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By *ipsSoSoft OP   Couple 16 weeks ago

Rotherham

Just interested to what puts couples off our profile and us as a couple inparticular?

Any feedback welcome good or bad.

Just interested so we know kind of where we are with things etc.

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By *r SproutMan 16 weeks ago

the middle

I’m not a couple but i would say there needs to be a 4 way attraction when couples are looking for other couples.

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By *oralltherightreasonsCouple 16 weeks ago

WELLINGBOROUGH

For us it would be distance, and the fact we are out your age range otherwise we would wink or message

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By *icecouple561Couple 16 weeks ago
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East Sussex

We're way older than your age range but in general I'd say your profile is quite negative.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman 16 weeks ago

South Down

The dig at other body types would put me off. You can be one thing without putting down those who are different.

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple 16 weeks ago

manchester


"Just interested to what puts couples off our profile and us as a couple inparticular?

Any feedback welcome good or bad.

Just interested so we know kind of where we are with things etc."

Not sure this is a can of worms you necessarily want to open.

Most people’s initial response to a profile will be on physical attraction and that’s where we would be out. You can have an amazing profile but without physical attraction it becomes infinitely more difficult.

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago

Too many emojis on your pics

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By *rpeggioCouple 16 weeks ago

Baughurst

Nothing wrong from our point of view with the profile text, or the photos, at least nothing that would stop us from replying or reaching out. So I'd say that if you don't get attention from couples of your age range and catchment area, them it must be mostly attraction, which is a fickle thing for MF-MF.

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By *andPextraCouple 16 weeks ago

North West


"Nothing wrong from our point of view with the profile text, or the photos, at least nothing that would stop us from replying or reaching out. So I'd say that if you don't get attention from couples of your age range and catchment area, them it must be mostly attraction, which is a fickle thing for MF-MF."

Pretty much this. Nothing on the profile that would be a red flag to us (bar the useless follow the herd waning at the end), so it's down to everyone being attracted I suppose.

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By *moothGrooveWoman 16 weeks ago

Durham

Your profile doesn't make you sound particular friendly or approachable

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By *itygamesMan 16 weeks ago

UK

Hiyyyas

?

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By *ardhatCharlieMan 16 weeks ago

Northwest


"Just interested to what puts couples off our profile and us as a couple inparticular?

Any feedback welcome good or bad.

Just interested so we know kind of where we are with things etc."

For me it's the fact you're not looking for single men.

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By *orwichCoupleDCCouple 16 weeks ago

Norwich


"Just interested to what puts couples off our profile and us as a couple inparticular?

Any feedback welcome good or bad.

Just interested so we know kind of where we are with things etc.

Not sure this is a can of worms you necessarily want to open.

Most people’s initial response to a profile will be on physical attraction and that’s where we would be out. You can have an amazing profile but without physical attraction it becomes infinitely more difficult."

This!

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By *oxy jWoman 16 weeks ago

somerset


"The dig at other body types would put me off. You can be one thing without putting down those who are different. "

100% this

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By *m2226Couple 16 weeks ago

Birmingham

One word messages, guys that don’t read the profile. Guys that message saying “free now for a fuck” then expecting us to go yeah here’s the address

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By *r SproutMan 16 weeks ago

the middle


"One word messages, guys that don’t read the profile. Guys that message saying “free now for a fuck” then expecting us to go yeah here’s the address "

Read the original post and see if you can spot the irony in what you just typed 🙄

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By *m2226Couple 16 weeks ago

Birmingham

We get that, we’re just adding what puts us off as a couple xx

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By *herrybakewellCouple 16 weeks ago

Staffordshire

The whole couples thing is incredibly difficult to find.

We also find it very difficult, but we keep searching.

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By *stwo60Couple 16 weeks ago

Hampshire

This sounds really pedantic, but we are a little put off with bad spelling and grammar.

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By *allySlinkyWoman 16 weeks ago

Leeds

All your pics are very similar. Fully clothed with a heart emoji.

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago


"This sounds really pedantic, but we are a little put off with bad spelling and grammar."

We feel the same, suggests lack of attention to detail to us.

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By *allySlinkyWoman 16 weeks ago

Leeds

Your text says "both 33" but the profile says 34

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By *issfrogstompWoman 16 weeks ago

Oxford


"This sounds really pedantic, but we are a little put off with bad spelling and grammar.

We feel the same, suggests lack of attention to detail to us. "

The random capitalisation of the letter a is a no for me

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By *rcadian110Couple 16 weeks ago

Barnsley

for us there is nothing really wrong with your profile. the pics show some personallity and also shows both of you which can be rare. we are out of your age range but you seem like nice people from your actual written profile too. try going to clubs, we have always found it easier to meet people and see if we click with no awkwardness in a club. plus there are a lot more friends to be met there too lol. give it time. im sure you guys will do well

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By *revaunanceCouple 16 weeks ago

Exeter

The word 'yas'; will the correct word 'you' not do the job?

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple 16 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire


"The word 'yas'; will the correct word 'you' not do the job?"

Not really. Pretending to be someone that you're not on your profile is pretty dumb because you'll end up wasting everyone's time.

Just be yourself, warts and all.

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By *andPextraCouple 16 weeks ago

North West


"This sounds really pedantic, but we are a little put off with bad spelling and grammar.

We feel the same, suggests lack of attention to detail to us. "

We use grammar as a filter. Before anyone jumps down my throat, I understand some people have conditions whereby it's not their fault. I more mean things like "you's" (my particular pet hate) or where they have simply unloaded their brain and it reads like Vikki Pollard. We are not going to get on, so for us it's a viable filter.

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By *WANDTGCouple 16 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

Text talk messaging, especially from anyone over 50 !

Give me prose, punctuation and grammar all day long.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan 16 weeks ago

London & North Wessex Downs

Sitting back with my popcorn for a VERY long list

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple 16 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire


"We use grammar as a filter. Before anyone jumps down my throat, I understand some people have conditions whereby it's not their fault. I more mean things like "you's" (my particular pet hate) or where they have simply unloaded their brain and it reads like Vikki Pollard. We are not going to get on, so for us it's a viable filter."

So why feel the need to mention it? If everyone starts running their profile through a grammar checker, then your filter won't work any more.

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