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By (user no longer on site) OP 17 weeks ago
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Hey,
We are brand new to the scene (started this account a while ago but didn't really use it for more than a few pictures) - and would like to find some parties.
We always imagined there would be lots of kinky country manor-type parties - with maybe 20 or 30 happy couples...
Where do you find these types of events?
Thanks |
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There are plenty that are run commercially (e.g. Killing Kittens are advertising one in October literally called "Country Mansion").
If you mean private parties, then access is through trust - you get involved in the scene, make friends and connections, show you're trustworthy and respectful and see what comes your way. |
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"Hey,
We are brand new to the scene (started this account a while ago but didn't really use it for more than a few pictures) - and would like to find some parties.
We always imagined there would be lots of kinky country manor-type parties - with maybe 20 or 30 happy couples...
Where do you find these types of events?
Thanks"
You do not find the really exclusive party they find you. |
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By *oxy jWoman 17 weeks ago
somerset |
"Hey,
We are brand new to the scene (started this account a while ago but didn't really use it for more than a few pictures) - and would like to find some parties.
We always imagined there would be lots of kinky country manor-type parties - with maybe 20 or 30 happy couples...
Where do you find these types of events?
Thanks You do not find the really exclusive party they find you. "
this 100% they are private for a reason they all know each other the best way is to get to know people and then hope one day you get invited ..
dont forget alot have gone back to private parties because of all the messing around its going back underground it eliminates 99% of guys and eliminates those who dont really swing...
some private parties are advertised but i think your find they are mostly money earners
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"Hey,
We are brand new to the scene (started this account a while ago but didn't really use it for more than a few pictures) - and would like to find some parties.
We always imagined there would be lots of kinky country manor-type parties - with maybe 20 or 30 happy couples...
Where do you find these types of events?
Thanks"
Once upon a time, they'd be regular posted in the meet section on fab. Then Fab got over run by fake accounts, single guys and time wasters so they became more exclusive / rare.
Even small house parties are rare on fab these days. Used to see them constantly in our region pre lockdown but last few years....not one advertised on here.
These days you need to be "in the know" with someone who runs them to be invited or seeked out by those people who run them.
Best thing you can do if you want to get invites to those sort of events is build up a social network. Go to organised social events for swingers or swinger clubs. Make freinds and hopefully you'll be connected with the people who host them.
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By *orny PTMan 17 weeks ago
Peterborough |
Go to a club and social, get socialising a lot and start building up your friends list, then one day you'll get an email inviting you to a private house party, because you have proved yourself to a host and are now allowed into an inner circle, that is a house party.
Nothing is guaranteed, but you are responsible for your own publicity.
This is a long game, that can take years to play out. |
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Those 'exclusive' commercial ones you need to apply for and include full length pics and basically if your face and body don't fit then you're not in!
As others have said ... there are more private ones that happen but it is a case of being in the 'know' usually.
Maybe just try some clubs and see how they feel to you?
K
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By *rpeggioCouple 17 weeks ago
Baughurst |
We help to organise monthly parties for couples and women at a private house, about 20-25 couples. They are not for profit so they are not advertised in our profile or the Fab meets section, or the profile of the host. They are invite only from the host, from us, or from close friends of the host.
Take the advice from people here to go to socials and become verified and known by many people. For example, We would not invite you two unless/until you are verified.
We also look for compatibility with other guests, we like people that attend clubs and other parties, because they are more likely to fit in. You may or may not be attractive to us, but that's not important, your profile interests are what is important, so you may not fit into a particular party but be perfect for another.
Good luck with the socials! |
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"Those 'exclusive' commercial ones you need to apply for and include full length pics and basically if your face and body don't fit then you're not in!
As others have said ... there are more private ones that happen but it is a case of being in the 'know' usually.
Maybe just try some clubs and see how they feel to you?
K
X"
Clubs is definitely the way forward. I love the club scene and have been lucky enough to be invited to events outside the club environment. Definitely a long game and don't expect anything to happen sooner, friends and trust is key. Wish you the best of luck x |
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