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So was having a frisky convo with a woman a few days ago went to message today and it says message deleted but we are still friends on here? so does that mean she’s no longer interested? Don’t want to turn into a man with repeat messages and harass her but my kitty is still throbbing from convo we had. Any advice please  |
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Going get him to message her then technically it wouldn’t be me she’s blanking didn’t know it would be such a mine field ha I wouldn’t normally be bothered I love a good flirt with anyone but Jesus this one had me on the edge  |
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I'd leave the ball in their court, potentially reviewing in a month or so. Or delete, as you see fit. It's personal preferences for much of this, including inbox/friend engagement levels and interest. |
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This is what I was thinking didn’t wanna give her the ick turns out she was just being a brat on her way now for me to fix her attitude  don’t think I’ll ever be able to go back to Normal life after fab haha |
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Way we see it, if they've deleted the message, then that's it. Clearly not interested in going any further. Sending another message would probably not go down well. If they message us again in the future, no problem, but the ball is in their court then. |
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"This is what I was thinking didn’t wanna give her the ick turns out she was just being a brat on her way now for me to fix her attitude don’t think I’ll ever be able to go back to Normal life after fab haha "
She's on her way to you? Sounds like it worked out well. Repeat male messages and ick averted  |
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Some people do delete their inbox and then ironically fall behind with their fabmin.
Don't reply. Give it a bit of time. If she doesn't reply back in the next couple of weeks you can always fire out another message. If still no reply I think you have your answer. Fab is a fickle place. |
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"I all ways see the men moaning about being blocked after first message but I’d 100% prefer that nice clear answer ha"
That's why you are a woman isn't it? Lol.
Women and men are different in terms of life and the challenges that comes with it. You will deal with a deluge of messages wanting a meet; your male counterparts will struggle to get a reply from the myraids of messages he has sent, hoping for his inbox message to light up yellow 😂😂; meanwhile you have yours bu,zling withbover 300 messages and possibly a new one ever 5 mins.
Why will u bother about 1 from the myraids blocking you?
Why won't the gentleman worry about not getting any response from the myraids he has sent out, and taking his time to go through the messages he has sent only to see over 25 haven't even read the message; 7 out of them have deleted and the remaining that have read wouldn't bother to reply! 😂😂😂😅🤣.
Now ma'am, please tell me why u as the woman will worry and why shouldn't the man in this case worry? 😂😂😅🤣.
The experiences are different for both sex ma'am; so never try to use yours to compare with the other as the vantage points are really worlds apart. 😂😅😂 |
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I’d drop another message with a face pic saying you enjoyed the steamy chat the other night and would love to chat again if she’s up for it? Sending a pic with a message is always more successful of getting replied to. NOT a cock pic though |
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Wait iv had a few women accounts chit chat then ask for solo meets but the vibe was off are you saying they where most probably men? been on here 9 weeks for role play but only started taking is seriously a week ago so still new x |
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"I’d drop another message with a face pic saying you enjoyed the steamy chat the other night and would love to chat again if she’s up for it? Sending a pic with a message is always more successful of getting replied to. NOT a cock pic though "
noted soo boobie pics over cock pics?
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"It’s quite easy to catch the delete button. Just be sure it’s actually a woman too what do you mean? I’m currently trauma free from this site haha "
I’ve never had a spicy conversation with a women in all my years on fab. Just saying check it’s actually a woman you are chatting to and not a bloke would avoid any sexual chat before you’ve actually met anyone. |
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"Wait iv had a few women accounts chit chat then ask for solo meets but the vibe was off are you saying they where most probably men? been on here 9 weeks for role play but only started taking is seriously a week ago so still new x "
Exactly that  |
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"I’d drop another message with a face pic saying you enjoyed the steamy chat the other night and would love to chat again if she’s up for it? Sending a pic with a message is always more successful of getting replied to. NOT a cock pic though noted soo boobie pics over cock pics? "
Absolutely. also, as others have said before, make sure it’s a female you’re speaking to. Check their profile has recent veri’s from meets and don’t be afraid to ask for a direct photo to prove they are real. If they are genuine, they won’t mind.
I’ve been catfished twice when going for a meet… so will not get burnt again. |
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I’ll be honest I need the spicy chat for get the mind going then I take my proposal to my partner in the hope It pleases him. so chat can get extreme because I would hands down do what ever that man tells me to it’s tough out here :’) |
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"I’ll be honest I need the spicy chat for get the mind going then I take my proposal to my partner in the hope It pleases him. so chat can get extreme because I would hands down do what ever that man tells me to it’s tough out here :’) "
Your inbox is about to be flooded now 😂 |
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"I’ll be honest I need the spicy chat for get the mind going then I take my proposal to my partner in the hope It pleases him. so chat can get extreme because I would hands down do what ever that man tells me to it’s tough out here :’) "
If it’s women you are looking for, I don’t think you’ll find that from a woman on fab to be honest. |
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You’d be surprised there’s something for everyone on fab just have to tap in to your part but even I learnt my limits when a brother and sister propositioned us that’s been the only one I have blocked |
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I'd probably wait and see if she gets back to you op, I tend to delete messages when I feel like the conversation has come to an end.
I only chat to men, but if someone messaged me when they were feeling horny again, I'd probably delete it tbh. So if you do get in touch, I'd say don't go straight to the dirty chat. |
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"So was having a frisky convo with a woman a few days ago went to message today and it says message deleted but we are still friends on here? so does that mean she’s no longer interested? Don’t want to turn into a man with repeat messages and harass her but my kitty is still throbbing from convo we had. Any advice please "
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