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By *pslad99 OP   Man 1 day ago

colchester

Hi really struggling with getting or keeping an erecting.

I use Viagra 100ml and sometimes or most it don’t work but when I leave The scenario it’s rock hard.

Does my head in and ruined some lovley meets.

Any advice of tips please.

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By *runette n JayCouple 1 day ago

bilston

Viagra is not just a magic tab, you still have to be aroused and be in a good mental space.

If you are having issues at the point but not after I'd say your mentally not there fully or you are worried/nervous.

How many successful meets have you had either with/without bluies?

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By *pslad99 OP   Man 1 day ago

colchester

We’ll had 2 meets on here that was fine had a lot of foreplay and it was fin and that’s with pill taken.

Now had other meets wheat it was almost get your kit off and let’s get stuck in an it was a nightmare sometimes I do think it’s a mental issue as you want a hard cock when having fun and it just don’t listen.

Also once I had a couple performance in front of me and nothing happened there with taking a pill and me rubbing my self to get hard.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS 1 day ago

Bristol

I've seen Viagra fail spectacularly.

Older guy popped one as he had issues getting hard, was very much into me. Nothing.

Went down on him and managed to get a slight firmness but nothing more until he came.

He was gutted that it ended up being just a BJ meet.

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By *pslad99 OP   Man 1 day ago

colchester


"I've seen Viagra fail spectacularly.

Older guy popped one as he had issues getting hard, was very much into me. Nothing.

Went down on him and managed to get a slight firmness but nothing more until he came.

He was gutted that it ended up being just a BJ meet.

"

I know that feeling had someone play with me to get hard and then ended up cumming before it got hard at all

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By *rpeggioCouple 1 day ago

Baughurst

I think it's clear that you need some foreplay and a bit of time getting into it for your brain to be turned on. I suggest that you acknowledge that, so you don't blame the Viagra or yourself, it's just the rest you are built, then either you arrange the meetings to include some foreplay, some teasing. If foreplay not discussed beforehand (aware it's not always possible) then you force the situation, e.g. if the lady says "do it know" as she opens the door, you respond "I'll do it when I want" or some dirty talk to get both into a foreplay situation.

In other words, get in the driver seat, funny just be a passenger, that way you'll be in control of the play timeline, and your erection will be there once your mind is on enjoying sex rather than being a ready steady cock for someone.

Oh... And avoid alcohol if you are having any...

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By *arahfromwarringtonTV/TS 1 day ago

warrington

It does sound like a psychological issue but be aware that viagra will often be less effective if you take it after a meal, particularly something heavy or fatty.

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By *oxy jWoman 1 day ago

somerset

if its not working for you then go back to the dr as there are plenty other pills available..

not everyone takes too Viagra to a few its dangerous first time my hubs took it he was blue lighted to hospital and spent weeks in hospital

your penis is also a good indicator of other problems health wise or mental health wise ...go back to you dr tell him/her its not working.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS 1 day ago

Bedford

Have you had your blood sugar checked, also dehydration could be partly to blame.

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By *pslad99 OP   Man 1 day ago

colchester

Thank you all for the advice all noted and going to doctors again.

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