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By *oodies OP Couple 6 weeks ago
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I would like some newbie advice from stags and vixens out there.
Seriously considering hotwifing, but never gone to play without my stag being there.
Any safety tips or useful advice for a beginner?
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So far the only solo my wife has done is with established relationships.
We are considering open this up a bit but for a one on one we would all need to meet atleast once.
We are thinking that if we do it with out a prior meet it will be a club event. You have the host, staff and most people attending looking out for the wellbeing of everyone.
There will always be some level of risk. |
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Possibly not the sort of person you’re looking for advice from, but I have been involved in Stag/Vixen and Hotwife couples so I have some insight…
By far the biggest advice I can give is to make sure you communicate clearly what you are AND are not looking for with prospective guys… and this should include your Stags views and wants also. Far too many guys neglect to consider that it’s a couple they are arranging things with, not just a hotwife.
Don’t accept someone just on looks or equipment, don’t settle for someone you’re not 100% comfortable with, always have at least one social meet with the 3 of you before anything else and never ever do a solo meet until you’re ready |
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Firstly decide what you both want to get out of this .... then take it from there
- If it's details after and to come home to the hubbie then perhaps consider club meets as they're easier
- if you want to share pictures/ vids of the action... or even live calls (clearly clubs won't work) so consider meets. Where would you feel comfy and safe? Consider a social first.
- what expectations and hopes you have - clearly communicate then with the extra gent. Find out his limits too to see if they work with yours. If he doesn't like pics and hubbie wants them then maybe it won't work.
- think about afterwards.... do you only want 'one offs' or return callers. How would you both feel about having repeat meets ?
Good luck
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