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over a year ago
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Your profile reads "expectancy" and comes across as you believing this is insta-shag!
4 weeks and little attention? What did you seriously expect? A daily full inbox? A queue at the door? Women and couples cancelling plans to accomodate you?
Your profile appears demanding and arrogant, contains little to differentiate you from the hundreds of other single guys looking for the same, and tells people nothing more than that you're 'cocky', 'straight to the point' and not willing to go through the motions of exchanging messages and dialogue to get to know those you're seeking to play with.
You asked!! |
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over a year ago
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As a couple we would have read your profile and moved on to the next, arrogance isn't normally a trait people find attractive and weather it was intentional or not yours does come across that way, as obi said this isn't a instashag site and just because its a swingers site doesn't mean us swingers shag anything that moves or winks. We like to have some connection with the people we invite and the only way to do that on here is to chat.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wow thanks for the replies folks I honestly thought it came across as I was fun and confident but obviously not lol well back to the drawing board then cheers |
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over a year ago
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YES
The devil is in the detail
So many folk make no effort with their profile n it comes over a 'well, here I am n no doubt u r gagging for me - paunch,comb over and all'
I've constantly tweaked n refreshed my profile n as a virtual geriatric it seems to have attracted enough attention to result in quite a few meets for a poor old sod!! |
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"Wow thanks for the replies folks I honestly thought it came across as I was fun and confident but obviously not lol well back to the drawing board then cheers"
Actually so did I, unless you have changed it since posting ... lol |
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"Wow thanks for the replies folks I honestly thought it came across as I was fun and confident but obviously not lol well back to the drawing board then cheers
Actually so did I, unless you have changed it since posting ... lol"
It's changed!
Feedback taken on board - which is always a refreshing sight! 
Not trying to write it for you as it's a definate improvement but i'd lose the 'timewasting' reference - no one will ever admit to being out to waste time - and if someone was they'd certainly not mention it on their profile!
Now just some work on the pics maybe?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah hats off to you for accepting constructive criticism and utilising it.
Obi us next !"
Terrible!
Tell you what - I'll pop round and we can discuss it over wine, donuts and ice cream while I take some new pics for me ......er...... I mean you, obviously!!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your profile reads "expectancy" and comes across as you believing this is insta-shag!
4 weeks and little attention? What did you seriously expect? A daily full inbox? A queue at the door? Women and couples cancelling plans to accomodate you?
Your profile appears demanding and arrogant, contains little to differentiate you from the hundreds of other single guys looking for the same, and tells people nothing more than that you're 'cocky', 'straight to the point' and not willing to go through the motions of exchanging messages and dialogue to get to know those you're seeking to play with.
You asked!!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your profile reads "expectancy" and comes across as you believing this is insta-shag!
4 weeks and little attention? What did you seriously expect? A daily full inbox? A queue at the door? Women and couples cancelling plans to accomodate you?
Your profile appears demanding and arrogant, contains little to differentiate you from the hundreds of other single guys looking for the same, and tells people nothing more than that you're 'cocky', 'straight to the point' and not willing to go through the motions of exchanging messages and dialogue to get to know those you're seeking to play with.
You asked!!"
absolutely correct in what you say x |
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"YES
The devil is in the detail
So many folk make no effort with their profile n it comes over a 'well, here I am n no doubt u r gagging for me - paunch,comb over and all'
I've constantly tweaked n refreshed my profile n as a virtual geriatric it seems to have attracted enough attention to result in quite a few meets for a poor old sod!! "
 well I guess any sort of profile details has gotta b better than those arid wastelands where folks just answer the moot points n sign off wiv sumthing like 'looking for horny filthy fun - I'm a slut......'
Which in my book wouldn't make me wanna make contact |
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