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Newbies struggling to make connections….,
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By *wanting3 OP Couple 21 weeks ago
st Austell |
Hi, couple looking for genuine connections with single female, friendships and kinky fun, not having any luck, could anyone point us in the right direction regarding our profile? Also thinking about first club outing…. Where is best for newbie’s??
Thanks for any advice xx
Deb & Brett  |
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"Hi, could anyone point us in the right direction regarding our profile? "
Your profile says you are looking for a lady to play with you both, yet there isn't a single picture of the man on your profile.
Also, except for your profile pic, all other photos are of the lady's bottom. Not enough variety ! Personally I am more attracted to breasts than bottoms. |
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By *an1978Woman 21 weeks ago
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Hey there, welcome to Fab, it takes a while to get going.
A social is definitely a good way to start off, no pressure, you know you are chatting and flirting with like-minded people.
Your profile has no information about the male half.
And it reads that you just want to find a woman for you both to have sex with. Which tends to put off single bi women.
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OP, you have already been given loads of great advice but my bit is, get yourselves verified as soon as you can. You can achieve that by going to a club (if that's your thing) or a social. Also, it is much easier to meet people in person than just through Fab. Especially as you are looking for the most sought after category on here, bi women who are happy to play with both from a couple. |
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One more thing I forgot to mention- according to your profile, you can't accommodate. Are you expecting the single lady to be able to accommodate? Bear in mind it's much more risky for a single person to invite two strangers into their home. Maybe explain the possible arrangements on your profile? |
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I’m not your target audience but seems like just another couple looking for a sex toy to fulfil their fantasy.
Not much for a said lady you’re so desperately looking for. Some great advice above to take into consideration, good luck. |
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By *wanting3 OP Couple 21 weeks ago
st Austell |
Will add that to profile as this is a great point, I can sum up - we live with our teenage children, we wouldn’t expect anything like having the lady host us especially without knowing us well! But thanks for the feedback, I think it’s obvious we need to work on our bio and content  |
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By *wanting3 OP Couple 21 weeks ago
st Austell |
Thank you to everyone who has taken the time to reply with help for us, it’s been very helpful and we appreciate the honest feedback, just one more question, when and where do I find social meets?  |
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"Thank you to everyone who has taken the time to reply with help for us, it’s been very helpful and we appreciate the honest feedback, just one more question, when and where do I find social meets? "
Use the reply +quote tab so we know who you are responding to.
Also check out the meets request and parties section of the forums to look for socials to attend.
All the best in your search |
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Good advice in this thread.
Since I (male) control our account I tend to put more photos of her than me but if we were looking for an extra female then it makes sense to be displaying the goods (and I don't mean cocks)
I'm as guilty as most on this site but in mitigation, since I take the photos, I have hundreds of sexy photos of her but theres only a few of me. |
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"Hi, couple looking for genuine connections with single female, friendships and kinky fun, not having any luck, could anyone point us in the right direction regarding our profile? Also thinking about first club outing…. Where is best for newbie’s??
Thanks for any advice xx
Deb & Brett "
Done lose hope, there are fantastic lifestyle people in Cornwall and I’m particularly enamoured with a lovely maid in St Austell  . My advice is go to a Club Utopia night and / or the once a month Secrets night in Totnes - they’re full of sexy friendly people from all over the South West, you’ll have a blast I promise  |
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"Hi, couple looking for genuine connections with single female, friendships and kinky fun, not having any luck, could anyone point us in the right direction regarding our profile? Also thinking about first club outing…. Where is best for newbie’s??
Thanks for any advice xx
Deb & Brett "
Go to a club OR social event. Fab is acctually the worst place to connect with single ladies imo.
So I'm on here with my wife (couples account listed in profile if you feel the urge to check what im saying) and our whole dynamic is about meeting the ladies (though we will meet couples).
I can count on one hand how many single ladies we've met through fab over the years. Not saying it can't happen but it's rare (at least in our area).
Once we started doing clubs and social events however..well...fun times have been had many many times and we've made some great freinds and connections.
The thing with single ladies on fab is...they get swamped with messages and there's always a safety aspect for many of them (which is something we've been told many times).
But you go to a club then its a safe space (or should be). You can socialise, see what happens and go from.there.
Your call (obviously) but sometimes it really is better to put down the phone / turn off the computer and do it the old fashioned way.
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I think clubs are good for newbies, we have the same dynamic as you as we prefer to only play with unicorns. It's not the easiest dynamic as unicorns are so highly in demand. We found that clubs work well for us, we have far more luck when we meet in person. There's simply too many accounts on here and for single bi ladies to chose from, they get so many messages that they just can't respond to all.
The best way to stand out is to go to clubs with events or themes aimed at couples and single ladies only. Connections are also very important, we was introduced to our first unicorn by a couple we had met in the lifestyle as friends. Recommendations are very important and say alot obout the ones that are being recommended. Embrace the lifestyle, make friends and have fun, the rest will follow naturally x
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By *ev_1Couple 21 weeks ago
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Good luck OP Cornwall is quiet at the best of times for swinging fun plus the added difficulties of finding a single female makes it very hard indeed nr impossible but Hooe your dreams come true x |
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