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By *weetRoll OP Man 9 weeks ago
Angus/Dundee/Perth |
Would like to get some opinions on my profile.
Just wanting to know if there is any red flags/things that would get you to change your mind for the worst even if you had initial interest in me.
I'm not looking to make a perfect profile cus from my research on the forums the time/benefit ratio is not worthwhile. As a single male I'm expecting most meets to come from clubs/social meets not online.
So I'd like advice which would take my profile to an above average standard -- if it isnt at that level already.
If you can, please give specific advice not vague feedback that's difficult to act upon.
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By *weetRoll OP Man 9 weeks ago
Angus/Dundee/Perth |
Thank you for such a rapid response.
Its reassuring that you find it decent. I'm satisfied with that.
I agree that I could have some more variation with the photo's.
Got some I could use but need to mask my face on em first.
Thanks again.  |
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Looks fairly decent to me.
Might be worth looking at the statement about exploring your sexuality as that can be interpreted in different ways, although I do appreciate you've stated you're strictly hetero.
As far as pointing out red flags, you may find people are reluctant to do so. Red flags on a profile serve a very good purpose and helping people conceal them benefits only the profile owner.
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By *weetRoll OP Man 9 weeks ago
Angus/Dundee/Perth |
Hiya,
That's a good shout I can amend the sexuality part to minimise risk of confusion.
I can understand the bit about 'red-flags' but...
For a newcomer it can be a bit frustrating. Clear example is that some people consider hidden verification as red flags and I had to read the forum to learn that as I had mine hidden initially.
So someone could come to my profile, see the hidden verification and then bail cus its hidden.
So I just don't want to be making that sort of error.
Those sort of innocent things that can be interpreted as red flags.
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By *weetRoll OP Man 9 weeks ago
Angus/Dundee/Perth |
100% agree.
It gets complicated to try and explain what I'm getting at, maybe a better way to express it is things that are redundant or sub-optimal.
Things in my profile that will repel *most* people.
I know I cant appeal to everyone. And I don't want to. But I want to express myself in a good way. |
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^^ I think the better approach is to try to appeal to the type of person *you* want to meet without worrying too much about most people. In truth you're unlikely to be compatible with most not many of us are. |
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Thanks.