We have been invited to our first house party and we are just wondering is there any etiquette or anything different than when going to a club
I get the need to be respectful as it is somebody's house but I'm just wondering is anything else different |
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I don't think there's anything really different. Be respectful as always, there might be specific rules but the host should make that clear. And usually just remember that you might be in a more residential area so no screaming from the rooftops  |
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I'd just ask the hosts for a clearer outline, so that you can be more certain that it's the right party for you. Certainly arrivals and departure aren't as fully under your choice level, as far clubs, so I'd want to grasp those beforehand. But you'll still do what's right for the 2 of you. |
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Our first house party was a very nervous affair, but after a few drinks and social chat and scoping out what everyone was into and generally just having a laugh we just went with it, there’s always some etiquette as to who’s interested in what and how, but as a rule everyone we have been to since has been different, we just like to be respectful of boundaries and judge the room on the night, so far so good x |
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We've been to many, many house parties, some in hosts actual homes, some in rented places like airbnb and a couple on a boat.
Go with no expectations, be careful where you park your car, don't want disgruntled neighbours knocking on the front door asking you to move.
Ask the hosts if there are any rules.
We have been to a couple where a no drinks upstairs rule, no sex in garden area etc.
Any rules are usually common sense and always remember you are in someone's home.
As for play, we always chat to people downstairs and if there is a spark we tell them we are nipping upstairs and it would be lovely if they wanted to join us, smile and leave them to make a decision don't hang about and make them feel awkward.
Remember, just because you fancy them, they may not fancy you but you can pick up the vibes when chatting.
We have always had great nights even if we haven't played.
Go with a open mind and a smile, don't stick to the corners, approach people, tell them its your first time and see how they react to you.
You will find almost everyone is super friendly.
Have a great time.
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We have been organising parties until recently at a private home. Before the party we sent all new couples some etiquette about how to behave, mostly in the bedrooms upstairs. Most is common sense. If you are interested, DM us and I will share with you. |
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"We have been invited to our first house party and we are just wondering is there any etiquette or anything different than when going to a club
I get the need to be respectful as it is somebody's house but I'm just wondering is anything else different"
It'll be a fancy dress party so you want to hire a batman and Robin outfit. |
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"Don’t wipe your knob on the curtains
Make sure you flush after a number 2
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And wipe thoroughly 👍🏼
Also don't forget the gift for the hosts. The going rate is a nice bottle of wine, lube and a share bag of M&Ms |
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We've thrown plenty of house parties at our home, our main stipulation is treat it with respect.
We always point out anything specific, if there's a room out of bounds etc
Other than that just be decent people, clean up a spill, put used condoms in a bin and don't leave them on the side for the hosts.. seriously people do this...
And don't get to d*unk if the nerves get the better of you!
Most importantly, have fun! |
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Treat the other guests as you would club guests because single men are still single men. Be mindful of parties that charge single men a lot more because you're probably pimping your wife out for someone else's benefit. |
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"Treat the other guests as you would club guests because single men are still single men. Be mindful of parties that charge single men a lot more because you're probably pimping your wife out for someone else's benefit."
Would you usually expect to pay to attend a house party? (It's been a while)
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"Would you usually expect to pay to attend a house party? (It's been a while)
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We'd be very mindful of it. It's one thing to give a small 'donation' but when there are half a dozen or so single men being charged cash you need to ask yourself if the arrangers/host are profiting from sex with the women.
We've spotted a certain monthly event at a club being advertised, bareback gangbangs and the women that go also exscort. The men get charged around £80 or £90 for entry too. Now, that feels too much like pimping to us. |
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