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I had a horny experience at dare 2 club in Bristol in the glory hole rooms there. I was in the next cubicle to a couple and to cut a long story short they took turns on me until I came… …then I reciprocated 
That was my first gloryhole experience and was a bit unsure what to do - just poke my hard cock through? Speak to them first (less horny!). Also he didn’t ask about sucking my cock which is totally fine as I’m a bit bi but I wonder if other guys might have an issue?
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"I had a horny experience at dare 2 club in Bristol in the glory hole rooms there. I was in the next cubicle to a couple and to cut a long story short they took turns on me until I came… …then I reciprocated
That was my first gloryhole experience and was a bit unsure what to do - just poke my hard cock through? Speak to them first (less horny!). Also he didn’t ask about sucking my cock which is totally fine as I’m a bit bi but I wonder if other guys might have an issue?
Appreciate your views
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I think once you get in a GH you need to expect the unexpected 
Unless you were in one of those where you can see something from the top, once you stick your little friend through there’s no way of knowing who’s touching you. If it’s not your thing then a GH is not for you unless you are certain that there’s only a female on the other side |
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Welcome to the world of gloryhole where imagination rules! It sounds like a good time was had by all...
For me,the more anonymous,the better the experience..When and if a conversation starts up or worse still I see who they are, I am totally turned off.
Can I ask how you know it was a couple who took turns on you..mm or mf couple??
Did the mouths have a different feel around your cock?
The reciprocation involve you sucking two different cocks?
The Qs can be endless..do gay guys mind if the sucker is a woman??
Certainly lots of guys who identify as straight would be horrified if they knew it was a man sucking them off..
Not for the faint hearted and if in doubt, don't go near an anonymous hole! |
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The service deliverer will often invite a guy to put his cock through the hole. It's not like best but occasionally people will enter a cubicle to have fun with someone and not be interested in making use of the hole, so uninvited cocks may be unwelcome.
You can show your wares, so anyone looking may get hungrier  . Some places have very big holes, so hands etc may get to sample the goods first. |
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On my second visit i got to fuck through the glory hole wasnt expecting it but wasnt going to say no i was asked if i wanted to heard a ladies voice asking so said yeah felt a condom slip on and then was guided in lol |
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Yes I agree, but it was horny and enjoyed it lots. Keen to try again.
I could hear them laughing and messing about so knew it was a MF couple. Yeah could feel his stubble a bit, and she was much better than him!
There was another hole as well and they both let me touch them as well as them going down on me. That was horny to feel how wet she was and touch his very hard cock. I think I came in his mouth but couldn’t be sure
Afterwards it was just his cock and I made sure he had just as good a time… |
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Thanks that’s what I was worried about, certainly didn’t want to intrude but became very clear quickly they definitely wanted my cock coming through…
Haven’t had a repeat experience yet so need to get that sorted lol |
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"I had a horny experience at dare 2 club in Bristol in the glory hole rooms there. I was in the next cubicle to a couple and to cut a long story short they took turns on me until I came… …then I reciprocated
That was my first gloryhole experience and was a bit unsure what to do - just poke my hard cock through? Speak to them first (less horny!). Also he didn’t ask about sucking my cock which is totally fine as I’m a bit bi but I wonder if other guys might have an issue?
Appreciate your views
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The whole thing with a GH is that you have absolutely no idea who is the other side of it.
Most men just dont think of it.
They get the BJ that the want. |
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By *9alMan 11 weeks ago
Bridgend |
"Gh etiquette turn up zip down get hard stick it through enjoy and then leave lol glory holes are ment to be all mystery and no answeres "
Glory Holes started in public toilets so was always a male on the other side any female involvement is a bonus , just enjoy whatever happens |
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Sounds like you've got the etiquette spot on and one of the thrills of using GHs is you never know who's on the other side.. as long as you enjoyed your experience that's all that matters one of the reason I enjoy them is rhe annonymity of who's cock/cocks comes through the hole
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By *irsSubCouple 11 weeks ago
Darlington |
We enjoy using them together on bi nights, usually invite cocks through the hole with a finger.
Our pet hate is people who crouch down to look through the holes, even though we love putting on show, it just feels weird in a GH. |
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"We enjoy using them together on bi nights, usually invite cocks through the hole with a finger.
Our pet hate is people who crouch down to look through the holes, even though we love putting on show, it just feels weird in a GH."
It's not good etiquette to crouch down and stare through! I'd probably lose interest if they did that |
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"This is us. It's so annoying when it's just a face, and he won't move so somebody can put their willy in, lol.
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There should be something like that dye put on to prevent theft in shops, that explodes |
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"We enjoy using them together on bi nights, usually invite cocks through the hole with a finger.
Our pet hate is people who crouch down to look through the holes, even though we love putting on show, it just feels weird in a GH."
Yes this!!
Pop something through, no news to look |
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I'm glad someone asked about the etiquette because I wanted to know how it works as well! I (Mr) am bi and would love to use the GH at clubs to get some oral experience, but didn't know how to go about it or if people would even be interested!
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"I'm glad someone asked about the etiquette because I wanted to know how it works as well! I (Mr) am bi and would love to use the GH at clubs to get some oral experience, but didn't know how to go about it or if people would even be interested!
M."
You simply go one side or the other, depends on your preference. Don’t over think it. |
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"On my second visit i got to fuck through the glory hole wasnt expecting it but wasnt going to say no i was asked if i wanted to heard a ladies voice asking so said yeah felt a condom slip on and then was guided in lol "
Just because you heard a female voice asking does not mean that it was the female receiving 🤣just saying |
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"On my second visit i got to fuck through the glory hole wasnt expecting it but wasnt going to say no i was asked if i wanted to heard a ladies voice asking so said yeah felt a condom slip on and then was guided in lol
Just because you heard a female voice asking does not mean that it was the female receiving 🤣just saying "
Yes im aware of this but also I definitely can tell the difference between a man's but and a woman spreading her legs especially when my hand was grabbed and guided to it |
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"On my second visit i got to fuck through the glory hole wasnt expecting it but wasnt going to say no i was asked if i wanted to heard a ladies voice asking so said yeah felt a condom slip on and then was guided in lol
Just because you heard a female voice asking does not mean that it was the female receiving 🤣just saying
Yes im aware of this but also I definitely can tell the difference between a man's but and a woman spreading her legs especially when my hand was grabbed and guided to it "
It situations like that does it matter ? |
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"On my second visit i got to fuck through the glory hole wasnt expecting it but wasnt going to say no i was asked if i wanted to heard a ladies voice asking so said yeah felt a condom slip on and then was guided in lol
Just because you heard a female voice asking does not mean that it was the female receiving 🤣just saying
Yes im aware of this but also I definitely can tell the difference between a man's but and a woman spreading her legs especially when my hand was grabbed and guided to it
It situations like that does it matter ?"
Nope I'm there to enjoy the mystery |
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A lot of clubs have a locked side on the suckers (so to speak) side. Helps preserve the anonyminity.
The cock side is in an open room, can be quite amusing to see a line of blokes hoping theirs is chosen |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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Are they really anonymous though?
Some people appear to have such high standards on who they meet, I can't believe they would then go off to a club and use a gloryhole supposedly anonymously?
I bet there is some sort of pre-arrangement or vetting going on first. |
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"Are they really anonymous though?
Some people appear to have such high standards on who they meet, I can't believe they would then go off to a club and use a gloryhole supposedly anonymously?
I bet there is some sort of pre-arrangement or vetting going on first."
Female glory holes (as in Czech glory holes) are most definitely vetted.
But oral glory holes not so much.
If you were arranging a meet why bother with the glory hole? |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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What's the point of them if you know who the man or woman is?
Some people get off that it could be a man or woman, others that its a woman, they just don't know her.
Otherwise, what is the point if you know it's Simons wife, Susan?
Most men love idea of them, many women are less then enthusiastic. Personally I love them but I'm fun. |
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"The locked room sounds good to me, can relax and see what comes through. I’m not massively bi but would enjoy being on that side for a bit "
The locked room is great but when both sides of the room have entrances next to each other it’s not so anonymous. All the ones we have used are like that.
I wish someone would create them so the entrances are opposite ends, so you access them from opposite side of a building where you are much less likely as a receiver to see who is going in and out of the givers side. |
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"I had a horny experience at dare 2 club in Bristol in the glory hole rooms there. I was in the next cubicle to a couple and to cut a long story short they took turns on me until I came… …then I reciprocated
That was my first gloryhole experience and was a bit unsure what to do - just poke my hard cock through? Speak to them first (less horny!). Also he didn’t ask about sucking my cock which is totally fine as I’m a bit bi but I wonder if other guys might have an issue?
Appreciate your views
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I have no experience but I guess if you stick your cock through a hole you have no idea what's going to happen to it or with whom it's happening? I guess that's the whole point of them. |
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"I had a horny experience at dare 2 club in Bristol in the glory hole rooms there. I was in the next cubicle to a couple and to cut a long story short they took turns on me until I came… …then I reciprocated
That was my first gloryhole experience and was a bit unsure what to do - just poke my hard cock through? Speak to them first (less horny!). Also he didn’t ask about sucking my cock which is totally fine as I’m a bit bi but I wonder if other guys might have an issue?
Appreciate your views
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I have no experience but I guess if you stick your cock through a hole you have no idea what's going to happen to it or with whom it's happening? I guess that's the whole point of them. "
The likelyhood is someone will play with it or suck it..If in doubt don't do it...Lots of private ones on here so arrangements are made so you know what to expect..
The days of walking into a public toilet and finding a gh are by and large gone.
Clubs/ Saunas etc still provide more of a mystery..
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"Sounds like you've got the etiquette spot on and one of the thrills of using GHs is you never know who's on the other side.. as long as you enjoyed your experience that's all that matters one of the reason I enjoy them is rhe annonymity of who's cock/cocks comes through the hole
Vix "
That is exactly why I love getting a bj through a gloryhole, just not knowing who it is, mmmm |
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"That right there is exactly why I don't do Gloryholes lol.
Glad you enjoyed your experience.
Mr. "
I agree. A bloke can get his cock sucked every day of the week through Fab, by another bloke (if he so wished), would be a complete letdown going to the effort and expense of a club visit, to find a bloke waiting in a gloryhole booth…. 
All the clubs I have visited, the gh booths have either been empty, or overrun once it’s obvious a woman is ‘in residence’……and it’s never been difficult to see it was a woman inside. I agree with the poster above; if you want the total anonymous suck of your cock, not caring which gender is servicing you, then gh booths should be better set up….  |
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Glad you enjoyed it..
Over the years, heterosexual males have continuesly whinged on here about the fact that gloryholes are predominantly hosted by gay or bisexual men..
Get off yr butt's and do something about it..its hardly rocket science.a small minority of str8 men and mf couples have done so recently..
Change the design or shape,establish what women want and set up. Sky's the limit.
I started with a large cardboard box..
Work is involved, not handed to you on a plate!
Have fun |
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Yeah, a nice, hard cock going through the GH is always nice to see
I never pay attention to limp little ones that look like sick birds. Maybe i give them a little tap with my finger or a little pinch in the foreskin 🤣🤣🤣 but the ones I want to wrap these Latina lips around are nice and hard cocks.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"The locked room sounds good to me, can relax and see what comes through. I’m not massively bi but would enjoy being on that side for a bit
The locked room is great but when both sides of the room have entrances next to each other it’s not so anonymous. All the ones we have used are like that.
I wish someone would create them so the entrances are opposite ends, so you access them from opposite side of a building where you are much less likely as a receiver to see who is going in and out of the givers side."
That one in your profile pic looks excellent, where is it? |
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"That right there is exactly why I don't do Gloryholes lol.
Glad you enjoyed your experience.
Mr.
I agree. A bloke can get his cock sucked every day of the week through Fab, by another bloke (if he so wished), would be a complete letdown going to the effort and expense of a club visit, to find a bloke waiting in a gloryhole booth….
All the clubs I have visited, the gh booths have either been empty, or overrun once it’s obvious a woman is ‘in residence’……and it’s never been difficult to see it was a woman inside. I agree with the poster above; if you want the total anonymous suck of your cock, not caring which gender is servicing you, then gh booths should be better set up…. "
My BF got blown off thru a gloryhole, he was too big for the hole. He said it was the best BJ ever as it was a case of sensory deprivation. |
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"That right there is exactly why I don't do Gloryholes lol.
Glad you enjoyed your experience.
Mr.
I agree. A bloke can get his cock sucked every day of the week through Fab, by another bloke (if he so wished), would be a complete letdown going to the effort and expense of a club visit, to find a bloke waiting in a gloryhole booth….
All the clubs I have visited, the gh booths have either been empty, or overrun once it’s obvious a woman is ‘in residence’……and it’s never been difficult to see it was a woman inside. I agree with the poster above; if you want the total anonymous suck of your cock, not caring which gender is servicing you, then gh booths should be better set up….
My BF got blown off thru a gloryhole, he was too big for the hole. He said it was the best BJ ever as it was a case of sensory deprivation."
See; I've only been fortunate to try one gloryhole (in Chams Darlaston), and it was a huge letdown for me? The 'sensory deprivation' of my nose against a blank wall, coupled with the fact the lady in the booth was switching between two other cocks, just didn't do it for me....  |
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"That right there is exactly why I don't do Gloryholes lol.
Glad you enjoyed your experience.
Mr.
I agree. A bloke can get his cock sucked every day of the week through Fab, by another bloke (if he so wished), would be a complete letdown going to the effort and expense of a club visit, to find a bloke waiting in a gloryhole booth….
All the clubs I have visited, the gh booths have either been empty, or overrun once it’s obvious a woman is ‘in residence’……and it’s never been difficult to see it was a woman inside. I agree with the poster above; if you want the total anonymous suck of your cock, not caring which gender is servicing you, then gh booths should be better set up….
My BF got blown off thru a gloryhole, he was too big for the hole. He said it was the best BJ ever as it was a case of sensory deprivation.
See; I've only been fortunate to try one gloryhole (in Chams Darlaston), and it was a huge letdown for me? The 'sensory deprivation' of my nose against a blank wall, coupled with the fact the lady in the booth was switching between two other cocks, just didn't do it for me.... "
I think for my BF it was the fact the wall acted like a cock ring. He plugged the whole. This is how they should be. |
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"We enjoy using them together on bi nights, usually invite cocks through the hole with a finger.
Our pet hate is people who crouch down to look through the holes, even though we love putting on show, it just feels weird in a GH."
I love GHs.. In the north too.. |
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I absolutely love a gloryhole. I believe if you go into a booth it’s only reasonable to expect a cock to pop through, and it’s also not unreasonable to pop yours through. Usual rules apply, if someone doesn’t want to play that the end of it. My favourite experiences have been with couples.
Often a little waggle of a finger through the hole is an invitation to pop your cock through. I did discover an item of etiquette in the USA a few years ago which was a few quick taps on the wall just before you cum gives the person time to prepare or decide to pull away.
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The whole purpose of a gloryhole is the anonymity.
If someone is really concerned who is on the other side then maybe gloryholes are not right for you.
I have had this conversation with the mrs and personally she won’t use them as she likes to see who she is going down on.
I have used them and had a pleasurable experience and I am confident that sometimes there might be a fella on the other side.
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There you go, that sounds good; waggling finger lets you know good to go but still very anonymous. The tap before cumming seems polite, but my experience with the couple was hot as before I knew it I had a mouthful didn’t mind though.. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 9 weeks ago
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I don't use them, as I'd hate to upset someone who really enjoyed the experience and then worried they might catch the ghey when they see me stepping out.
Plus, for some reason, I struggle to get close to the hole |
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"That right there is exactly why I don't do Gloryholes lol.
Glad you enjoyed your experience.
Mr.
I agree. A bloke can get his cock sucked every day of the week through Fab, by another bloke (if he so wished), would be a complete letdown going to the effort and expense of a club visit, to find a bloke waiting in a gloryhole booth….
All the clubs I have visited, the gh booths have either been empty, or overrun once it’s obvious a woman is ‘in residence’……and it’s never been difficult to see it was a woman inside. I agree with the poster above; if you want the total anonymous suck of your cock, not caring which gender is servicing you, then gh booths should be better set up….
My BF got blown off thru a gloryhole, he was too big for the hole. He said it was the best BJ ever as it was a case of sensory deprivation.
See; I've only been fortunate to try one gloryhole (in Chams Darlaston), and it was a huge letdown for me? The 'sensory deprivation' of my nose against a blank wall, coupled with the fact the lady in the booth was switching between two other cocks, just didn't do it for me.... "
Generally they don't work for me either, it's just a little impersonal and detached for me (although I get that's supposed to be part of the fun/kink).
However (also in Chameleons) I did enjoy the glory holes one night. It was us and a couple of couples freinds in there. The ladies one side, guys on the other. The game was for the guys to try each hole and for the guys to guess who's lady was who's. That was a lot of fun |
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"I don't use them, as I'd hate to upset someone who really enjoyed the experience and then worried they might catch the ghey when they see me stepping out.
Plus, for some reason, I struggle to get close to the hole "
Common sense would dictate don't up your cock in any hole unless certain you'll be happy with what's on the other side.
However there has been a few tales on here of guys who are unhappy finding out it was another guy. And it would appear you can't guarantee common sense or expect guys to understand the biological sex or gender of the person behind the hole. So personally I think clubs could do with a warning sign at the glory hole explaining this to those daft enough to stick their cock in based on a preconception of who's on the other side.
I think if the sex/gender of the person behind the hole is important to you then it shouldn't necessarily exclude you providing you an take specific measures to ensure who's behind the wall matches your implied consent when you stick it in.
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"I don't use them, as I'd hate to upset someone who really enjoyed the experience and then worried they might catch the ghey when they see me stepping out.
Plus, for some reason, I struggle to get close to the hole
Common sense would dictate don't up your cock in any hole unless certain you'll be happy with what's on the other side.
However there has been a few tales on here of guys who are unhappy finding out it was another guy. And it would appear you can't guarantee common sense or expect guys to understand the biological sex or gender of the person behind the hole. So personally I think clubs could do with a warning sign at the glory hole explaining this to those daft enough to stick their cock in based on a preconception of who's on the other side.
I think if the sex/gender of the person behind the hole is important to you then it shouldn't necessarily exclude you providing you an take specific measures to ensure who's behind the wall matches your implied consent when you stick it in.
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Whaaat! You mean it's not always Amanda holden look alikes behind the "hole" I'm shocked. |
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Club Play is great.
You will enjoy it for Bi play I'm sure"
Lmao! When I had ‘The Tour’ I was shown the Bi room upstairs, and the staff member described it to me as “We say you go in this room straight, but come out bi”……so I stepped inside the room, then stepped back out and replied “Nope, I’m still straight” |
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