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By *JB94 OP Man 13 weeks ago
Leeds |
Hey, I’m brand new to the swinging scene and debating going to my first club, any advice would be greatly appreciated but the main question would be, where would be the best place (North of England) to go to as a first time club goer |
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"Hey, I’m brand new to the swinging scene and debating going to my first club, any advice would be greatly appreciated but the main question would be, where would be the best place (North of England) to go to as a first time club goer "
We'd say try as many as possible and on different nights, maybe a weekend in Blackpool too.
Wherever you go, hope you have a great time.  |
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By *ty31Man 13 weeks ago
NW London |
Club Play in Blackpool or Adam and Eve's in Manchester may be a good introduction as they don't have a membership (so less commitment) and if you don't enjoy the club experience you can always enjoy a day/evening in town.
Otherwise perhaps try attending an organised social first, maybe break the ice a little? |
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You've got Quest and Pandoras right on your doorstep. Give them a go and see what you think before investing time and money in travelling further afield.
Go with zero expectation. Be polite, not too pushy and don't try to monopolise people's time. You'll get a feel if they're interested or not. A quick, 'hello, I like your dress' or 'it's my first time here, do you come here often?' followed by 5 minutes chit chat will get you an idea of their vibe. Also, you'll seen approachable to others if you're not the guy stood in thr corner looking awkward.
Relax, be confident and respectful and you'll enjoy it. |
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You have Quest and Pandora in Leeds, go along check the website for rules and events.
Don't expect anything go & chat like a normal human & don't be one of the wanking dead.
Most of all have no expectations treat it as a night to meet and chat to new people anything else is a bonus. |
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