A fairly regular experience.
We say no, politely, have a good day etc.
We then get a "woe is me, I never get any success on here, why am I here ..." in what reads like a take pity on me.
Which we never have. My charitable nature doesnt extend to here.
The question is does anyone either be that charitable OR had any success from such a message? |
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For me, the biggest excitement from sex is feeling wanted, so I couldn’t imagine being dished out a favour. I do understand the frustrations of the site though. As a single straight man, it is extremely hard to get a decent conversation going, let alone something physical. |
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We've had a couple but never replied - mainly, as they were totally not what we're looking for, which they'd have realised if they have read our profile.
Somehow you always end up being the bad guy! |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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We had one dude message who was not what we were looking for. We gave a polite no thank you since he put some effort in ajd wished him luck.
He replied to that by saying he could die anyday and we could make an old guy happy.
He was 5 years older than me. |
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"We had one dude message who was not what we were looking for. We gave a polite no thank you since he put some effort in ajd wished him luck.
He replied to that by saying he could die anyday and we could make an old guy happy.
He was 5 years older than me."
If it’s any consolation, this made me spill my drink laughing    |
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Lol not exactly yet had one couple who wouldn't take no for an answer so had to block them. You'd think that would be the end of it...... But NO, they created another profile to send abuse so had to block that one too !  |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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To the few explicit rejections I get, I always reply with something along the lines of "Thank you for actually taking the time to let me know, I appreciate it. Best of luck."
To "no replies", I just move on. What's the point? I surely don't want a pity fuck (I wouldn't even take it from my two main crushes on here... maybe), nor do I feel the need to be offensive. But again, I have a particularly thick skin, because reasons. |
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It doesn't happen often at all but a couple of times in the past I (Mr) have met up with a guy for a drink just because I was at a loose end. Usually that's been it, but once or twice they were actually great guys and have later joined us for a threesome |
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I've had men (who I've turned down) ask me if I know any females on here as they aren't having much luck , that pisses me off.
It's not my job to find other ladies for them & if I'm not into them, what makes them think anyone I know would be. |
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By *entenTeaCouple 12 weeks ago
Buckley North Wales |
For the most part just ignoring folk works well enough. But we suggest, at all costs if some one is being clingy at a club DON'T give them a sympathy shag just don't. We did that few months back and the sex was truly shit! |
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By *ornycougaWoman 12 weeks ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
I have never had a message requesting a pity fuck but I see status updates along those lines all the time and wonder if they ever generate any positive interest. It just turns me right off and has me reaching for the block button |
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The simple logic that men are massively over subscribed here hasn't sunk into the minds of some.
I seem to get repeat messages from guys who I have no interest in, even after deleting multiple messages, for some reason, which usually results in a block (current list around 400)
I get 'your loss' 'manners cost nothing' 'it would be nice to reply' and everything else in between on a regular basis, howeve there's no pity-party here  |
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By *eyeYCouple 12 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
Sympathy or charity does not extend to our bodies..
Won't lie we've played with some at clubs who on a purely (hate to say it, but being honest) physical appearance wouldn't have. But they've been either very engaging personalities or in the right place at the right time and circumstance..
Via here, a different story. |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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My block list contains 25 local females who clearly state in their profile that they are looking for someone who I'm not. Saves me messaging them and wasting time. |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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I’d never send such a message.
It’s screams insecurities and a narcissist.
Last week. I was called rude for not wanting to talk with someone with no profile picture. For me, it defeats the object and you need to find the person attractive, to be fully committed and turned on. |
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