Simply don't understand people who I have spent the best part of a month chatting with getting to know and arranging something to then a day before the meet they block me and cut all contact why do people actually do this as a single fella this has actually shocked me more then usual because I genuinely thought we had got on well went to message him this morning to confirm and greeted with a blocked message it's just infuriating as we have been chatting for ages for it all to just fade away |
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"Simply don't understand people who I have spent the best part of a month chatting with getting to know and arranging something to then a day before the meet they block me and cut all contact why do people actually do this as a single fella this has actually shocked me more then usual because I genuinely thought we had got on well went to message him this morning to confirm and greeted with a blocked message it's just infuriating as we have been chatting for ages for it all to just fade away "
There are a million reasons why people do this and it's horrid when it happens. Just remember, if you have been a decent human, then it's not a reflection on you! I refuse to analyse people for their bad behaviour, I just work on finding my joy and pleasure, which will not depend on another. I hope that you'll be ok soon xx
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I'm sure I'll be fine was just the initial shock of being blocked after so many messages pics we had sent over the duration anyway I'm always looking for the brighter side so will put it down as experience and get back on the bike so to speak |
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For alot of people it’s all about the fantasy and self gratification of getting off on the ideas and thoughts but there’s no intention to make it a reality, sorry you got hurt by this persons actions |
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"Simply don't understand people who I have spent the best part of a month chatting with getting to know and arranging something to then a day before the meet they block me and cut all contact why do people actually do this as a single fella this has actually shocked me more then usual because I genuinely thought we had got on well went to message him this morning to confirm and greeted with a blocked message it's just infuriating as we have been chatting for ages for it all to just fade away "
Simple, there are a hell of a lot of timewasters on here these days !. Fantasists, pic collectors, dirty talk lovers. Our last arranged couple didn't show at the social and we drove for over an hour to get there, its tiring to say the least  |
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"Simply don't understand people who I have spent the best part of a month chatting with getting to know and arranging something to then a day before the meet they block me and cut all contact why do people actually do this as a single fella this has actually shocked me more then usual because I genuinely thought we had got on well went to message him this morning to confirm and greeted with a blocked message it's just infuriating as we have been chatting for ages for it all to just fade away "
Was he closeted by any chance? |
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Sorry to say this is fab it happens regularly being blocked stood up and time wasted
It's happened to me when I was on as a single guy
I chatted to someone for about 3 months chatted on the phone face to face cam even exchange landline numbers
We arranged a meet for a pub lunch day before I was ignored
On the day I said are you still ok for tonight I then got blocked
That was so strange we seemed to get on well luckily not stood up
Keep your head up move on there will be someone out there |
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This is people that don't have manners to can't taught you and say they're not interested anymore it seems some people think it's better just to leave people hanging around You could do it by simply just sending them a text message there's no excuse for bad manners |
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It’s possible that the reasons are not a reflection on you or anything you have done. They may have many things going on in their lives-indeed they may well have come to the realisation that this whole thing isn’t for them! Personally, I limit my losses-my distance is set at 50 miles and always ask to meet for social first. I won’t go miles-too much of a risk. |
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By *an1978Woman 5 weeks ago
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Some are time wasters and fantasists.
Some have genuine anxiety and panic.
I don't talk to many, so it is frustrating when you're enjoying the chat and then complete silence but then again I'm sure I've done it too.
Try not to take it personally xx |
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