Originally posted this in the scotland forum but posting here to reach more experienced cuck couples
Mr quite likes the idea of being cucked. We are not fully sure just what level of cuckolding we might enjoy. Dropping this forum post to hear from other experienced cuckold couples on what they discovered on their journey. Any tips or things to avoid? |
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By *rLicksMan 6 weeks ago
Worcester |
I’m one half of a stag / vixen couple so understand your hubby’s interest.
It’s all about exploring what turns you both in the most.
For us… not into the humiliation side of things - some guys love it (I’m fairly VWE so having someone fucking my wofe and saying my cock is too small to satisfy her would just sound ridiculous - I’m under no illusion there are plenty of guys who are far more hung than I am too so not making a bragging point)
We enjoy the “hot wife” scenarios where she has her own solo meets (hence why we have individual accounts here alongside our cpl profile) and returns to me for the “reclaim” or to simply sit on my face and make sure I know she’s had a horny evening 💦😈
She also enjoys watching me with the ever elusive unicorn, we typically photo/video our meets to share with each other (although some don’t like to be recorded which is fair and understandable)
Explore the scenarios that you both find a turn on… they may lead into other things that you hadn’t originally considered - make it a journey or horny exploration  |
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By *ev_1Couple 6 weeks ago
Bickliegh |
OP all we can say is go with what you are both comfortable .We are interested in the cuckhold life but get informed we are doing it incorrectly!!So many times stick with what you enjoy  |
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Not a couple but a single guy who has experienced the different ’flavours’ of being involved in couple relationships. Communication is key, and start out slow (ish)… don’t dive in, progress over three or four meets to understand what’s fun, explore limits and scenarios and avoid any relationship damage.
First don’t call it cuckolding if the husband just likes to watch or allow the wife to meet other men - this is just the Stag / Vixen or Hotwife female led relationship (FLR) arrangement. If you call it cuckolding the other guy will expect a different vibe and behave accordingly. Make it clear before the meets.
Choose an experienced and socially skilled second man, someone who recognises and understands the role he is being asked to play.
Cuckolding is a FLR in which there are various degrees of humiliation for the male - this could be just the wife having meets without the husbands express permission - doing what she wants without caring for husbands feelings on the matter, maybe even having meets where she is ‘discovered’ by her husband, coming home after work for example and finding her in bed with another man. Then there are cuckold scenarios where the husband is denied sex, and the wife meets other men, having sex in front of her husband whilst lauding the skills and endowment of her lover and deprecating the husband’s size and abilities to satisfy her. Humiliation in the form of cock cages, making him wear her panties, subservient acts such as picking out her lingerie, getting her dressed, listening outside the room, clean-up or sucking of the bulls cock (I personally hate the term Bull).
I have had meets where the husband has driven us to a restaurant and sat outside waiting, then paid and took us home again to their bed where he has then been excluded - done chores or slept in the spare room whilst his wife fucked her lover..
I think the most extreme was a wife who answered the door, on full view to the neighbours, with her naked husband beside her on his hands and knees, dog collar and lead. He was led upstairs and put in a crate beside the bed while we fucked. Not a word exchanged between husband and wife the entire time… He was allowed out afterwards and lapped between her spread legs, cleaning her up whilst I watched as I got dressed to leave… Cuckolding is a very diverse arrangement, a huge variation of themes, scenarios and behaviours. It can take a bit of time to figure it out and of course there may be constant progression and evolution of the cuckold relationship.
Good luck and have fun! |
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By *oxy jWoman 6 weeks ago
taunton somerset |
stag and vixen are not cuckold
hotwife couples are not cuckold
there are maily 2 types of cuckold on is pure fantasy and role play
and then theres real lifestyle cuckolding where cuck is cuck for real reasons ie to small or cant get erect anf premature ejaculation and the wife looks for other guys for sexual needs |
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By *c69funCouple 6 weeks ago
chesterfield |
As has already been said, don't rush in, have a conversation with each other about what you would like to happen and most importantly what you don't want to happen during your initial meet. You say hubby would like to watch, so start there for your first meet, if anything else happens that's a bonus.
Also I'd recommend that you have a word that will instantly stop what's happening if either of you feel uncomfortable at any time.
Also explain this to the guy your meeting, tell him what you'd both like from the experience.
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OP why don’t you start at the beginning and slowly ramp it up?
Is it that what he really wants is to watch and not be allowed to play or does he want the full monty where his views are not even considered?
The former is really just a hot wife thing and the other seems extreme to me. Just try extending the scenarios each time until you find your limit and then back it off slightly. |
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Cuckolding means lots of different things to lots of different couples, but in reality it’s about the hotwife enjoying extra cock as the cuck has problems with erections or a small penis or in our case the hotwife has the sexual desire to be fucked by other guys, preferably if I’m not present (as it should be).
Our advice, I’d think carefully and take small steps to get to a level that suits you, lots of guys fantasise about their wife cuckolding them, but when your sitting at home on an evening and your wife is out on a date with a guy and you know later that night he’s going to have his cock inside your wife enjoying her, then that sort of jealousy is something that you need to be sure you can deal with. |
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"OP why don’t you start at the beginning and slowly ramp it up?
Is it that what he really wants is to watch and not be allowed to play or does he want the full monty where his views are not even considered?
The former is really just a hot wife thing and the other seems extreme to me. Just try extending the scenarios each time until you find your limit and then back it off slightly."
The latter is a simulation to try to be in control of insecurities and that can come across as weak so its not really going to be palatable to many women |
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