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Morning all ,
Something I have been thinking about trying for a while is a gangbang , though not entirely sure how many people constitute a gangbang so I'll just aim for group naughtiness!
I'd like to have met , even just socially, the vast majority of the men involved , but if some were friends of a guy I know and trust then that would also be ok.
I'm thinking in advance as I probably won't be able to do this till mid May when I have more free time. Also thought giving plenty of notice would help...
Does anyone have any tips for me? I am sure there are people on here with experience of arranging such things  |
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over a year ago
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Why not message some of the guys that have recently verified you and see if they'd be interested? If so you've already met them si know you get on and can assume that they are reliable. |
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Well I already know some would be, so that's a start 
More curious as to where is best place to have one, are hotels easy enough to sneak this kind of thing past ... I've had hotel meets before but not with more than 1 other person lol. Do I nominate a 'leader' who keeps an eye on what's going on... I'm sure there must be something I've not thought of. |
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I would suggest you have a guy there who you trust and know; maybe not even playing but just keeping an eye out for you and making sure that no one breaks your rules.
Maybe he could be someone you had met before who knew you would play with him again after the gangbang or some later date one on one !
I had hotel meet where we have got me and two couples in past the reception without raising an eyebrow, not sure about a gang of guys though... never thought about it so how difficult it would be i dont know.
If it were a big hotel and they were walking in alone rather than in a group i dont know if there would be an issue or not.
Have fun if you manage to arrange it xxx
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You do need someone there, who isn't part of the action, to keep an eye on things such as ensuring that condoms are worn, that you're comfortable etc. That is the most important one to have in the room with you and needs to be someone you can trust. Alternatively you may have a local 'event' organiser who could do that for you and even find a suitable venue. |
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I think I need to find me a local event organiser hehe.
A lot of hotels these days are getting pretty tight on security - the one I most recently stayed at, you need to swipe your key card 3 times between the front door and your room!
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Wow good advice as we've been thinking exactly the same thing recently want to try a gangbang but really not sure how to go about it and where to hold it |
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I've messaged you a few ideas.
As to how many. Be warned. You start at a low number and keep moving up.
Good luck. And I'm always happy to be the person looking out for a girl at a gangbang. and means the lady can relax. I also can always recommend groups too. And take photos. |
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Our advice would be.
1. Book an apartment/apart hotel and ask for a donation towards this.
2. Have someone you trust as zoo keeper, if it's a she then suggest she doesn't play as she will be as busy as you. A he can play but always be aware of what's going on.
3. If possible make it guys you know, it only takes one to behave inappropriately to spoil the get together.
4. If you're going to invite guys you don't know try and make it guys who are experienced in group play.
5. Be clear on your rules and parameters before you start and have your zookeeper clearly explain them to the participants. That way you don't have to feel awkward in explaining them and it will let the guys know that you've got someone looking out for you. These rules should include what you don't like and how long you want the fun to last, nothing worse than people out staying their welcome.
6. Enjoy!! |
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I will happily recommend a group I've used and met a few of at other things. They work well together and are respectful.
They are based around junction 36 but can and do travel sometimes too. |
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OP, My tip for you would be .... use a swingers club.
Go on a night when single guys are welcomed, and as others have said, take along a trusted friend who will ensure that ALL rules are respected (i.e. condoms).
Have a great night! |
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"Thanks for the input I've contacted the group Cali suggested so will see what happens! "
if you ever fancy a greedy girls night at a club. Then let me know. Xxx |
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"Rather than a hotel, have you considered renting an apartment,, most towns and certainly cities have them, split the cost between all parties,, much more private,
Its often said to invite more guys than you want as theres likely to be guys that dont turn up   "
All good suggestions. Just be sure you read small print of apartments BEFORE booking lol. We recently booked an apartment and once we read the small print it talked about only those named on the booking reference were allowed in appartment and there would be a hefty fine of others were found in the apartment at any time lol. Ok so maybe we wouldn't have been caught but we though best not chance it as we expected 10 guys lol. We rented a lodge instead as it was same price as apartment and was seperate so no worries about reception.
Social is always good as helps out the ones who are timewasters. I always say if you can't make a social you are not invited to meet unless we have met before. And it gives you a chance to mingle and everyone get to know each other before the event.
Always invite extra as there will always be some who can't make it last minute. Last one I had my "leader" had to back out last minute for genuine reasons so it happens.
I find friends of friends are good. |
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We've held a few and always invited at least double the number we wanted.
We're not bothered about getting on with them socially as they're there to fuck. We always check they've verifications for group activities or they can let you down as we have found out to our cost.
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"Morning all ,
Something I have been thinking about trying for a while is a gangbang , though not entirely sure how many people constitute a gangbang so I'll just aim for group naughtiness!
I'd like to have met , even just socially, the vast majority of the men involved , but if some were friends of a guy I know and trust then that would also be ok.
I'm thinking in advance as I probably won't be able to do this till mid May when I have more free time. Also thought giving plenty of notice would help...
Does anyone have any tips for me? I am sure there are people on here with experience of arranging such things "
Hey hun. I am arranging one for my 40th. In 27th April. Me and newbie004 are doing it together as we look out for one another.
I'm just in the process of getting a venue. Again like you I like to know who I am fucking, so a lot of my previous meets have been invited.at least then there are guys that you can trust.
You would be very welcome to join us on the night if you want to just observe to see what happens etc... Besides..we kinda know each other now...and you would be in a safe environment. That's one of the reasons me n newbie go out together. For safety.
Let me know if you are interested hun XX |
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