Before my relationship I didnt used to have too much trouble speaking to women and getting interest wether it's a number or social etc. Where as now I seem to really struggle, I still make women laugh but then I either get turned down or I get a number and they barely reply. I guess it's just felt more difficult since my break so I'm left unsure if this is just the way dating is now or wether I've just not aged well haha x |
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You are in a similar position to me a few months ago it seems..
Fab can be a killer for the confidence of a single man until you learn to not take rejection personally.
Add that on top of the feelings you are undoubtedly getting from dealing with the breakup and it's a recipe for feeling unattractive for sure.
Just relax into things and take time to process your thoughts and feelings. In the real world you have a fighters chance, but on fab a single man is a throwaway commodity....
Just be yourself a d you will find your people |
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"Always thought I was a good average but recently been considering that might not be the case haha. Would love to hear a second perspective? Photos on my profile "
Forget pulling on fab for awhile and just use it for the forum or get yourself to a club.
Get yourself out to pubs and just chat and mingle with the ladies without worrying if you pull or not.
If you do great, if you don’t you’ve still had a good night with friends.
Fab will eat away at you if you let it |
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You're reasonably attractive.
But most people are not and will never be mutually compatible with most other people. Don't rate your attraction by the number of replies or meetings you get. Assume it will be about 2% or others who may be mutually compatible but it could be far fewer.
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Physical attraction is a mere part of it for me
Physically you can be the most attractive person but personality wise is as equally a a huge part for me
So if you are talking to them, then it must be assumed there is some sort of physical attraction.
If it stops when you message them I would look at that side more |
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By *oxy jWoman 5 weeks ago
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sexual attraction is essential but its not the only thing the amount of hot guys that manage to mess up via messages is high ...
it what you see with your eyes that spark interest the rest is about engaging the brain most fail that |
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