8 weeks is nothing, particularly as a large chunk of compatible people may rule themselves out owing to an (I assume) unknowing spouse.
Maybe get rid of some of the similar photos, and add a bit more about what you can offer. |
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By *hirleyMan 11 weeks ago
somewhere |
"8 weeks is nothing, particularly as a large chunk of compatible people may rule themselves out owing to an (I assume) unknowing spouse.
Maybe get rid of some of the similar photos, and add a bit more about what you can offer."
I second that.
IMO, if you're cheating then you will most likely be bemoaning your luck like many others have before you. In that instance you're probably only likely to meet in clubs or socials, messages will just not do.
Your profile is ok, but I can't stress how much people with poor grammar is a shot in the foot, there are instances of that in yours.
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Your a cheat op that'll put many off, swinging and cheating are opposites.
Your photos are very repetitive maybe delete some of the similar ones as above.
You state your into "kink" but not what kind of kink, one person's kink is another person's vanilla & some kinks aren't for everyone so again that'll put people off.
Your profile is your shop window to make you stand out.
Your another bloke in a sea of 163930 blokes why pick you? |
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By *j2015Couple 11 weeks ago
Glasgow |
I will say. Even though playing outside of a relationship is an instant no for us (ok with open relationships but must meet both parties first!!) I will thank you for your honesty on here. It wont help you find people but respect your telling the truth (your personal life is exactly that)
Reg. your profile:
Pictures are too repetitive, 2 bathroom selfies are enough!! Show some dressed, that will give an insight into your personality. The bio needs a re-write sorry  you say you have a good sense of humour… let it show. |
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Agree with the last comment with the honesty over being in a relationship. Not defending it, but agree that others should know in advance as it’s a definite no for some on here.
Plenty of great advice especially about the pictures. The text is what I call a five minute effort, very similar to the majority of guys, no thought or imagination but most of all lacking information. Kinks are individual things so be more upfront about what you’re talking about.  |
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You’re cheating. For many swinging isn’t about cheating. For some they’d rather meet married as they are less likely to want more than just the sex as they have a partner. So that’s hugely divisive
Your bio is hard to read. One paragraph which jumps all over
You’ve been here a short period of time.
What were your expectations of being here? |
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