"Looking for advice on how to bring up my most massive fantasy with my wife, watching her with another man (hopefully regularly!)"
Mention it casually, don't pressure her or ambush her with it and see what her thoughts are |
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"Looking for advice on how to bring up my most massive fantasy with my wife, watching her with another man (hopefully regularly!)"
You are writing from a couples profile so surely she can see the question you’re asking here, why not just ask her rather than ask a forum which she is involved in on the account.
Seems a bit odd |
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Assuming Mrs knows about this profile, her bi-curiousness, and her verifications we’d suggest talking about it.
“We’ve had a Fab profile for over a year. What should we do going forward? Can I share my fantasy with you”?
Someone said earlier, your wife, you know how to talk (hopefully) to her. Approach like any other ‘taboo’ matter, slowly, carefully and be prepared to bail out and accept the consequences |
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Sit and have an open chat with her op. Tell her you still have a fantasy to see her with another man and ask if it's something she'd want to try.
It'll either be a yes or a no, if it's a no, you need to try and forget the idea. Swinging isn't for everyone & there's only your wife that can tell you if it's her thing or not.
If she's curious or interested, let her look through here on your account. |
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If you are swingers or are just stepping into this world the most important thing is to have completely open and honest communication with each other. It's a must. It's really important that you can just be open with each others about your desires, even when they are not shared. It's perfectly normal not to share every desire but that still be OK and respected. So I wouldn't pursue swinging till you are completely comfortable just bringing up subjects like this and talking about them.
I mean obviously the cat will be out the bag anyway when she reads this here  |
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