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By *eally OP   Man 7 weeks ago

Bristol

I’m relatively new here and I just wanted to know what makes a good profile and how could I improve on mine

Any help or suggestions are welcome

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By *ablo minibar123Woman 7 weeks ago

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"I’m relatively new here and I just wanted to know what makes a good profile and how could I improve on mine

Any help or suggestions are welcome "

would you really have sex with a 99 year old?

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By *eally OP   Man 7 weeks ago

Bristol

Probably not lol let me change that

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By *teve321Man 7 weeks ago

Waltham cross

Dick pick as a profile is not a good start

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By *eally OP   Man 7 weeks ago

Bristol


"Dick pick as a profile is not a good start"

What would you recommend other than a face pic?

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By *issmorganWoman 7 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"Dick pick as a profile is not a good start

What would you recommend other than a face pic? "

You have lots of other body parts op. Chest, bum or dressed with your head cropped off.

You don't have to show your face.

You don't really give me much idea about who you are in your profile, what can you offer meets, what are you into.

Your age may go against you, but there's not much you can do about that.

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By *eally OP   Man 7 weeks ago

Bristol


"Dick pick as a profile is not a good start

What would you recommend other than a face pic?

You have lots of other body parts op. Chest, bum or dressed with your head cropped off.

You don't have to show your face.

You don't really give me much idea about who you are in your profile, what can you offer meets, what are you into.

Your age may go against you, but there's not much you can do about that. "

I will find the time to take some good pictures to upload them

When you say not much of an idea about me I just don’t really know what to put down? I’m fine with adding things I can offer and I’m into but what do I add about myself? Do u have an example?

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By *ubbabubbaloverWoman 7 weeks ago

perpetual agony

Use the search function at the top and type in profile advice. There are 100s of this type of thread

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By *olinOfBathMan 7 weeks ago

Corsham

I'm always slightly sceptical if a guy won't show his face...

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By *vaRose43Woman 7 weeks ago

Forest of Dean


"I'm always slightly sceptical if a guy won't show his face..."

Nobody should feel the need to show their face on a public profile ever.

OP

You definitely need more pics. Body shots, clothed and unclothed. Bum, back, shoulders, arms…. In a variety of positions and lighting. Take your time there is no rush.

For your bio, think about what you would want to read. What sort of person do you find attractive, what you want, what you don’t want, what turns you on. If you can inject a little bit of yourself into the bio then even better.

You’re ever so young but there’s nothing you can do about that, just be aware that your age may mean the pool you’re entering smaller because of it.

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By *revaunanceCouple 7 weeks ago

Exeter

Hello OP

Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret and certainly don't get into arguements over it. The world has changed and how people meet today is different to how it was 10 years ago, let alone 30 or 40.

Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age, distance etc. There is no point contacting people hundreds of miles away if you cannot 100% commit to a meet.

Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet, you're wasting your time and theirs.

Consider how you approach people, don't just write 'Hi', 'Fancy a chat' or any other generic one liner, It WILL get you ignored. If you followed the advice above and read the persons profile then there should be some common ground to write about.

Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. We are a couple that do meet guys of your age, and one look at your profile would put us off from looking any further. What you have written is so generic it could one of a thousand profiles.

Nobody knows you as well as you know you, and if you have nothing to say about yourself it could be interpreted as there is nothing worth saying about you. That's probably not true, but would you start a conversation in person with someone if you thought you would only get single word answers because they have nothing to say?

Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you. As a single guy you are already fighting an uphill battle; as a young guy too your battle isn't uphill, its practically up a cliff! That doesn't mean you won't have any luck, but you really need to look at your profile, so as to ensure you make the best possible first impression.

Put on some different pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile, and anything in between is great. Next time it's a lovely day, get out and take some selfies somewhere nice. You can always use free software to pixelate your face.

However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too, both are great ways of getting to know people with no pressure and no first time nerves.

Dont be afraid to get off the site and meet people socially or try a club. You could always sign up to an organised social, where you may meet many people from the area, and perhaps make a better impression face to face than via the Internet. It might be a little nerve wracking the first time, but what harm can having a coffee or a pint with a stranger really do?

Good luck

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By *ojo2joWoman 7 weeks ago

Penclawdd


"Dick pick as a profile is not a good start

What would you recommend other than a face pic? "

Same pic with some nice pants on

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By *he Silver FuxMan 7 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"Dick pick as a profile is not a good start"

It’s not even a good dick pic.. fucking lost in those pubes. Couldn’t even be bothered to adjust the contrast and brightness on the picture making us squint - which somehow makes it even worse.

Come on mate, have a think… how do I make women more interested in me? There’s so much advice floating around Fab it’s hard to launch a bad profile if you just looked and learned.

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By *he Silver FuxMan 7 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"Use the search function at the top and type in profile advice. There are 100s of this type of thread "

80% of Fab forum historical content is some great advice for single male profiles that is ignored…

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By *eally OP   Man 7 weeks ago

Bristol

Thank you all for all your advice and I have decided to completely redo my profile and actually genuinely take proper time out to write stuff and take pics

wish me luck 😩

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By *he Silver FuxMan 7 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"Thank you all for all your advice and I have decided to completely redo my profile and actually genuinely take proper time out to write stuff and take pics

wish me luck 😩"

Good man, remember if you can follow some of the advice on this site and work it into an interesting and attractive profile you’re already ahead of 70% of single guys who think their dick flopping out is what’s attractive to women.

One picture, a crisp white dress shirt (ironed!!), sleeves turned back to reveal forearms, laid back slightly in a louche and rakish manner on a sofa, carelessly holding a champagne glass loosely in a draped hand… You’re mysterious, possibly a bit of a bad boy… oh my… they want to read what you have to say about yourself.. This a picture 1000 times more attractive to most women than an ugly dick pic or a topless snap of their beer belly hanging over a belt.

All the best

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By *rsKOTCTWoman 7 weeks ago

Leeds

You have no profile so anything would be a bonus.

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By *loydyboyMan 6 weeks ago

Cleckheaton

I can see your not a fan of profile pic so what about doing a mascaraed style pic it shows your a person with a bit of mystery about them

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By *revaunanceCouple 2 weeks ago

Exeter

It is good to see that you have taken on the advice kindly given by others above. It shows that you generally care about how you are portraying yourself to others.

To finnesse your profile a little more I would suggest you drop the double question marks, emoji's don't work well on profiles. You could also do with having a little more variety in your pics. Three of the current four are almost identical in your pose and angle. As suggested before get out and about and take a nice selfie somewhere with a bit of colour and a nice backdrop.

If we ignore that we are out of your age range and look purely at the presentation of your profile, we would be far more tempted now than we were four weeks ago. That's a positive step in itself.

Now all you have to do is go out there and wow those under 50's that you are interested in, which should be a lot easier now, well done

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