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Hot tub touching
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We went to a club recently with hot tubs there to use.
We got into one and were alone.
After 10 minutes a couple of guys got in and we were all chatting.
One of the guys started stroking kates thigh. Kate moved her leg so he'd stop.
This is our first time in a hot tub like this.
Is it normal behaviour?
We get it that people are naked and close together. But we wouldn't dream of touching someone, even on a leg. |
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Oh dear, does it kill anyone to just ask! Takes 2 seconds! I hate grabby hands.
Women aren't consenting just bY virtue of bring there guys. It's not a green light. Have some manners!
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It's not just manners this is clear breach of consent if they didn't ask. Report it to the club management and they will have the guys removed. There should be zero tolerance to this in any decent club. |
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Don't be afraid to say a very loud and very clear "stop touching my leg". |
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Definitely not normal behaviour OP. Say no and if they don't stop then report as others have said. It's not open season!! |
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As you have two threads running I'll close this one |
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