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By *v77 OP   Man 5 weeks ago

Cannock

I finding it so hard to get messages back please help it's evere or I doing my opening message wrong

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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago

Depends on what your opening messages are like.

Do you tailor them to the person you send them to? Do you read the profile and make sure you are the person they are looking for?

Even with all that getting a message back isn't guaranteed.

Personally we would respond but it would be a polite rejection because your profile gives no indication of the kind of person you are or what you are looking for.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 5 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

How can we know if you're doing wrong without knowing anything about the messages?

Many people look at profiles before even opening a message. One with a single line of text that doesn't make much sense or tell me anything about the person means I'll probably just delete the message.

What do you think you're doing right OP? 💜

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By *nytime2023Couple 5 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

As the two above have said already, we look at profile before even reading the message. And as others have stated, you have one line of text. Remember that women and couples can receive a huge number of messages everyday. We have received 16 in the last 12 hours and we clearly state we only attend clubs. We have single female friends who can get 100+ in a single day. Stand out with your profile and you may get more response. V&K x

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By *ucka39Man 5 weeks ago

Newcastle

Hiya op

Id add some smartly dressed photos, and create a bio that shows your personality and what sexually makes you tick as well as what you maybe looking for besides the sex within others even a scenario....

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By *issmorganWoman 5 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op you've written one line on your bio, that doesn't give anyone an idea of your personality, what you're into or offering.

So sorry, I wouldn't reply either.

Maybe take time to write a profile and the only other point I'd make is, you don't look very approachable in your pics.

Perhaps you could try a smile in one or upload some different ones.

Good luck

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By *oupleSouthEast69Couple 5 weeks ago

brighton

If you received a message from someone with a profile similar to yours would you reply?

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