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By (user no longer on site) OP 9 weeks ago
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Hey,
Been on fab for a bit now and finally sorted getting photo verified etc but am still struggling to get any chats goings.
I’m obviously more than happy to consider that my chat isn’t all that and that I’m not everyone’s cup of tea, but just wondered if there was any glaringly obvious changes I should make (beyond eventually getting meet verified) that would help 
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"Hey,
Been on fab for a bit now and finally sorted getting photo verified etc but am still struggling to get any chats goings.
I’m obviously more than happy to consider that my chat isn’t all that and that I’m not everyone’s cup of tea, but just wondered if there was any glaringly obvious changes I should make (beyond eventually getting meet verified) that would help
Thanks "
I wouldn’t put much stock in the photo verification… it means absolutely nothing these days. An actual veri from a meet in a club or a social event is so much more impactful. |
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Take time to read people’s profile and make an effort with your first message.
The ladies are inundated with messages on here but I find common courtesy and respect go a long way.
Unfortunately they seem to be forgotten by too many folks on here.
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Definitely put more detail into your profile, it looks like you don't know what you want or you're casting your net too wide. Remember that trying to appeal to everyone means you're appealing to no one
Id like to see a few more pics
And then he rest is just don't set any expectations of meeting, just engage with people to start with, messages, forum, chatroom, and try to attend a social or club if you can.
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Bare minimum effort mate - wasting your time. If you can’t figure out how to market yourself, understand how to make a good first impression then the Lifestyle and Fab is probably not for you.
Your first photo of you is something that will not appeal to 99% of Fab population. You have maybe 5 seconds to grab someone’s attention and draw them in, persuade them to giving your profile 10 seconds more attention. There are thousands of male profiles, all sending shit messages, all being ignored, unread… every day. You have to be smarter and better than them. |
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"Hey,
Been on fab for a bit now and finally sorted getting photo verified etc but am still struggling to get any chats goings.
I’m obviously more than happy to consider that my chat isn’t all that and that I’m not everyone’s cup of tea, but just wondered if there was any glaringly obvious changes I should make (beyond eventually getting meet verified) that would help
Thanks
I wouldn’t put much stock in the photo verification… it means absolutely nothing these days. An actual veri from a meet in a club or a social event is so much more impactful. "
Quite agree I didn't bother with it on this profile it's not stopped me getting meets of any kind the people that don't turn up do that for me 😂 |
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