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By (user no longer on site) OP 16 weeks ago
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I really like using fab to try find people to talk to and meet up with for fun but don’t really know what I’m doing in the way of organising meets or how the whole talking with others on here. Any tips or advice would be appreciated |
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Op when you message someone on here you are firstly doing really well to get them to read it. That’s the first challenge
The second challenge is to make the message interesting enough for them to want to look at your profile. My advice, and it is only advice, don’t be lazy with just a “hi” and don’t make it look like a cut and paste message but also don’t go too long or specific. Reference something in their profile
Make your profile interesting but honest to you. For me all the posts on help me with my profile are pointless. That means someone else is writing your profile or if we all took the same advice they would all be the same
Make it unique to you
With regards to meeting. People will recommend a club, as a single male or a single anyone that’s hard, as a male we pay a lot more and for all singles it initially takes a lot of nerves
But clubs are no guarantee of getting any “fun”, for most that go looking for fun they will end up disappointed
So that said you’d think it’s impossible
It’s not
The meets I have had this time and previously have messaged me first
The forums are a great way to be seen but can be positive or negative reaction to you
Don’t rely on Fab for a way to meet people and don’t think every meet will end up with sex
Lastly the green arrow by someone’s name is often used. You’ve posted twice about the same thing in a short period of time so are you really interested in any advice given? |
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