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Is it wrong to be a cuckold?
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No. With full respect for what your partner wants, it's fine to still have fantasies that may differ. It seems that you both have matching desires and you both can decide whether or not you actually pursue them. Stay open and you will both be able to navigate together |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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I went to a party years ago, met a lovely couple. He loved telling me what to do to his wife, who was clearly out of his league. He had money, she was sexy.
But he loved dominating me more, as I was bigger and more masculine.
Then, he had her after me.
We had a great time, but I just didn’t get his part. Can someone else explain?
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"I really get excited at the thought of my asian wife being fucked bareback by a dominant bull as i sit and watch....i know she fantasisies about it as well.....does this make me a bad person? "
No. It's your kink.
My wifes into me fucking other women (and yes, we have a couples account on here). She gets off on other women wanting me (which I obviously enjoy) and thats our thing.
As long as everyones happy with it..whats the problem?
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By *m3232Man 13 weeks ago
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"I really get excited at the thought of my asian wife being fucked bareback by a dominant bull as i sit and watch....i know she fantasisies about it as well.....does this make me a bad person? "
You all love different things so no. Myself I would find another guy having sex with my Mrs a big turn on also. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"I went to a party years ago, met a lovely couple. He loved telling me what to do to his wife, who was clearly out of his league. He had money, she was sexy.
But he loved dominating me more, as I was bigger and more masculine.
Then, he had her after me.
We had a great time, but I just didn’t get his part. Can someone else explain?
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It's dominance. He dominated you both, you were under his control, got off on it as you were bigger than him, etc |
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if that is what you and your wife want , then no its up to you both, you cant help the way you feel and your fantasies, i'm sure you have many a wank thinking about some hung guy entering your wife , her legs wide open and she is holding her pussy open for him to fuck her,, |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"I went to a party years ago, met a lovely couple. He loved telling me what to do to his wife, who was clearly out of his league. He had money, she was sexy.
But he loved dominating me more, as I was bigger and more masculine.
Then, he had her after me.
We had a great time, but I just didn’t get his part. Can someone else explain?
It's dominance. He dominated you both, you were under his control, got off on it as you were bigger than him, etc"
Makes sense I suppose. |
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We are what we are. If you are cuckold and the mrs likes the idea then go for it. I wish mrs N was more into it but at 61 I think our days of cuckolding me are more or less over
Good luck OP. hope you find nirvana.
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You lucky thing you
Like you I get off on knowing my wife is with other men and the fact that they can make her moan so incredibly well it’s just that.
But I’m not allowed to be there as that would take the attention away from her in her mind plus there’s also the worry that I might get carried away after all not all of us are bi curious.
So in a nutshell get your freak on and enjoy those that don’t like it it’s okay they don’t have to like it but they should respect others likes and fantasies |
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We started on this site for full swap with couples , but then I got horny seeing my wife getting chatted up by guys at the club , The inevitable happened and loved watching her getting fucked by another guy , she loved me watching too , which has led to me watching her on several occasions , we even have a friend who fucks her outside the swinging scene , and has fucked her many times over the last 14 years ,she also likes watching me fuck other women when there no husband around , and actual found her bi side too with one very horny lady , that’s one reason we do some solo meets as I can’t concentrate on another wife , while watching mine , have spoken to a few husbands who agree and have same problem |
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I've been in two cuckold relationship the first whilst still at uni. It doesn't make you a bad person and asking as there is good communication , honestly and any rules created agreed to it can be amazing. We used a cuckold contract to document the terms of our relationship but it really isn't necessary. We found our relationship was stronger and more affection and intermacy ( albeit with no penetrative sex) after we were cuckold |
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"I went to a party years ago, met a lovely couple. He loved telling me what to do to his wife, who was clearly out of his league. He had money, she was sexy.
But he loved dominating me more, as I was bigger and more masculine.
Then, he had her after me.
We had a great time, but I just didn’t get his part. Can someone else explain?
It's dominance. He dominated you both, you were under his control, got off on it as you were bigger than him, etc"
⬆️ Absolutely. You were just a cock, a freebie male esc0rt, brought in to do a job as directed… that wasn’t a Cuckold situation. |
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No - it makes you a person who knows what intense please being a cuckold can bring to you.
The thought of holding another man's penis and guiding it into your wife...
Holding his balls as he pumps his cum into her...
Tasting her cum filled cunt for the first time...
There really is nothing more erotically charged!!!
But - find a man that you can trust... |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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Personally, as the male of this relationship I hate the word 'Cuckold' as I hate the thought of strong men being reduced to being abused & neglected to get off.
That's just me though and although I have thoroughly enjoyed watching Ruby getting male attention, it has never been derogatory & we have always took it in turns  |
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I really loved watching my wife being fucked by a friend of ours, and felt for both of them enjoying the moment. It made us all very happy and I had seconds after he came in her. We often recalled those times afterwards and it turned us both on. It was always in a highly charged, romantic setting - not just a wham, bam, and very erotic. |
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By *abba44Man 13 weeks ago
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I have had 2 wives and now a Gf,the first wife started off with a family member and after we married it carried on for a couple of years,l found out this when l divorced her,my second wife fantasised about a bbc but it was only a fanatasy `cos l arranged a meet,told her but she refused.
My present Gf is okay with a bit of swinging which ticks all mine and her boxes,.Something that has been in the back of my mind for years,now l have witnessed it l find,, yer its okay but the thrill has diminished a bit for me,but we still will do it at least once more,as we are getting older the urges are not as often as they once were.
l still fantisize her with a bull bbc but they are thin on the ground near where we live.
So the answer is l like being a cuckold occasionally. |
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By *bcplCouple 13 weeks ago
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"I love sharing my wife , but I don’t want to be
be-littled or put down. I just love seeing her used and I join in too, at the end or half way through . It’s all fun ."
Same here, not into being humiliated but do love to see the Mrs getting fucked good n proper.
Whilst she was doggy playing MMMF I was holding her ass cheeks apart whist a guy fuxked her, amazing!
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By *luttTV/TS 13 weeks ago
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"I really get excited at the thought of my asian wife being fucked bareback by a dominant bull as i sit and watch....i know she fantasisies about it as well.....does this make me a bad person? "
No. No kink makes you a bad person, although there are a few where actually acting them out would make you one.
But that is perfectly fine to fantasise about, and perfectly fine to enact so long as everyone involved is fully on-board. It sounds like your wife might be, although do remember that for many people there is a big gulf between what they’ll fantasise about and what they are actually prepared to do. |
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"I really get excited at the thought of my asian wife being fucked bareback by a dominant bull as i sit and watch....i know she fantasisies about it as well.....does this make me a bad person? "
You’ve been verified by someone who’s done it, have got it listed in your bio as something you both enjoy and are on a website for which cuckolding isn’t even halfway toward the extreme.
Did you really creat this post to answer that question?  |
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"I really get excited at the thought of my asian wife being fucked bareback by a dominant bull as i sit and watch....i know she fantasisies about it as well.....does this make me a bad person? "
Of course not , safe fantasy play put into reality is awesome ! |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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Sometimes I’d love to see my lovely wife cumming on a bigger man’s cock. Look into her eyes as she is penetrated for the first time by another.
Other times I’m just yearning to fuck another man’s wife. Sometimes somewhere in between the two!
Just go with how you feel and be careful… |
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"Sometimes I’d love to see my lovely wife cumming on a bigger man’s cock. Look into her eyes as she is penetrated for the first time by another.
Other times I’m just yearning to fuck another man’s wife. Sometimes somewhere in between the two!
Just go with how you feel and be careful…"
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"I love sharing my wife , but I don’t want to be
be-littled or put down. I just love seeing her used and I join in too, at the end or half way through . It’s all fun .
Same here, not into being humiliated but do love to see the Mrs getting fucked good n proper.
Whilst she was doggy playing MMMF I was holding her ass cheeks apart whist a guy fuxked her, amazing!
Mr "
Truly beautiful |
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Recently in bed when having sex we talk dirty about here fucking another guy while I watch, and we both find it a huge turn on, my question is how do you cross over to reality??
As in the worry she might be more into him ect??
We have a great sex life and I know I satisfy her, but can making a fantasy a reality change things? |
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As long as you are secure in your love for each other, set boundaries, perhaps no kissing on the mouth, whatever you can be comfortable with and baby steps, maybe visit a club to spectate,other couples will understand.
Best of luck on your journey |
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By *oxy jWoman 12 weeks ago
taunton somerset |
most over used word on fab most get cuckold mixed up with hot wife or even basic swinging and how single men think they can be cuck even tho they are single ... add in for some its real life and for most its fantasy ... |
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By *DW1983Man 11 weeks ago
Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield |
"I really get excited at the thought of my asian wife being fucked bareback by a dominant bull as i sit and watch....i know she fantasisies about it as well.....does this make me a bad person? "
Not really, everyone has different likes and desires. Each to their own. So long as it's consensual and everyone's on the same page, it's all good.
What I find more odd is that you felt the need to specify that she's your 'Asian wife' rather than just your wife, I'm not sure what the relevance of her ethnicity is. |
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"most over used word on fab most get cuckold mixed up with hot wife or even basic swinging and how single men think they can be cuck even tho they are single ... add in for some its real life and for most its fantasy ... "
Well said |
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