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Am I doing something wrong?
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By *bxanfCouple 2 weeks ago
Shadow Moses, Stourbridge |
Now for us personally, your username and profile pic would put us off right away. You have some nice face pics on show maybe use one of them?
Your bio really gives people nothing to go on about who you are or what you are looking for.
Look at it from another perspective, would you want to message someone with your profile? |
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I think some of the replies above are rather harsh, particularly as you didn't ask for feedback on your profile or profile picture.It can be hard going for single men on Fab, especially younger ones. It doesn't necessarily mean you are doing anything wrong.
Lots of men have cock pictures as a profile picture, so I wouldn't be so fast to blame it on that. Write yourself a few lines of profile, saying what floats your boat sexually or stuff you would like to try maybe.
Don't lose heart. Possibly try a club too .. |
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"I think some of the replies above are rather harsh, particularly as you didn't ask for feedback on your profile or profile picture.It can be hard going for single men on Fab, especially younger ones. It doesn't necessarily mean you are doing anything wrong.
Lots of men have cock pictures as a profile picture, so I wouldn't be so fast to blame it on that. Write yourself a few lines of profile, saying what floats your boat sexually or stuff you would like to try maybe.
Don't lose heart. Possibly try a club too .." I'm finding it hard being new . I'm respectful in DMs and I'm willing to learn the scene the right way but I'm struggling to get a look in at present .
I may look at clubs down the line but personal situation doesn't allow for it at the moment |
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"I think some of the replies above are rather harsh, particularly as you didn't ask for feedback on your profile"
It quite reasonable to critique someone's profile if it's relevant to their post.
OP we can see 5 red flags on your profile that could be stopping you getting anywhere.
I realise that everone has their own red flags but with so many you increase the chances of putting a lot of people off
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"I’ve been on here abit now and I’ve been trying to get into the scene but I’m not getting no replies or anything is there something I’m doing wrong ?"
Honestly, your profile pic and user name would be enough for us to just delete unread any message you sent. We're sure you mean well but they're both quite off-putting.
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A smile helps, and maybe a bit more creativity or imagination with your pics.
And your short statement says nothing about yourself, what you like, your experiences or what you are looking for.
If you are expecting ladies to throw themselves on you then if nothing else you are optimistic. |
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All you really have on here is your profile (plus forum posts and chat rooms if you partake) so getting it to say something about you, what you are like, what you can offer and what you are hoping to find, is a big part of what you can do.
To be honest meeting someone directly via the site is quite rare at least in my experience, meeting someone at a club or party who is on the site is much more likely.
Good luck
Lance x
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"I’ve been on here abit now and I’ve been trying to get into the scene but I’m not getting no replies or anything is there something I’m doing wrong ?"
You’re only 25 mate, what are you doing in here? Get out in to the ‘normal’ world of pubs, bars and general nightlife. I guarantee you will meet more women in one night out in Warrington, than you’re likely to after 6 months in here! The ratios are way out, and you’re quite possibly the age of most people’s children in here….
Jeez I wish I was 25 again…… |
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By *end1Man 1 week ago
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Ffs can't we put an end to the daily guy's moaning about not having any luck with the ladies. It doesn't matter how big your cock is or handsome we outnumber the couples and single females by at least 3 to 1. Just like the female scorpion they have all the real power! |
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"I’ve been on here abit now and I’ve been trying to get into the scene but I’m not getting no replies or anything is there something I’m doing wrong ?"
Hi Cal,
It's notoriously difficult for single guys in the scene in general. It's common knowledge. We outnumber single women something ridiculous like 40:1.
The odds are stacked massively against us from the start. Let me tell you honestly that your profile name and pic are massively hindering you (if you're looking for women).
This game is a social game. In a nutshell, what you've got to do is treat women like friends at the start. They're not turned on by graphic sexual material. It all starts in their minds then you've got to gradually warm them up.
Also, many guys make the fatal mistake of saying "hi", "hey babe", "fancy a fuck", etc... what happens then is that the guys with a different approach scoop them up (sometimes).
I feel like a bit of an idiot giving up my secrets, but sent them messages that they can relate to. Messages that you simply can't ignore. Bizarre messages are good too.
Basically, the first hoop you need to jump through is grabbing attention.
Have a think about how to make a fun and interesting first message. You'll still be ignored 50% of the time, but you'll have an edge over other guys.
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"Ffs can't we put an end to the daily guy's moaning about not having any luck with the ladies. It doesn't matter how big your cock is or handsome we outnumber the couples and single females by at least 3 to 1. Just like the female scorpion they have all the real power!"
Women may have more options to choose from in Fab, but they don’t have “all the real power” lol….. |
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"Ffs can't we put an end to the daily guy's moaning about not having any luck with the ladies. It doesn't matter how big your cock is or handsome we outnumber the couples and single females by at least 3 to 1. Just like the female scorpion they have all the real power!
Women may have more options to choose from in Fab, but they don’t have “all the real power” lol….."
I agree. Women have all the power that you allow them to have. 🫢 |
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"I’ve been on here abit now and I’ve been trying to get into the scene but I’m not getting no replies or anything is there something I’m doing wrong ?
Honestly, your profile pic and user name would be enough for us to just delete unread any message you sent. We're sure you mean well but they're both quite off-putting.
(Bry)"
Exactly the same opinion from us too
Jules x |
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