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"Hi, I’m looking for a qualified masseur to give my wife a nice all over body massage. She is very shy. But I love the idea of this leading to some fun. Please let me know if you can help."
Does your wife want to be massaged or dies she want fun like this?
It does not just happen from a massage if someone dies not really like the scenario.
As a masseur, I can say that any good trained or professional masseur would not be involved in this.
It is borderline predatory or abuse |
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"Hi, I’m looking for a qualified masseur to give my wife a nice all over body massage. She is very shy. But I love the idea of this leading to some fun. Please let me know if you can help.
Does your wife want to be massaged or dies she want fun like this?
It does not just happen from a massage if someone dies not really like the scenario.
As a masseur, I can say that any good trained or professional masseur would not be involved in this.
It is borderline predatory or abuse"
I disagree, there are qualified people around who do ‘massage plus’ in a consensual and transparent way. There will always be chancers, but it’s up to the client to do their due diligence. I’ve found massage therapists both on and off Fab who take consent and boundaries/limits deadly seriously. It’s their livelihood at the end of the day that’s on the line if anything went wrong. |
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"Hi, I’m looking for a qualified masseur to give my wife a nice all over body massage. She is very shy. But I love the idea of this leading to some fun. Please let me know if you can help.
Does your wife want to be massaged or dies she want fun like this?
It does not just happen from a massage if someone dies not really like the scenario.
As a masseur, I can say that any good trained or professional masseur would not be involved in this.
It is borderline predatory or abuse
I disagree, there are qualified people around who do ‘massage plus’ in a consensual and transparent way. There will always be chancers, but it’s up to the client to do their due diligence. I’ve found massage therapists both on and off Fab who take consent and boundaries/limits deadly seriously. It’s their livelihood at the end of the day that’s on the line if anything went wrong. "
Yes.
And J certainly have done but it's been made abundantly clear that is the scenario before I've even artived.
The way this is worded is not indicating that to me at all.
It sounds like the woman is not involved in this at all . And is not on the profile even.
To me that is wrong and I wouldn't be getting involved unless I spoke to her. |
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"Hi, I’m looking for a qualified masseur to give my wife a nice all over body massage. She is very shy. But I love the idea of this leading to some fun. Please let me know if you can help."
The key there is that you love the idea, but does she?.
As mrs Nice said, if you're going to try this, you do need a couple profile with pics of you both. You don't mention a wife on your bio and requests like this from a single profile come across as dodgy. |
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To me that is wrong and I wouldn't be getting involved unless I spoke to her."
Completely agree and the only good course of action for all parties. Sorry, I thought we disagreed, but we’re actually on exactly the same page! |
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To me that is wrong and I wouldn't be getting involved unless I spoke to her.
Completely agree and the only good course of action for all parties. Sorry, I thought we disagreed, but we’re actually on exactly the same page! "
Definitely.
You wouldn't believe the messages I get along these ljlines from single make profiles.
I'm sure a lot are fantasy and keyboard wankers.
No way would I do it if I thought for a minute the woman was unaware. |
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"Without wanting to sound on a downer but how do we know your wife consents to this as you’re writing from a single profile with no reference to her
Maybe that her to a spa day "
I completely agree with you. It could only just be one-sided. He’s fantasy. |
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To me that is wrong and I wouldn't be getting involved unless I spoke to her.
Completely agree and the only good course of action for all parties. Sorry, I thought we disagreed, but we’re actually on exactly the same page!
Definitely.
You wouldn't believe the messages I get along these ljlines from single make profiles.
I'm sure a lot are fantasy and keyboard wankers.
No way would I do it if I thought for a minute the woman was unaware."
My regular massage guy tells me very similar stories. Nobody gets anywhere near him until they themselves have filled out all the paperwork! |
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"Without wanting to sound on a downer but how do we know your wife consents to this as you’re writing from a single profile with no reference to her
Maybe that her to a spa day
I completely agree with all the comment aboveyou. It could only just be one-sided. He’s fantasy."
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"Thanks for all the replies, good and bad.
It has all been taken on board and the wife is aware as we talk regularly about this. I just want to find the right person.  "
She'll see the sense in creating a photo verified couples profile then  . |
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"Thanks for all the replies, good and bad.
It has all been taken on board and the wife is aware as we talk regularly about this. I just want to find the right person. "
I hope you find what you're both looking for. I get many requests from men who want me to massage their partners. My standard reply is" ask her to contact me". Generally a tiny number get back to me. It's a wonderful experience , as a couple, to have a professional massage your partner, while the other watches. The woman feels very secure and safe with her partner present. |
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I do tantric massage for ladies while their husband watches. I’ve been contacted a number of times by men of unsuspecting wives. They want me to “hoodwink” their wives into believing I’ve come to give them a sports massage.
I’m not getting involved with that. |
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