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Keep talking and whatever you do, do not cheat. It is so corrosive to a relationship and she will know. Trust is so important in a good swinging relationship.
Or be prepared to move on. Sorry but that is the truth of the matter. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 3 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"My hunger for sex is far more greater than my partners. WTF do I do?
I have way too much energy and a fat “10” to match.
I must be going wrong somewhere."
If you're a couple and she's aware you have have a single profile then I see no problem. Just meet on your own to fill the need. 🤷♂️ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 3 weeks ago
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"Keep talking and whatever you do, do not cheat. It is so corrosive to a relationship and she will know. Trust is so important in a good swinging relationship.
Or be prepared to move on. Sorry but that is the truth of the matter."
Thank you. The latter is where my head is tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 3 weeks ago
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"My hunger for sex is far more greater than my partners. WTF do I do?
I have way too much energy and a fat “10” to match.
I must be going wrong somewhere.
If you're a couple and she's aware you have have a single profile then I see no problem. Just meet on your own to fill the need. 🤷♂️"
Ha,if it was that easy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 3 weeks ago
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"Talk to her about it and find some solutions. A large cock won’t correct it. "
No a large cock wont correct it. The point I was trying to make is, she’s fortunate to have that good dick which is just wasted in my opinion. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 3 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"My hunger for sex is far more greater than my partners. WTF do I do?
I have way too much energy and a fat “10” to match.
I must be going wrong somewhere.
If you're a couple and she's aware you have have a single profile then I see no problem. Just meet on your own to fill the need. 🤷♂️
Ha,if it was that easy."
Why is it not? |
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By *bi HaiveMan 3 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Talk to her about it and find some solutions. A large cock won’t correct it.
No a large cock wont correct it. The point I was trying to make is, she’s fortunate to have that good dick which is just wasted in my opinion."
Fortunate? Maybe size isn't everything to her? Or others. Perhaps focusing on that is what's making things harder for you. |
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"Keep talking and whatever you do, do not cheat. It is so corrosive to a relationship and she will know. Trust is so important in a good swinging relationship.
Or be prepared to move on. Sorry but that is the truth of the matter."
Think it’s late for that lol op had a solo male profile on fab  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 3 weeks ago
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"Your profile says this is a couples account so guessing your partner has access to it?"
Correct. She dosnt read these things. Or even look at the site anymore. |
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"Keep talking and whatever you do, do not cheat. It is so corrosive to a relationship and she will know. Trust is so important in a good swinging relationship.
Or be prepared to move on. Sorry but that is the truth of the matter.
Thank you. The latter is where my head is tbh. "
Have you got someone to move on to? You could be going from not enough sex to no sex. |
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"Keep talking and whatever you do, do not cheat. It is so corrosive to a relationship and she will know. Trust is so important in a good swinging relationship.
Or be prepared to move on. Sorry but that is the truth of the matter.
Thank you. The latter is where my head is tbh.
Have you got someone to move on to? You could be going from not enough sex to no sex. "
So true! You might think you’re gifted and the world is your oyster but you will lose a lot if you follow your dick but it’s absolutely your choice just be mindful of your partner! |
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By *bi HaiveMan 3 weeks ago
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"Your profile says this is a couples account so guessing your partner has access to it?
Correct. She dosnt read these things. Or even look at the site anymore."
Then it's probably worth updating your profile to reflect this. Yes, it's now a single male profile, but anyone reading it will see the references to you being a couple and potentially avoid.
If it's just you, make the profile about you. Might help you find those looking for a single guy then. |
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"My hunger for sex is far more greater than my partners. WTF do I do?
I have way too much energy and a fat “10” to match.
I must be going wrong somewhere."
Perhaps she needs a different type of sexual stimulation.
Our sex life was in the doldrums 20 years ago until as a joke we bought some handcuffs and a flogger in an Ann Summers.
It was a ‘eureka moment’ completely transforming our sex life.
You’d be amazed at the number of women who now approach me to be tied and teased, it’s a really good way of ‘getting inside their heads’
Big cocks help but it’s not enough for many women. |
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"Talk to her about it and find some solutions. A large cock won’t correct it.
No a large cock wont correct it. The point I was trying to make is, she’s fortunate to have that good dick which is just wasted in my opinion."
Fortunate!!
That’s very arrogant of you
Maybe she’s more interested in the person connected to the dick than the dick itself |
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By *CExeCouple 3 weeks ago
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The fact you're talking to a forum rather than your partner is telling. As a couple it looks like you had 2 meets in 8 years; was she ever really into the scene, or was it more your idea and she just went along with it? Talk to her and then make your mind up. The size of your dick has nothing to do with the situation and won't garner any sympathy or praise on here. |
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Talk it out with the gal and have a frank conversation about this. Find out what she likes and into - it will surprise you. Or maybe you need to find a person that matches your drive. Who knows, you might not match hers and then you realise what you had was way better. Give it a go and talk it out. All the best man.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 3 weeks ago
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"Talk it out with the gal and have a frank conversation about this. Find out what she likes and into - it will surprise you. Or maybe you need to find a person that matches your drive. Who knows, you might not match hers and then you realise what you had was way better. Give it a go and talk it out. All the best man. "
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"My hunger for sex is far more greater than my partners. WTF do I do?
I have way too much energy and a fat “10” to match.
I must be going wrong somewhere."
If she is a keeper then talk to her about it. If she is not, go get it bro and fulfil your desire. Life is short just remember to wrap up  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 3 weeks ago
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"On a different thread someone posted that, in a similar situation, your choices are talk, wank or leave. I’d suggest starting with talking, by which I mean listening. "
Appreciated and already tried this method many of times |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 3 weeks ago
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"My hunger for sex is far more greater than my partners. WTF do I do?
I have way too much energy and a fat “10” to match.
I must be going wrong somewhere.
If she is a keeper then talk to her about it. If she is not, go get it bro and fulfil your desire. Life is short just remember to wrap up "
Much appreciated brother |
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"My hunger for sex is far more greater than my partners. WTF do I do?
I have way too much energy and a fat “10” to match.
I must be going wrong somewhere.
If she is a keeper then talk to her about it. If she is not, go get it bro and fulfil your desire. Life is short just remember to wrap up "
But remember the grass isn’t allways greener |
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"Talk to her about it and find some solutions. A large cock won’t correct it.
No a large cock wont correct it. The point I was trying to make is, she’s fortunate to have that good dick which is just wasted in my opinion."
wow what a self obsessed numpty “she’s fortunate to have that good 10” dick” have a word pal
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"Thanks guys, I will give my head a wobble.
Would love to take the time to explain further, people are so quick to put a negative spin on things."
Probably because experience on here tells us the negative spin is usually the correct one. |
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I can't say my home sex life is boring as for the past 17 years its as been non existent due to my mrs illness many years back, so i have been exploring my Bi side and got to chat with a couple of mature married guys and see how it goes. |
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Tricky one. Had something similar years ago. Tried having a conversation with her about it and got repeatedly called a pervert and was thrown in my face many times. Was lucky though as I had nothing to lose so ended it.
If you have got stuff to lose, house, kids etc I think very careful before mentioning anything as you don't know how she will react. Could lose everything!
Maybe just have a wank and cry. |
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"My hunger for sex is far more greater than my partners. WTF do I do?
I have way too much energy and a fat “10” to match.
I must be going wrong somewhere.
If she is a keeper then talk to her about it. If she is not, go get it bro and fulfil your desire. Life is short just remember to wrap up
But remember the grass isn’t allways greener "
A good friend of mine once said "the grass is always greener where you water it the most". |
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"Talk to her about it and find some solutions. A large cock won’t correct it.
No a large cock wont correct it. The point I was trying to make is, she’s fortunate to have that good dick which is just wasted in my opinion."
A good dick isn't the be all and end all, using it right is. She's not fortunate you have a good dick, no dick is worth being cheated on.
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"My hunger for sex is far more greater than my partners. WTF do I do?
I have way too much energy and a fat “10” to match.
I must be going wrong somewhere."
I feel your frustration my wife has no libido and hurts her to have sex! She suggests I use a lady of the night but I really don't want that! |
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"My hunger for sex is far more greater than my partners. WTF do I do?
I have way too much energy and a fat “10” to match.
I must be going wrong somewhere.I feel your frustration my wife has no libido and hurts her to have sex! She suggests I use a lady of the night but I really don't want that! "
What about oral ? Toys ? |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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"My hunger for sex is far more greater than my partners. WTF do I do?
I have way too much energy and a fat “10” to match.
I must be going wrong somewhere."
In same situation know your pain brother |
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"Talk to her about it and find some solutions. A large cock won’t correct it.
No a large cock wont correct it. The point I was trying to make is, she’s fortunate to have that good dick which is just wasted in my opinion."
Jesus. Maybe it’s your attitude that’s the problem |
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By *100Man 3 weeks ago
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Can’t get an answer from my wife as to why she has no sex drive I try every weekend and every day lots of cuddles, kisses, gifts, money so never has to ask for anything where am I going wrong.
And I’ve never cheated I just try to wank every day and touch my nipples when no one’s looking for my little bit of pleasure being married can be very lonely most of the times.
Now you can all take the piss as usual but a little help might be nice. |
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"Can’t get an answer from my wife as to why she has no sex drive I try every weekend and every day lots of cuddles, kisses, gifts, money so never has to ask for anything where am I going wrong.
And I’ve never cheated I just try to wank every day and touch my nipples when no one’s looking for my little bit of pleasure being married can be very lonely most of the times.
Now you can all take the piss as usual but a little help might be nice."
" I try every weekend and every day lots of cuddles, kisses, gifts, money so never has to ask for anything where am I going wrong."
That's where you're going wrong |
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"Can’t get an answer from my wife as to why she has no sex drive I try every weekend and every day lots of cuddles, kisses, gifts, money so never has to ask for anything where am I going wrong.
And I’ve never cheated I just try to wank every day and touch my nipples when no one’s looking for my little bit of pleasure being married can be very lonely most of the times.
Now you can all take the piss as usual but a little help might be nice."
If she’s bothered by her lack of libido, she could go to have it checked out at the doctor - it could be any one of a million things. Perimenopause is the obvious one, it can hit at pretty any age. Sigh.
If she’s not bothered by it, you have a more complicated situation.
But to get at either of those outcomes, you need a ‘how are you feeling’ heart to heart chat. |
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Try to bring subject of fun while watching some naughty films , be totally honest with her , tell her you thinking of spicing sex life up a bit , small steps first , no rushing into things , do not cheat what so ever , she may like the idea , my wife did and a few of the women I’ve met have , if she says blatant no and doesn’t want to make things better then look at parting , But try and find the cause of her loss of interest , swinging boosted my wife’s confidence |
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"Talk to her about it and find some solutions. A large cock won’t correct it.
No a large cock wont correct it. The point I was trying to make is, she’s fortunate to have that good dick which is just wasted in my opinion."
Bloody hell you don't love yourself do you!
Your attitude towards the subject that "she's fortunate to have a good dick", just makes you sound like a dick! Sounds to me that you're the lucky one to have her, if you act like this! Sounds to me like you need to go have a wank, and let her go find a man who respects her that's a real man!
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"My hunger for sex is far more greater than my partners. WTF do I do?
I have way too much energy and a fat “10” to match.
I must be going wrong somewhere."
You’ve got to win her heart, trust, soul and mind first and if you do that your chances of fun will rise x5000 %
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"My hunger for sex is far more greater than my partners. WTF do I do?
I have way too much energy and a fat “10” to match.
I must be going wrong somewhere."
sorry but reading all your saying throughout this thread, maybe it's your attitude that's the problem, don't jump all over me, maybe she needs more of a spiritual connection to feel more relaxed and sexual, you just seem to be looking at the sex side, if she's unhappy with other parts of the relationship your not getting rewarded with sex. Try fixing what she feels is the issues then everything else will hopefully fix themselves. Just a thought. |
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