Sorry folks I hide my profile when not on line only for privacy reasons that's all as I've seen my boss and his wife on here and don't want them to know what I'm up to would be abot difficult at work |
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"Hi all I'm really struggling to find a bi couple , ideally local but I can travel . Is there anybody else struggling to find bi couples on here who respond?
Good things come to those who wait  "
This is Very true.
At least I've found it to be so. |
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"Sorry folks I hide my profile when not on line only for privacy reasons that's all as I've seen my boss and his wife on here and don't want them to know what I'm up to would be abot difficult at work "
Block them - they won't be able to see your profile then... |
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By *ickD80Man 2 weeks ago
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"Sorry folks I hide my profile when not on line only for privacy reasons that's all as I've seen my boss and his wife on here and don't want them to know what I'm up to would be abot difficult at work "
Why would it be difficult at work if they knew? You’re not doing anything illegal, you’re not hurting anyone, you’re not doing anything that will affect your ability to do your job. If they’re on here as well then why do you think they’re going to judge you for being on here? The fact that your boss is on here means that you absolutely don’t have to worry about him finding out you’re on here. The only people who are going to judge you and have a problem with you being on here are people who’ve never been on here and will assume it’s something that it isn’t.
Do you know that you don’t have to reveal your identity on your profile? You can write your profile and post pictures that maintain your anonymity so that even if they did look at your profile they wouldn’t know it was yours. Or, like others have said, you could just block them.
Hiding your profile is a serious red flag so you’d be a lot better off doing one of those 2 things and if you’re un-hiding your profile when you’re online then your boss can see your profile then anyway. Out of all the options available to you for hiding from your boss you’ve chosen the absolute worst one, which isn’t even an option that should ne considered anyway because it’s not preventing your boss from seeing your profile at all times. |
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"Hi all I'm really struggling to find a bi couple , ideally local but I can travel . Is there anybody else struggling to find bi couples on here who respond? "
I would recommend going to bi nights at clubs or saunas, we have a joint profile but never meet people Just off fab, we prefer meet people face to face at clubs sauna etc. profiles on here don’t always reflect the person, some are better than profiles some not so  |
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OP - have you assessed how many you may have missed, because your profile is hidden? It obviously is going to be next to impossible for most single men to meet anyone of the opposite gender here, when you hide your profile.
People need great certainty, before they feel certain enough that a man could be right for 2 or more other people. They need to assess physical attraction, by seeing you, learn about your personality and sexual tastes, as you've got to satisfy all of the other people. It's not done by playing cat and mouse or them having to choose doubt instead of positive likelihood of the competitive men who have easier access.
If in doubt or if it's made to be hard work for them, then they have already left you behind.
If your behaviour screams that you're not that committed, they will scream fuck off to you. Do the opposite and be welcoming and obliging.
And get to bi events too. Increase your bi social circle. Are you coming to the bi social in early 2025? |
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Like flatting fog, herding kittens..
I have met a few genuine couples and loved it each time but there’s always hope lol
Next weeks lottery numbers are 1,3,35,21,16 and 42
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