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Debate... period sex or not?
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Seems I (mrs) have a bit dodgy luck this year, for majority of the events we have lined up to attend I'm due on.
I always use protection, regardless but I just want to know the general scope as to whether men are still happy to play with women who are menstruating or whether they find it mega off-putting?
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By *ularliWoman 27 weeks ago
Worcester |
I couldn’t do it unless it was right at the end and with someone I’ve already played with.
Mine are heavier now than they’ve ever been.
It’s so frustrating as you can guarantee I’m always really horny at that time too |
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When I used to have periods, if I came on unexpectedly when playing then that really can't be helped...
But I would never have played with strangers or swinging partners when bleeding...quite apart from the potential risks even though i am tested, I'm really sensitive to smell and was very conscious of the smell of blood
my partner never minded particularly but I really did so I'd not have sex with him either during that time |
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"I couldn’t do it unless it was right at the end and with someone I’ve already played with.
Mine are heavier now than they’ve ever been.
It’s so frustrating as you can guarantee I’m always really horny at that time too "
That’s the key most women I know are incredibly horny at that time, so if they are game so am I
As has been said before by others oral is probably off the table, although one partner came on mid session, I won’t describe the shock and the scene |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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I have one friend who uses dental dams to give oral to casual partners then.
Because of the slightly increased risks. He's fine with the taste on an exclusive partner.
Most "relationship" type people I encounter are very chill. Even if not in an exclusive relationship.
Personally it's not my first choice of moment for a new partner and I have a preference for girl condoms over boy ones at that time. But if whoever is down with whatever then it's all good. |
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By *aia-NyxWoman 27 weeks ago
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"Seems I (mrs) have a bit dodgy luck this year, for majority of the events we have lined up to attend I'm due on.
I always use protection, regardless but I just want to know the general scope as to whether men are still happy to play with women who are menstruating or whether they find it mega off-putting?
(Personally I LOVE it )"
Oh gosh, Ive been looking for a discussion like this last week! I was looking in the wrong thread of discussions.
Worry turned into an experience so heres mine - as a single femail at a club, people were reluctant when it came to sex. They were happy to play a different way tho. I love giving pleasure so the night wasn't wasted by all means - I just didn't have sex.
Otherwise, I love period sex and in my day-to-day, regular meets with people who know me I normally dont have a problem unless its super heavy (coil sorted that problem  ) but I found that men are not as sensitive about it as I though theyd be. I find it very sexy. |
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"Seems I (mrs) have a bit dodgy luck this year, for majority of the events we have lined up to attend I'm due on.
I always use protection, regardless but I just want to know the general scope as to whether men are still happy to play with women who are menstruating or whether they find it mega off-putting?
(Personally I LOVE it )"
Definitely not for me - a real passion killer. But plenty of fun to be had with other parts of the body…. |
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You can get over the counter drugs to postpone your period for a good few days. Also the good old fashioned contraceptive pill stops it almost immediately and you can stop taking it after the event. Also I have learned a trick to delay your period, after day 3 of your period mix a sachet of geletine with some hot water to dissolve it then add some cooler water so you can drink it (about half a pint of liquid in total after cool water has been added). For me it delays my period for a couple of days but is meant to delay it for about 6 hours, it only really works towards the end of your period however.
There's always a way around having your period. |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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"You can get over the counter drugs to postpone your period for a good few days. Also the good old fashioned contraceptive pill stops it almost immediately and you can stop taking it after the event. Also I have learned a trick to delay your period, after day 3 of your period mix a sachet of geletine with some hot water to dissolve it then add some cooler water so you can drink it (about half a pint of liquid in total after cool water has been added). For me it delays my period for a couple of days but is meant to delay it for about 6 hours, it only really works towards the end of your period however.
There's always a way around having your period. "
How does it delay it if you've already started? Day 3 is part way through the period, unless you mean gelatine pauses it for a bit?
Not sure how you'd know when your period was going to start, down to the hour, so you could delay it by 6 hours or whatever anyway. |
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"You can get over the counter drugs to postpone your period for a good few days. Also the good old fashioned contraceptive pill stops it almost immediately and you can stop taking it after the event. Also I have learned a trick to delay your period, after day 3 of your period mix a sachet of geletine with some hot water to dissolve it then add some cooler water so you can drink it (about half a pint of liquid in total after cool water has been added). For me it delays my period for a couple of days but is meant to delay it for about 6 hours, it only really works towards the end of your period however.
There's always a way around having your period.
How does it delay it if you've already started? Day 3 is part way through the period, unless you mean gelatine pauses it for a bit?
Not sure how you'd know when your period was going to start, down to the hour, so you could delay it by 6 hours or whatever anyway. "
You can delay your period mid way through. It really is as simple as taking the contraceptive pill and it stops. Also as I said the gelatine trick can be done on day 3 of your flow, so once your period starts on or after day 3 you drink the gelatine and it stops it. It works for me everytime. It comes back and carries on for the remaining time you had left. Simples! |
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By *apkingMan 27 weeks ago
Stockport |
"Seems I (mrs) have a bit dodgy luck this year, for majority of the events we have lined up to attend I'm due on.
I always use protection, regardless but I just want to know the general scope as to whether men are still happy to play with women who are menstruating or whether they find it mega off-putting?
(Personally I LOVE it )"
I have played many of time when the female was menstruating and it doesn’t bother me. But Mainly with girls I have been intimate with. If I was in a scenario with a one night stand and we was playing/teasing each other then I got told your on your period I would be gutted thinking that’s it. But if she wants to carry on then can’t lie it deffo turn me on more |
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By *apkingMan 27 weeks ago
Stockport |
"The first couple of days are a bit…too much. From there onwards if there is still some blood, it becomes my excuse to play with the other little hole  "
“When the river runs red, take the dirt track instead “
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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"You can get over the counter drugs to postpone your period for a good few days. Also the good old fashioned contraceptive pill stops it almost immediately and you can stop taking it after the event. Also I have learned a trick to delay your period, after day 3 of your period mix a sachet of geletine with some hot water to dissolve it then add some cooler water so you can drink it (about half a pint of liquid in total after cool water has been added). For me it delays my period for a couple of days but is meant to delay it for about 6 hours, it only really works towards the end of your period however.
There's always a way around having your period.
How does it delay it if you've already started? Day 3 is part way through the period, unless you mean gelatine pauses it for a bit?
Not sure how you'd know when your period was going to start, down to the hour, so you could delay it by 6 hours or whatever anyway.
You can delay your period mid way through. It really is as simple as taking the contraceptive pill and it stops. Also as I said the gelatine trick can be done on day 3 of your flow, so once your period starts on or after day 3 you drink the gelatine and it stops it. It works for me everytime. It comes back and carries on for the remaining time you had left. Simples! "
OK, so it doesn't delay it, it temporarily pauses it. You can't delay something that has already started. |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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"Seems I (mrs) have a bit dodgy luck this year, for majority of the events we have lined up to attend I'm due on.
I always use protection, regardless but I just want to know the general scope as to whether men are still happy to play with women who are menstruating or whether they find it mega off-putting?
(Personally I LOVE it )"
More than happy to, if the woman is absolutely comfortable with it. I find it highly arousing. |
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I love period sex, but with my husband. I can't understand why some men who are in a long term relationship are so put off by it and would want to wear a condom. I wouldn't with a stranger and oral would be off the table. |
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It's a no from us as the Mrs has to much pain and just doesn't feel sexy. It also makes for a nice little break as we're always at it and then the build up for when she's done. Always so good to feel her again when she's done and the session is usually very hot. |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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One thing no one has mentioned here is just how difficult each woman’s menstrual cycle is. Surely that’s going to play a huge part in whether you will feel comfortable having sex at that time?
Some are lucky enough to have only the lightest of bleeds where others bleed very heavily for days on end.
I can’t imagine in somewhere like a club setting the latter would be acceptable.
It’s certainly true that most women do feel incredibly horny during their period tho.
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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"One thing no one has mentioned here is just how difficult each woman’s menstrual cycle is. Surely that’s going to play a huge part in whether you will feel comfortable having sex at that time?
Some are lucky enough to have only the lightest of bleeds where others bleed very heavily for days on end.
I can’t imagine in somewhere like a club setting the latter would be acceptable.
It’s certainly true that most women do feel incredibly horny during their period tho.
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They let "squirters", and also men, into clubs... I'd rather fuck on a grim plastic covered mattress lightly wet wiped after period sex than lightly wet wiped after being pissed or cum on I think? The viscosity is higher than wee and volume lower than both... |
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By *ppicplCouple 22 weeks ago
Glasgow |
Mr and I love it, which is just as well considering how frequent and heavy mine can be. If my menstrual cramps are bad there are positions that help - or does it just take my mind off it : D Not so sure about period sex during casual meets but maybe more to do with not wanting to run up a dry cleaning bill for a stranger’s sofa! And wouldn’t want someone going down there so would miss the oral. Lovely to hear there are guys who would play at that time though - I like your ‘can do’ attitude  |
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I'm super horny during my period, might not feel sexy, but definitely up for sex, and added bonus it can help ease any cramps and back pain. Don't expect sexy outfits.
Tend to find a lot of fab men are in the no column for period sex though, squicks them out. Although I hadn't considered it from a fluid/safety aspect as mentioned in this thread. That hasn't been the reason I've been given though.
Appreciate it can get messy, but we can shower afterwards, it all comes off. Chuck a towel down to protect the sheets.
Men who are not afraid to dip in the red ink are very sexy! |
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"Seems I (mrs) have a bit dodgy luck this year, for majority of the events we have lined up to attend I'm due on.
I always use protection, regardless but I just want to know the general scope as to whether men are still happy to play with women who are menstruating or whether they find it mega off-putting?
(Personally I LOVE it )"
Love it too ! A lady of mine cancelled a meet due her period coming on. I told her I love it. Waiting for her to call me during a future period.
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"Seems I (mrs) have a bit dodgy luck this year, for majority of the events we have lined up to attend I'm due on.
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I had Depo injections and never had periods, then after my last baby a coil fitted and I didn't have periods with that either. |
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I couldn't. I'd feel very self conscious. It's annoying as can muck up plans for club nights and meets. I'm debating whether it would be complete torture to go to a club and not play with regards to full sex if my cycle clashes. 😭 |
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As with all aspects it's about open and honest communication. I'm completely unfazed by it but understand that some people are, aslong as the lady in question is completely comfortable and all parties are aware then put an extra towel down and get cracking! |
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