in a teaching role. Again, you’re right to be upfront about your experience but if others read it the same way I have, it may switch many off who are looking for mutual enjoyment not to initiate someone. |
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I'd say your profile is very niche which may account for your lack of replies. 