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Was just enquiring about a private party set up for chloes birth day? Anyone got any tips for such as
venue
Etiquette
Sort of people to invite
How many etc.... all tips or info would be appreciated just wanna try get a night set up for this girl to feel like the most special in world.
I want her to feel like the queen or princess I see her ass even if it's for one day. if anyone could help in any way I'd owe a life time of gratitude 🙏  |
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If it is your first party then I would suggest you try and make sure you know most (if not all) the people you are inviting. You need to expect that most of the guys (and probably a few of the couples) will drop out unless they have been to a party or meet before. Go for people who are (well) veried as they are less likely to flake on you. |
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"If it is your first party then I would suggest you try and make sure you know most (if not all) the people you are inviting. You need to expect that most of the guys (and probably a few of the couples) will drop out unless they have been to a party or meet before. Go for people who are (well) veried as they are less likely to flake on you."
Again I would echo the same and say the success of a party is often in the selection of the quests invited. Because the biggest factor that makes a awesome party is people. Get the people right the rest will sort its self out.
How's your social circle on the scene? Good Freinds and simply acquaintances who you bump into occasionally/contact with? Do you have freinds who's judgement you can trust regards people they know who you should invite maybe? |
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"If it is your first party then I would suggest you try and make sure you know most (if not all) the people you are inviting. You need to expect that most of the guys (and probably a few of the couples) will drop out unless they have been to a party or meet before. Go for people who are (well) veried as they are less likely to flake on you."
Thank you so if we want 5 invit 20 or 10 |
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"If it is your first party then I would suggest you try and make sure you know most (if not all) the people you are inviting. You need to expect that most of the guys (and probably a few of the couples) will drop out unless they have been to a party or meet before. Go for people who are (well) veried as they are less likely to flake on you.
Again I would echo the same and say the success of a party is often in the selection of the quests invited. Because the biggest factor that makes a awesome party is people. Get the people right the rest will sort its self out.
How's your social circle on the scene? Good Freinds and simply acquaintances who you bump into occasionally/contact with? Do you have freinds who's judgement you can trust regards people they know who you should invite maybe?"
yeah but 5 couples or such won't find in small rooms like I need small bit more than this I need details of don't go lower than thi size of room or bnb etc but thanks anyway .. also guess do I just ask everyone at random more numbers type stuff law of averages or so I just try make it tight with like 3 we know |
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"If it is your first party then I would suggest you try and make sure you know most (if not all) the people you are inviting. You need to expect that most of the guys (and probably a few of the couples) will drop out unless they have been to a party or meet before. Go for people who are (well) veried as they are less likely to flake on you.
Again I would echo the same and say the success of a party is often in the selection of the quests invited. Because the biggest factor that makes a awesome party is people. Get the people right the rest will sort its self out.
How's your social circle on the scene? Good Freinds and simply acquaintances who you bump into occasionally/contact with? Do you have freinds who's judgement you can trust regards people they know who you should invite maybe?"
As for soical side veris as me the male can cause others to be devisive and sir th pot my females goes with flow we have a few couples who speak to us but also have said to us that we are out the age group which has made just socialising alot eager but couples our age range don't really see is as viable options to speak to or meet as there's so many for everyone to choose from on here not like we are winning any popularity contests |
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Given that your partner only wants to play with women I would consider suggesting she go to a OneNight party or Fem/Femme only party. They’re amazing fun. The chances of finding one woman to be a third, let alone 5-10, would be inordinately low. Best of luck though! May the odds be ever in your favour. |
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"If it is your first party then I would suggest you try and make sure you know most (if not all) the people you are inviting. You need to expect that most of the guys (and probably a few of the couples) will drop out unless they have been to a party or meet before. Go for people who are (well) veried as they are less likely to flake on you.
Again I would echo the same and say the success of a party is often in the selection of the quests invited. Because the biggest factor that makes a awesome party is people. Get the people right the rest will sort its self out.
How's your social circle on the scene? Good Freinds and simply acquaintances who you bump into occasionally/contact with? Do you have freinds who's judgement you can trust regards people they know who you should invite maybe?"
Just realise yiu said trust in general I believe yiu shouldn't trust anyone as that then allows you to be placed in a position of durability me I don't ever trust anyone I just agree with what they say but deep down in my head I know humans are one of very few animals to lie so why would I trust anyone when even yiur family money and spouse lies to yiu and anyone saying otherwise must not really be getting lied to or is a suckered an believe the lies  |
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"Given that your partner only wants to play with women I would consider suggesting she go to a OneNight party or Fem/Femme only party. They’re amazing fun. The chances of finding one woman to be a third, let alone 5-10, would be inordinately low. Best of luck though! May the odds be ever in your favour."
we aren't looking for just women we are looking for female and couples males of couples are more than welcome , and also so my girl goes to female party how does that help me host a party for her?
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"Given that your partner only wants to play with women I would consider suggesting she go to a OneNight party or Fem/Femme only party. They’re amazing fun. The chances of finding one woman to be a third, let alone 5-10, would be inordinately low. Best of luck though! May the odds be ever in your favour. we aren't looking for just women we are looking for female and couples males of couples are more than welcome , and also so my girl goes to female party how does that help me host a party for her?"
You haven’t asked for profile advice, so I shan’t give it. That said you may wish to review it before approaching couples as there is a lack of congruency which may put people off.
Others have given excellent advice in terms of keeping it to couples within your social circle especially for the first one. That way you’ll also be to play. If you haven’t got the network, there is always next year. I genuinely hope it goes well, birthday bangs are the best! |
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"Given that your partner only wants to play with women I would consider suggesting she go to a OneNight party or Fem/Femme only party. They’re amazing fun. The chances of finding one woman to be a third, let alone 5-10, would be inordinately low. Best of luck though! May the odds be ever in your favour. we aren't looking for just women we are looking for female and couples males of couples are more than welcome , and also so my girl goes to female party how does that help me host a party for her?
You haven’t asked for profile advice, so I shan’t give it. That said you may wish to review it before approaching couples as there is a lack of congruency which may put people off.
Others have given excellent advice in terms of keeping it to couples within your social circle especially for the first one. That way you’ll also be to play. If you haven’t got the network, there is always next year. I genuinely hope it goes well, birthday bangs are the best! "
Wait wat? Advice? How is that the case we states in profile what we looking for both couples and female just because she is in a bi exploration stage doesn't mean she isn't still attracted to males ? And also would be hard enough finding couples let alone single female wo only wanna meet one couple and female I don't get what yiu mean her maybe I wrote it wrong but just asking for tips and yiur tip is what exactly? Don't want two parties only stick to one group of sex type? |
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"Given that your partner only wants to play with women I would consider suggesting she go to a OneNight party or Fem/Femme only party. They’re amazing fun. The chances of finding one woman to be a third, let alone 5-10, would be inordinately low. Best of luck though! May the odds be ever in your favour. we aren't looking for just women we are looking for female and couples males of couples are more than welcome , and also so my girl goes to female party how does that help me host a party for her?
You haven’t asked for profile advice, so I shan’t give it. That said you may wish to review it before approaching couples as there is a lack of congruency which may put people off.
Others have given excellent advice in terms of keeping it to couples within your social circle especially for the first one. That way you’ll also be to play. If you haven’t got the network, there is always next year. I genuinely hope it goes well, birthday bangs are the best! "
Got a network yes but also that being said does everyone wanna bang us no and also that being said do I want sex no I wa Ted chloe to have na experience she wouldn't forget not me her , |
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"Given that your partner only wants to play with women I would consider suggesting she go to a OneNight party or Fem/Femme only party. They’re amazing fun. The chances of finding one woman to be a third, let alone 5-10, would be inordinately low. Best of luck though! May the odds be ever in your favour. we aren't looking for just women we are looking for female and couples males of couples are more than welcome , and also so my girl goes to female party how does that help me host a party for her?
You haven’t asked for profile advice, so I shan’t give it. That said you may wish to review it before approaching couples as there is a lack of congruency which may put people off.
Others have given excellent advice in terms of keeping it to couples within your social circle especially for the first one. That way you’ll also be to play. If you haven’t got the network, there is always next year. I genuinely hope it goes well, birthday bangs are the best!
Wait wat? Advice? How is that the case we states in profile what we looking for both couples and female just because she is in a bi exploration stage doesn't mean she isn't still attracted to males ? And also would be hard enough finding couples let alone single female wo only wanna meet one couple and female I don't get what yiu mean her maybe I wrote it wrong but just asking for tips and yiur tip is what exactly? Don't want two parties only stick to one group of sex type?"
Your profile says in CAPS that ms isn’t meeting men. There are quite a few contradictory statements and exclusions that might make it difficult. The tip, if I was unclear is to read your profile from a perspective couple that doesn’t know you.
You will have seen from our veris that we run socials, parties and group meets. If your invite only strangers you’ll be doing more hosting than playing and managing the limits, boundaries etc. Personally, for a first party I would do something with less risk of impacting a, potentially, special day to her if it goes off poorly. Which some do when the group doesn’t gel.
There is absolutely no reason to become defensive, you asked for tips and I have given you some in line with this post and your extensive profile and listed requirements (MMA).
I truly do want whatever you do to go well! It really is great fun when it does. |
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