So bit of a strange one. So I stumbled across a profile. And thought wow she's incredible 😲 so dropped her a message. It is currently unread...I've checked her profile a couple times as her pictures are decent! Then it suddenly dawned on me. I recognised the type of house, room decor etc. As I'm on a new build site the houses are pretty similar. Then I was like hold on could it be...and it is, a lady who I follow and swap dms with on insta (occasionally) actually lives down the road. Now I think she's hot as hell. Do I make more conversation naturally when seeing her about, try to ramp up the social dms. I don't want to say anything in person about fab, but would love to let her know I know? This seem a bit stalker like or am I over thinking things. ? Thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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Cowards. He's got nothing to loose except occasional wanks over her new IG pics.
Just write back to her on here saying you've just realised you might already talk on insta where you are known as NigelsInstaName and have always thought her beautiful but weren't sure if she was open to a date. Quick. Before she finds this thread.
Some guy I knew from dancing once asked me out only after seeing me on line somewhere. I laughed my socks off at him not having just done it dancing. But he got the date. If you're not a creep it doesn't have to be creepy. |
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Thank you...like you say it's only creepy if you make it that way.
I mean if you compare the insta pic and her pic on here it's pretty obvious.
I don't want her to feel uncomfortable though. I'll drop her a line and see. M  |
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By * and BCouple 14 weeks ago
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I'd just tell her in a conversation you are having that this is not the only social media you are both on, say you even messaged her on the other but she's not read your message. She'll be intrigued but also most likely know the site you speak of..... FAB away we say   |
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By *bi HaiveMan 14 weeks ago
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If it was me? I'd probably message on here rather than the vanilla site.
But assuming she doesn't currently know you're so local I'd leave that detail out of any initial contact, otherwise it may come across as both slightly stalkerish by highlighting the fact you know where she lives, and may be seen as a 'since we live so close that's bonus points for me' chat up line. She may not want to have any connections that close to home.
If she's not twigged that it's you already, as you have with her, then I suspect your profile on here may be more different to your other one in comparison to hers. Make sure you're consistent as portraying yourself differently on both may count against you.
And also bear in mind if she's not interested you may find yourself blocked on both. |
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