Hey everyone 
So we've been in the lifestyle for a couple of years and have only met with single women and couples.
Recently we chatted about maybe inviting a single man to join us. We love the idea of it but we know what it can be like on here for single men and it can be hard to find the genuine ones.
Does anyone have any advice on how to find the genuine men?
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By *andK78Couple 4 days ago
Newport |
Where in the same position, we have been let down a couple of times now, tend to ask guys to meet us at the Social events now and still don't turn up.
Planning more club visits to hopefully meet genuine people.
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Whatever you do make sure you map out every scenario that could take place.
We thought we had, but the event ran away with us a little and it ended up more the extra man controlling it, rather than us. This took the shine off it a little bit, as he was getting more out of it than we were.
Much wiser now.  |
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"Where in the same position, we have been let down a couple of times now, tend to ask guys to meet us at the Social events now and still don't turn up.
Planning more club visits to hopefully meet genuine people.
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We can't give any advice but likewise like to here some. Finding the right guy for us has always been the real unicorn in the lifestyle. There are so many guys out there (and good ones in all fairness as well as bad or unreliable) yet so few that tick the boxes. It's so difficult just to find that three way vibe and teamwork.
We've ironically nearly found the guy more times on vanilla nights out than on the scene.
The search continues...
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By *renzMan 3 days ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
Probably the same way you find couples or single females. Strike up a conversation. If you only receive single word replies then they aren't interested. Arrange a social meet, confirm the day before, during the day and the hour before. If at any time they go quiet they are unlikely to turn up. Tell them if you haven't heard from them by an hour before meeting you're not going to turn up. Communication and gut instinct. |
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By *bxanfCouple 3 days ago
Inside your walls |
What we did is we put up a status saying what we wanted then went through the replies and contacted the ones that seemed genuine and could hold a conversation.
After that we narrowed it down by chatting on here for a few days and that left us with one guy who was a perfect fit. |
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